We planned a wedding, but my girlfriend whom I have loved sincerely for eight years suddenly tells me on phone, she had a dream that I have been visiting sorcerers, that I used juju to woo and keep her. Saying now her eyes have opened and the spell have left her. Her 2 lines have been off for a week now and her neighbours say she hurriedly packed some stuff into a bag and dissappeared. Nobody seems to know her whereabouts. I suspect two things, (1) she has found a new love and absconds. (2) There is this antecedent in their family, their women don't marry early (she's 29 and just graduated), I know she's been struggling to free herself from perceived spiritual husbands which she once told me runs in the family.(I am not scared about those stuff sha). it could be a spiritual attack.
Right now, am confused because I have never visited a spiritual church, on her behalf or ever dreamed of using spell on a single woman when there are millions looking for such opportunities.

You should be glad, buddy; the lady get plenty of "issues"

after 8 years? Take heart n move on wl b difficult but u'll get there alternatively if there is any way u can help her do.

I guess the girl found another suitor who doesnt believe in long term affairs.

willyspace:

We planned a wedding, but my girlfriend whom I have loved sincerely for eight years suddenly tells me on phone, she had a dream that I have been visiting sorcerers, that I used juju to woo and keep her. Saying now her eyes have opened and the spell have left her. Her 2 lines have been off for a week now and her neighbours say she hurriedly packed some stuff into a bag and dissappeared. Nobody seems to know her whereabouts. I suspect two things, (1) she has found a new love and absconds. (2) There is this antecedent in their family, their women don't marry early (she's 29 and just graduated), I know she's been struggling to free herself from perceived spiritual husbands which she once told me runs in the family.(I am not scared about those stuff sha). it could be a spiritual attack.
Right now, am confused because I have never visited a spiritual church, on her behalf or ever dreamed of using spell on a single woman when there are millions looking for such opportunities.

You sound judgemental, maybe she just couldn't go through with it knowing she'd be tied to you for life. The babe even tried by concocting a story to make you feel better, your immediate justifications shows she'd do well without you. Goodluck!

poster, would you rather have that she absconded after the wedding?
count your blessing that a person with whom you spent 8yrs of your life yet who cannot sit and have a mature adult talk with you and believe in this juju rubbish is out of your life for good.
if you too believe in this juju/sorcerer/witch craft nonsense, then you surely would understand that her actions are justifiable (you might cast a freshly squeezed new spell on her if you were to meet again)

@Poster
Am happy for you.

willyspace:

We planned a wedding, but my girlfriend whom I have loved sincerely for eight years suddenly tells me on phone, she had a dream that I have been visiting sorcerers, that I used juju to woo and keep her. Saying now her eyes have opened and the spell have left her. Her 2 lines have been off for a week now and her neighbours say she hurriedly packed some stuff into a bag and dissappeared. Nobody seems to know her whereabouts. I suspect two things, (1) she has found a new love and absconds. [b](2) There is this antecedent in their family, their women don't marry early (she's 29 and just graduated), I know she's been struggling to free herself from perceived spiritual husbands which she once told me runs in the family.(I am not scared about those stuff sha). it could be a spiritual attack.[/b]Right now, am confused because I have never visited a spiritual church, on her behalf or ever dreamed of using spell on a single woman when there are millions looking for such opportunities.

What sort of lady has issues like this? you urself nor tire?

touchmeder:

What sort of lady has issues like this? you urself nor tire?

this is really big issue oh, and this might not be all as they might still be some untold secrets.

i wud advice u dont dig further and let her be
further investigations wud lead to unpleasant stories.
one that wud leave u scared and resentful.

I beg to give a diff opinion here.
Seems like dis lady is in serious trouble and needs help.
What about praying for her,what about getting confirmation from her
family both dos in d city and in d village and doing whatever to help her
at least for old time sake.

@kx.
how do u help some1 u can't locate?
moreso there are certain issues that need personal attention.
its not the op's place to seek solution for her.

he should just pray and move on men.

It is better that this is happening now and not after marriage.
My advice to you is that, you sholud try and locate her and find out exactly what is happening. See if it is an issue that you can resolve so it wont come up again in the future. If not, move on with your life.

More intrigues! I called her mum to explain what transpired between us and her dissapearance, she agreed it something for the phone. But due to my tight work schedule, I can't get to her immediately. Only for her Mum to call me next day to threaten that all my plans to kill her daughter have been uncovered. I have been trying to locate her whearabouts (on phone) by calling her friends who all claimed ignorance. (I asked them to tell me sincerely,if it was another man, then I wd move on with my life, but if spiritual problems, they should find a way and help her). The neighbour (tenant) told me her mum called today to say she is very sick that she can't recognise people anymore. I feel for her and more confused. Should I go to her Mum (face any risks) or abandon her?

sounds very romantic; this cat and mouse game.

COunt your lucky stars because she is KARAYYYYYZY dude it sounds like she is a paranoid schizophrenic. Look it up it would all make sense to you.

Maybe a german tourist she was dating took her to europe

I laugh. thats the way the cookie crumbles

its nt sumtin spiritual, its in dia blood,

Matters of the heart are very difficult to push away.
But have you ever taken theview, that you have been saved a lot of heart ache.
What if you had married her and she left?,
The shame the public ridicule,
I have this for you,PRAY if she is yours she would come back if not, as hard and painful as it is,you would have to start all over again.
After 8 years.take heart Brother, Shalom

Eeeya, Stay calm my bros, that thing wey dey catch her go soon comot for her eyes, No surprise say she go soon come back, Girls all na dsame whether for church, mosque,or shrine.

@Poster
congrats God has "answered" ur prayers

Girls wahala,anyway sorry o!!! Take heart its one of those things,but its so so painful u didn't c it coming.But just thank God u never tied d knot,cos it would have been disastrous

Poster you should be like ~phew!. . .close shave!~

The truth is still clouded in rumours. I was told she has been relocated to a Church some where and she has torn her clothes and pulled off her hairs! Her parents have instructed I be picked up anytime I come into town. Right now am into serious prayers and fasting because the devil is at work!

This is Super Story,

willyspace:

The truth is still clouded in rumours. I was told she has been relocated to a Church some where and she has torn her clothes and pulled off her hairs! Her parents have instructed I be picked up anytime I come into town. Right now am into serious prayers and fasting because the devil is at work!

did you pay school fees?

ezinne1212:

You sound judgemental, maybe she just couldn't go through with it knowing she'd be tied to you for life. The babe even tried by concocting a story to make you feel better, your immediate justifications shows she'd do well without you. Goodluck!

where is the judgemental here?

Na ogbanje dey worry am
leave her alone and go your way

YOU wasted 8 frigging years ? ? ? ? ?

It is well.

There is fire on her mountain, run run run