Elosky20:

they cant be compared. its just like comparing plane and helicopter because both can fly

Continue arguing with them... it won't end..

Let them go teach their sisters and daughters how essential it is to get pregnant out of wedlock. .

Elosky20:

what of the social cultural stigma towards pregnant unmarried women. because getting pregnant without marriage is considered as fornication.

I don't stigmatise them. I consider them better than girls who have lost their virginity and are liable to do abortions. I can marry a single mother.

Elosky20:

what of the social cultural stigma towards pregnant unmarried women. because getting pregnant without marriage is considered as fornication.

This one is even far worse. The woman suffers antagonism from her inlaws and friends of husband.

DeMekus:

What if the man marries skips the "fertility thesis" to marry her then later discovers her womb is damaged? Do you think the marriage would last?

what if the woman develope fibroid after the fertility test, that affected her womb totally. God is the sole giver of child.

Get married to a clean young girl and make sure you are clean too. The issue of childbirth wouldn't be a problem

Adisa89:
Get married to a clean young girl and make sure you are clean too. The issue of childbirth wouldn't be a problem

When your village people come remeber you nko?
Clean oh, Dirty oh it doesn't guarantee childbirth in marriage. Its all about God's mercy and grace.

DeMekus:

Yes, God will bless your marriage with as much lovely children as you want. But this is one problem about Nigerian Christians. They tend to place all their burdens on God, then fold their hands and wait for miracle. But they forget that even the Bible said 'heaven helps those who help themselves.' As for me, I can't risk marrying a woman I don't know her fertility status. Death is inevitable, when your time comes you'll die but it's not certain that every pregnancy will miscarry. So I'm ready to take the risk. Team #pregnancyBeforeMarriage#

Before I state my opinion, where in the Bible is it written? @ the bolded?
The Bible is very clear on fornication/adultery. Hebrew 13:8, 1 corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3.
You can justify your actions with whatever, but don't criticize the "Nigerian christain" for been a Christian.

anumide:

Before I state my opinion, where in the Bible is it written? @ the bolded?
The Bible is very clear on fornication/adultery. Hebrew 13:8, 1 corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3.
You can justify your actions with whatever, but don't criticize the "Nigerian christain" for been a Christian.

I used to think there's a scripture for that quote but found out later that there's none. However, what I wrote up there is as true as it can be.

DeMekus:
Hahaha! Op, ladies would hate you for this thread. I and your elder brother think alike. No belle, no marriage. Na who wan begin do fasting and prayer? Iranu!

ah swear

Danger! This is dangerous. Are you God? Children come from God. God has different assignment for different people.

The Bible says, Marriage is honourable in all things and the bed undefiled (premarital sex) but whoremonger and adulterer God will judge.

Premarital sex may be sweet but remember God will surely judge.

Children come from God.

God2man.