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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


Okay o smiley

I hope he sees it as fun too.
I guess he does sha.




I don't think so. grin
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 9:50pm On Aug 20, 2016
shaybebaby:

Lighten up Hun, it's all good fun. Didn't see this earlier and however well intentioned, it isn't needed.

This IS the Internet hence a bit like the Wild West where people post butt pics and quote the bible in the same breath.

It is one where you write in the literature section and where others choose to post their fiction in the family section.

It has no bearing on reality so imaginations are allowed to run wild.

Leave the geezer alone, he is a grown ass man and I dare say he enjoys it as much as we do, atleast I hope so for his sake. kiss

I see you are impervious to all their vitriols. Good.
Better sef.

Me I just don't like the content of the original post on this thread. I understand that it's 'online' but that does not give people the right to open their mouths abi their hands to be typing nonsense.

And then learned folks like Tv who should be debunking such are busy rubbing it in.

It's well though.

Blesssmileysmiley

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by shaybebaby(f): 9:57pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


I see you are impervious to all their vitriols. Good.
Better sef.

Me I just don't like the content of the original post on this thread. I understand that it's 'online' but that does not give people the right to open their mouths abi their hands to be typing nonsense.

And then learned folks like Tv who should be debunking such are busy rubbing it in.

It's well though.

Blesssmileysmiley
Thank you chicka, you are a sweetie. Keep doing you. Y'see, you don't need to tell me anything about yourself, I know you have a wonderful talent which you are passionate about and emanates from all that express. wink

Our truths aren't what we expressly voice out like your mate, it's the unconscious vibes we give off that tell our true state.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 9:59pm On Aug 20, 2016
Mindfulness:


I don't think so. grin

I think he was too.
Why would a person engage in stuff like that if they weren't having fun while at it?
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 10:03pm On Aug 20, 2016
shaybebaby:

Thank you chicka, you are a sweetie. Keep doing you. Y'see, you don't need to tell me anything about yourself, I know you have a wonderful talent which you are passionate about and emanates from all that express. wink

Our truths aren't what we expressly voice out like your mate, it's the unconscious vibes we give off that tell our true state.

Thank you Hun.

The emboldened made me pause for a bit. It is deep. Thanks again.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


I think he was too.
Why would a person engage in stuff like that if they weren't having fun while at it?

Only a man with a fragile ego will try to prove something to strangers online who don't give a rip if he is dead or alive. You know what the ego can do, don't you? wink

He went completely gaga and I will show no mercy for as long as keeps bullying people.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by shaybebaby(f): 10:10pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


Thank you Hun.

The emboldened made me pause for a bit. It is deep. Thanks again.


You are welcome. Enjoy your evening.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by shaybebaby(f): 10:14pm On Aug 20, 2016
Mindfulness:


Only a man with a fragile ego will try to prove something to strangers online who don't give a rip if he is dead or alive. You know what the ego can do, don't you? wink

He went completely gaga and I will show no mercy for as long as keeps bullying people.

You know I actually feel pity for him, there IS a lot of hate inside him. You are bang on the money about being a bully but we know that bullies do so as a consequence of their own insecurities.

It's hard to miss the emptiness inside him.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 20, 2016
shaybebaby:

You know I actually feel pity for him, there IS a lot of hate inside him. You are bang on the money about being a bully but we know that bullies do so as a consequence of their own insecurities.

It's hard to miss the emptiness inside him.

I am too selfish to commiserate with people. cool Why would I contaminate my good mood? cheesy
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 10:16pm On Aug 20, 2016
Mindfulness:


Only a man with a fragile ego will try to prove something to strangers online who don't give a rip if he is dead or alive. You know what the ego can do, don't you? wink

He went completely gaga and I will show no mercy for as long as he keeps bullying people.


Ohhhhh
Trust me. I know what the ego can do.

I wasn't wrong after all.
Under ideal circumstances, you really don't have that time.

Now I truly see you're having fun.
cheesy

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


Ohhhhh
Trust me. I know what the ego can do.

I wasn't wrong after all.
Under ideal circumstances, you really don't have that time.

Now I truly see you're having fun.
cheesy


I hoped and knew you would understand. It means a lot to me and I don't say that often. kiss kiss kiss

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by shaybebaby(f): 10:19pm On Aug 20, 2016
Mindfulness:


I am too selfish to commiserate with people. cool Why would I contaminate my good mood? cheesy
Evil, hahahaha!
Wasted on him I know but don't get it twisted, it's more the type of pity you would feel for a dying animal that needs to shot to put it out of its misery.
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
shaybebaby:

Evil, hahahaha!
Wasted on him I know but don't get it twisted, it's more the type of pity you would feel for a dying animal that needs to shot to put it out of its misery.

gringrin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by shaybebaby(f): 10:23pm On Aug 20, 2016
By the way, TV01 marriage advocate, your help is needed on a thread o
I'll summarise;
He cheats
He cannot pay the fees for kids education
He physically abuses her

And the cherry on the cake....

