Temitope shared his story with glowville…Read below;
The journey started eight years ago; January 2008
specifically.
The harmattan season was winding off, and I was
bored at home with my childhood friend, Shola. We
decided to put a call across to one of our female
friends – Damilola who finished from the same high
school with us – to come and keep our company. We
expected Damilola to come alone, but on her arrival,
she was with two other friends. One of them was
Tolulope
We welcomed them; but I was a bit surprised when my
father, who didn’t approve of me having female
friends at that time, welcomed them warmly. He even
went as far as offering them fruit juice. It was a
turning point for me. So I just settled down better to
have fun with my visitors.
I noticed one of the girls – Tolulope – was very
reserved; she hardly said a word. I initially thought she
was cold, because she was clad in a jacket. I tried to
force a conversation with her, but she was coy with
her response.
I however made sure to exchange
contacts with her when she was leaving. I did a lot of
fantasizing after she left, but I never really expected
anything to come out of it because I had a girlfriend at
that time.
As at that time, I didn’t have enough money to call
anyone and talk for long minutes, but I thank God for
MTN Xtra Cool, it made it a lot easier for me to talk
with my friends for long hours…at night.
I called Tolu eventually, but she didn’t pick up the first
time. I thought she was still shy and didn’t want to talk
to me, but I gave it a second trial and drew a huge
breath of relief when I heard her voice at the other
end.
Quite interestingly, we interacted that night as if we
had been friends for years. We talked, laughed and
joked…we even went as far as going vulgar at some
point. It made me abhor the notion that she was just
one of those regular cheap girls, so I decided to play
along.
Three days after we met each other, we started dating.
Remember that I had a girlfriend, who was the main
chic. Tolu was then my side chic.
I got the shocker of my life barely after a week we
started dating. Tolu told me she is a virgin.
“How can you be a virgin, with all those naughty things
we talk about?” I queried her.
But she maintained her word and I saw the
seriousness in her eyes. She swore to me and I had to
believe. The relationship blossomed from then.
I was a 200 level student of OAU as at then, but she
was about sitting for her JAMB examination. In my
own little selfishness, I talked her into choosing OAU
in her JAMB form. She readily agreed, and she passed
her exams to gain admission into OAU. By then, I was
already in 300 level.
Her coming to OAU brought us closer, and we were
popular as a couple on campus. OAU students of
those years will testify to how frequently I left my
hostel (ETF) to Mozambique Hall every night to see
her. We had a great relationship, and we also had our
challenges, but love got us through.
We have been dating for eight years now, and in the
next couple of days, we will both be walking down the
aisle to be pronounced man and wife forever.
That is the story of how Tolulope moved from side
chic to main chic, and now to my wife.
The story makes me believe in the theory of fatalism; I
believe it was destined because I never had a good
relationship with other girls except her, no matter how
hard I tried. With her, I have had, and I am still having
the best experience.
There are a few lessons here:
* The fact that a girl gives in to your advances within a
few days of meeting her doesn’t make her cheap. Tolu
agreed to date me two days after we met, and now we
are about getting married.
* Secondly, you shouldn’t judge a lady by the way she
talks or what she says. I have met several ladies who
don’t say half of Tolu says, but none of them is better
than her in terms of morality and chastity.
It’s been nice sharing this story, and I hope we have
learnt a few stuff from it. Thank you very much for this
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