You know the body language: eye contact and all that. What’s harder is knowing whether he’s interested in a relationship with you, or in getting his rocks off in time for breakfast. According to askmen, here are ten signs he is only after sex.

1. He’s brilliant at eye contact

Eye-contact is extremely seductive – and no-strings men know this. These players are all about getting sex, and they’ll only stay for breakfast if it involves hand relief and a quick goodbye.
Players are masters of body language. They know to lean in as you speak, to brush your arm with theirs and let your knees touch for a moment longer than necessary. Most of all, they’re very good at eye contact.
A guy who wants you for more than sex will be too nervous for all this stuff. He’ll get goose bumps and mess up his words. He’ll find it especially hard to meet your eye, because it’ll make him blush like a baboon’s bum.

2. He talks about himself more than about you

He wants to impress you, because that’s his way into your knickers. He’ll talk about his exotic travels, his amazing career and the women that want him.

But he wouldn’t want to know much about you.
3. He avoids serious topics
He won’t discuss personal matters, because he doesn’t want to run the risk of you hugging him or, horrors, opening up your own baggage.
4. Friends aren’t part of the conversation

A no-strings man doesn’t want to involve you in his life. His friends are more important than you are, so he won’t chat to you about them and he certainly won’t introduce you.

5. He chooses your date venue

6. He’s dismayed by a gift

If you’ve been chatting online for a while, you might think it’s nice to bring along a little pressie. Big risk.

If he opens it with blushing pleasure and says “my turn next time,” you’re doing well. If he says “you shouldn’t have,” goes silent and looks uncomfortable, he’s terrified that you’re about to start sending out wedding invitations.

7. He spends on you

This is a tricky one. Not all bill-splitting men are just after sex, and not all bill-payers are after a relationship. In fact, lavishing you with drinks and expensive dinner is part of the player’s sex-getting strategy.

8. He can’t keep his hands off you

If you’re on a 10th date with a guy who can’t control his public displays of affection, lucky you! Always nice to have a boyfriend who thinks you’re the sexiest thing alive.
But most men will only paw you on a first date if they don’t want a relationship. They know that women want gentlemen, but if they’re only after sex they don’t care about the impression they’re making.

9. He doesn’t chat or cuddle after sex

Once he’s got you back to his place (or yours) it’ll be fast and furious. He won’t spend time worrying about how to please you, because he’s the one who counts. Afterwards, he’ll roll over and sleep!

10. He doesn’t call

If a man doesn’t call after you had sex on a first date, it doesn’t mean that he’s shy or playing hard to get. It means he’s got what he wanted.

A man who really likes you will call, probably within 24 hours of your first date. It won’t be a booty call, either. He’ll want to chat, and to hear the sound of your voice, and he’ll be terrified. Be nice to him – he could be around for a while.


stolen from
naijasinglegirl.com
by vsaint

Mchew.. a guy can be d sweetest person on earth just to get tha cookie.

It's a pity da ladies will always continue to fall for dat.

*just passing*

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Estharfabian:
I think We Smart chicks already know this...


Thanks for telling Us what we already know!

You might know and yet still be a victim 100 times

Your profile pix though

Estharfabian:
I think We Smart chicks already know this...


Thanks for telling Us what we already know!

Every lady is smart but smarter guys will make the smart lady look dumb after eating her cookies......dem dey tell you the truth you dey form smart...


@op a guy might not do any of these things and all he wants is Still the sex......***yimu***..some guys can make you u look at them as a lover boy but they are James Bond....

doyinisaac:
Every lady is smart but smarter guys will make the smart lady look dumb after eating her cookies......dem dey tell you the truth you dey form smart...


@op a guy might not do any of these things and all he wants is Still the sex......***yimu***..some guys can make you u look at them as a lover boy but they are James Bond....

Lol females will always be females.

U sha won post by force...

U mean any guy with dis attributes are casting-over?

U must be joking..

Cutehector:
Mchew.. a guy can be d sweetest person on earth just to get tha cookie.

It's a pity da ladies will always continue to fall for dat.

Don't you want them to keep falling. Do you want conji to destroy mens.

ronald4lif:


Don't you want them to keep falling. Do you want conji to destroy mens.

of course I want them to keep falling.. it's a pirry to dem

It's always been abt men.. isn't it?

It saddens me that sex has been debased to much that it is now compared to "the cookie".
I still believe sex is an act shared out of a mutual feeling of attraction between both parties.
No one is giving the other anything. It's a shared experience.

Cutehector:
of course I want them to keep falling.. it's a pirry to dem

It's always been abt men.. isn't it?

Lol. But it's no pity to anyone as the nookie is beneficial to both party, infact more beneficial to them sef. We're just helping their ministry.

Life it's about interest, we discover ours and exploit any credulous individual who makes themselves available. So, yea it's all about guys.

Monalisa185:
na only the poster above me get sense for this thread

I'm a faddist for your kinda girl. WoW! Rare species!!

PushMusic:
It saddens me that sex has been debased to much that it is now compared to "the cookie".
I still believe sex is an act shared out of a mutual feeling of attraction between both parties.
No one is giving the other anything. It's a shared experience.

You get sense!

Estharfabian:
Well, only if i really wanna be A Victim..


Lol. what's wrong with My dp?

As you don reply my mention with smiley now,hope the "like" you have for me go increase

Your dp says a lot, that you are smart or thinking you are smart but maybe you never meet Mr Smart,your smartness go just be like a drop of water in an ocean