He Bedwets!

So please if we could have your masterful insight detailing the solution to each issue. Grazie tutto! kiss
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 10:47pm On Aug 20, 2016
Mindfulness:


I hoped and knew you would understand. It means a lot to me and I don't say that often. kiss kiss kiss

awwwwmmmm

I love you joor kiss

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:57pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:


awwwwmmmm

I love you joor kiss

I love you more. kiss kiss kiss

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by TV01(m): 11:15pm On Aug 20, 2016
shaybebaby:
By the way, TV01 marriage advocate, your help is needed on a thread o
I'll summarise;
He cheats
He cannot pay the fees for kids education
He physically abuses her

And the cherry on the cake....

He Bedwets!

So please if we could have your masterful insight detailing the solution to each issue. Grazie tutto! kiss
...don't you think it a little wierd having a conversation about me and asking and answering your own questions, whilst building your own narrative grin. Y'all are like a warm up act cheesy. Oh I forgot - authorised hype-masters. But don't let it get too obsessive, it's starting to feel a little bit creepy cool.

I'm out of advice for tonight. In any event,there's no link you dullard.

But, I'm not out of pix grin...one more going up at 23.30 before I retire. Curator ready grin


TV

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by TV01(m): 11:22pm On Aug 20, 2016
MizMyColi:
You posted pictures of your wife in a bid to assert that she is far better than them
...eerrr she is

MizMyColi:
I imagine that Mindy doesn't exactly feel good that she stooped to body shaming or ridiculing you
Duh! You can't body shame a confident man - let alone a super-fit confident man cool

I'll free you because you were complimentary towards my wife wink. Way to late for a detailed response. Crybaby and Mindlessness know their places - left & right grin. Next time if you wish to judge, judge equitably.


TV

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by freecocoa(f): 1:53am On Aug 21, 2016
Why do I always miss the good stuff? Somebody please show me those pics. grin grin grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by MizMyColi(f): 9:14am On Aug 21, 2016
TV01:
...eerrr she is

Duh! You can't body shame a confident man - let alone a super-fit confident man cool

I'll free you because you were complimentary towards my wife wink. Way to late for a detailed response. Crybaby and Mindlessness know their places - left & right grin. Next time if you wish to judge, judge equitably.


TV

Errrrrr

Classy, Discernible & Super-Confident people don't go the extra mile to prove almost non-existent or at best, hogwash points.


If you knew she's better than them, why post her picture in the first place?

What has your actions proven really?
And why did you sound pained that they attacked her as well.
If you are so confident of self and wifey, you would have passed off their words as inconsequential.

The moment we feel a need to highly defend an entity or human, it is a sign of insecurity.....no matter how minute, deep-seated and masked.

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:13am On Aug 21, 2016
TV01:
Was that it, the shaming of TV And it boils down poaching and re-posting pix of happy times kiss kiss

Let's see who the protagonists where shall we grin;

Mindfulness - marriage wrecker husband snatcher, teef pikin join grin angry.
Shaybebaby - marriage breaker, unable to hold onto a man cheesy shocked.
Chillisauce - Old cargo emeritus, marriage of convenience, porn is her comfort tongue.

Anyone of repute? Anyone held in high-esteem in these parts?? Anyone of proven character. Just liars, decievers & covenant-breakers

Believe me, there are loads of people who would like to see me humbled grin, but even they know such a display, rather than shame me, would only expose them as coarse. There's a certain level of vulgarity people with basic decency cannot descend to.

Remind me again, what's the sin in showing pictures of family and happy times grin. You really must try harder - although you'll fail continually

More "reality disturbing" pics loading cool


TV

...challenge outstanding - https://www.nairaland.com/2912248/15-reasons-why-real-men/2#48630582 - zero expectations cool

Fake church man, stop calling me unless you have your front view to 'hydrate' me grin
At least I watch porn while you do the acting . Showing me your olumo rock asss won't do the job. Post the front make I access am, you just dancing around.
Old man wey white hair Don full head.. if you like shave the whole hair off, the white hairs keep încreasing.

Pls act your age and post the 2inch bunana and 80lbs scrotum jor. Stop fronting

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 21, 2016
Chillisauce:


Fake church man, stop calling me unless you have your front view to 'hydrate' me grin
At least I watch porn while you do the acting . Showing me your olumo rock asss won't do the job. Post the front make I access am, you just dancing around.
Old man wey white hair Don full head.. if you like shave the whole hair off, the white hairs keep încreasing.

Pls act your age and post the 2inch bunana and 80lbs scrotum jor. Stop fronting

grin grin grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by 5minsmadness: 10:27am On Aug 21, 2016
MizMyColi:


Whatever GDT' means, I'm sure it has a negative connotation, so I rebuke such.

This is not about my married life. This is not about the people who constitute my private life. Please do well to leave them out of the mix.

This is about personality or should I say personality issues.

Lately, I prefer viewing.
And in the course of my viewing, I have watched you (a respected symbol in my perception) and a group of known canterkerous folks shame a certain moniker.

