Pls nairalanders! Your advice is need. Am about to settle down with a lady we both love each other, but my problem is that she currently earn times two with additional change of my salary every month. Is there any side effect?

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What is the problem you have with her earning more?

If she truely loves u no wahala,but if she does not u wl b in 4 a big tym.

That you are asking alone shows your gut feeling isn't comfortable with it

You can wait till you are 46,by then I assure you you'd be earning thrice her take home pay. Nonsense

If you are ready for marriage,what she earns is just a plus.

How does she behave with you now? Is she bossy, boastful or humble?
Some women disrespect their husband when they earn more while some
respect their Husband regardless of the huge amount they earn.


It all boils down to her. Also try and step up with getting a better Job that pays well.

Ladies take note, you can't please a man!

Will you be able to swallow your intrinsic pride as a man to be the breadwinner? Do you prefer to pay for meals during dates with your own money and insist she keeps hers? Does she agree when you offer to do this? Is she respectful to her parents especially her father? Does she treat her siblings especially her younger ones nicely? Despite the money she earns is she modest and humble? If the answers to all or most of those questions are no, then I advice you save yourselves the trouble and look for other "alternatives"

Tripletimmy:
Pls nairalanders! Your advice is need. Am about to settle down with a lady we both love each other, but my problem is that she currently earn times two with additional change of my salary every month. Is there any side effect?

There is nothing wrong with that . .

Just ensure you fulfill your RESPONSIBILITIES as a man . . .Don't expect her to always pick up the bills cos she earns more. She might be willing to do them because she can afford it and has nothing to lose, but sooner or later you will begin to lose your respect as the head of the home.

Also, DO NOT ever neglect to treat her like a woman . . take her on date, buy her gifts e.t.c. You may think she can affrd to do those things herself but it's more fulfilling coming from you, her man!

Finally, NEVER EVER become lazy . . . yes she earns more and your family will always be financially stable with her income. But that's not an excuse for you to slack and forget you are a man. Keep making plans for your future, keep making investment keep being financially relevant.

Just my 2 cents!

Mshewwwww.

She no earn more than you wahala
she earn more than you ejo
She's more educated problem
she's not educated headache
she's a house wife,she's lazy
she's not a housewife she too arrogant

Next

Your concern shouldn't be about the value of her earnings.

Are you ripe and ready for marriage? Can you finance a family? Yes she wants marriage, but what do you want?