Why?
Because she's a single mum who happens to have an opinion that 'we' don't agree with, so 'we' shame her, and try to put her in her place, call her a failure for choosing to walk out of a marriage she doesn't believe in anymore, call her ugly, taunt her for being an onlooker in the affairs of her son's life, taunt her child's father like we're privy to all her life's details and what have you?

You even went as far as quoting that irritable and highly obfuscative thing the OP posted and emboldened it, just to drive home a point....when you know that it is not always true.

In this section, somebody cannot post pictures in peace or even talk about challenges they face. Why? Because the likes of Francis will save their not too cool pictures/stories and use it to taunt them the moment they begin to have opinions or comments they do not agree with.

It does not make sense. It is unfair.

There are people who do such here and Heaven knows I will never be seen objecting because they simply lack the capacity to reason or be reasonable, but not you.

This is not to say that I support the females' actions on here in totality.

Coco didn't attack you. I think she likes you. I didn't sense any vitriol.

Chilli jokes around a lot. I didn't think she has a personal vendetta. She probably just reined in on the moment.

Dyt made a comment that I seconded and someone who calls himself a father attacked her, albeit subtly.

You posted pictures of your wife in a bid to assert that she is far better than them, did you expect them to applaud and agree?
Though I consider her smile exceptionally beautiful, you would have thrown same negativity if you were in their shoes. An e-war happened here FCOL.

And you people are supposed to be men o.
Real men know when to walk away.
Real men do not engage in pettiness.
Real men will speak up and stand true to their values even when the women come up with their pettiness.

The actions of Mindy and Shay on this thread, I sense, is borne out of Enough-is-Enough.
I imagine that Mindy doesn't exactly feel good that she stooped to body shaming or ridiculing you, but then, it's probably her way of standing for Shay and letting you guys know that you are not the only ones good at throwing vitriols and mockery.

Two of you, I respect. This should stop please. The pound of flesh has been exerted.

My belief, yours and hers, or anyone's for that matter must not tally. It is improper to be on the offensive or defensive about what a person chooses to believe. It only leads to strife. Ordinarily, I would be more interested in seeking out the things I share in common with those who have different belief from mine. Why dwell on things that breed division? Why engage in unproductive arguments which in itself is a form of violence? Why the need to be seen as right and others as wrong?

You people should please return to your roles in this section that bothers on being light and offering practical solutions to people's issues.

Thank you.
Undeniably mature.
Both sides should sheath their swords.
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:28am On Aug 21, 2016
freecocoa:
Why do I always miss the good stuff? Somebody please show me those pics. grin grin grin

The pics are still available. People have been taking photos. grin

You just need to follow this thread. wink

By the way, he stopped posting the funny pictures and went for more decent ones but the funny pictures went viral so watch out. grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:32am On Aug 21, 2016
Mindfulness:


grin grin grin

See me see trouble. I have been waiting him to hydrate me. I think he is shy.

Shy shy TV pls come and post the hydrating pics Na?

Your big big english means nothing if you don't continue your porn movies.

Anyway, I'm sure you are prepare lightings and good camara to take a better one.
One thing I give you is that you are a man of your word. What you say you will do you will do. wink grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:34am On Aug 21, 2016
Chillisauce:


See me see trouble. I have been waiting him to hydrate me. I think he is shy.

Shy shy TV pls come and post the hydrating pics Na?

Your big big english means nothing if you don't continue your porn movies.

Anyway, I'm sure you are prepare lightings and good camara to take a better one.
One thing I give you is that you are a man of your word. What you say you will do you will do. wink grin

It's Sunday and the chicken will be roasted, even if it looks anorexic. cheesy

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by 5minsmadness: 10:35am On Aug 21, 2016
freecocoa:
Why do I always miss the good stuff? Somebody please show me those pics. grin grin grin
Where u been?
What u missed cannot be quantified or qualifed as my lecturer used to say cheesy
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by freecocoa(f): 10:37am On Aug 21, 2016
Mindfulness:


The pics are still available. People have been taking photos. grin

You just need to follow this thread. wink

By the way, he stopped posting the funny pictures and went for more decent ones but the funny pictures went viral so watch out. grin
Lol, no be small thing, I'm definitely following. grin grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:39am On Aug 21, 2016
Mindfulness:


It's Sunday and the chicken will be roasted, even if it looks anorexic. cheesy

Sure cheesy
Today s the last day. If he doesn't post it, then my ratings for him will reduce grin

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Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by freecocoa(f): 10:40am On Aug 21, 2016
5minsmadness:

Where u been?
What u missed cannot be quantified or qualifed as my lecturer used to say cheesy
It's not fair o, if it's to argue nonsense now you people will mention me, but no one remembers to, when the drama is on, so not fair. cry grin
Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by freecocoa(f): 10:43am On Aug 21, 2016
Shaybebaby even you my sweetheart didn't remember me when something this important was going down, where is the love na?cheesy

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