am always the one to make the first move if not i will have to wait for more than a month to get intimate with her,most times i have to do it while she sleeps. Pls dnt misunderstand me i alway feel bad there after but i think its better than goin out even though she dnt complain or is someone severcing her? Am confuse please help a brother folks

buy Viagra and scatter the place



on a more serious note it could be low libido.... But if it's really as bad as you described then she just doesn't find you sexually attractive

Are u sure if u know how to service her very well. i mean getting to the G spot

Hmm...bros I fink u should watch ur back buh 1st try n find out woh exactly d problem is.....probably u r Nt servicing her wella

Do something New...change yhur routine....She might just be Bored....Surprise her......Every woman is a Queen yhu just have to Awaken it in her....Good luck Bro/Sir

Communicate with her,sir!.have you asked her in a subtle and romantic way why she always wait for you to make the move?.also,is she a career focused person?cos STRESS at times wnt even let someone remember sex after a hectic day @times..Above all,shes your wife and you should understand each other better.kindly erase the notion of an affair because you don't have any proof against her..#my2cents#.

NB:you can move this to the family section for experienced response..

Free the woman too... Let her have a taste of how and what u feel. ...if she still don't give a sh!t, get another "vessel" to service too. She shld stop feeling like a god.....after all, this marriage shi!t is over-rated.

naijagobetter:
am always the one to make the first move if not i will have to wait for more than a month to get intimate with her,most times i have to do it while she sleeps. Pls dnt misunderstand me i alway feel bad there after but i think its better than goin out even though she dnt complain or is someone severcing her? Am confuse please help a brother folks

No be you make move go marry her ?

i very very much appreciate your candid advice and suggestions wil do the needful. She is a business woman that hardly have time for herself but her business and carrying their family issues on herslf. Thanks all the same.

Chief, you just tell her what you want and listen to her reaction. It may be tiredness or shyness. This sex issue between couples doesn't automatically become activated with marriage. Most times, there need to discuss how it should be before it becomes comfortable grounds. You may be surprised to find out she loves the 'sleep attack'.. Hehehe

Meanwhile, don't be so quick to suspect your partner of infidelity, please. The devil capitalises so much on this doubt to create reasons for you to suspect and act, even when there is none. God help us all

am married for 11years now, it could be many things, first, is she the bread winner,maybe after hustling around and comes back home,she still do the house work without u helping? are u a one minute man with big belly,u ask her for ssex,before she could get ready,u already finish,and then u sleep of? these two things could easily make her not interested in sssex anylonger plus other things,,so my sugestion is, that joint you know you can only take ur 18years old girl friend to,make out time and take her there even if it warrants stealing money from her pause,pls do it for her and for you,there u will open a big honesty door for u both, goodluk

She is just the usual dumb girl full of pretence..

Op i dun wanna beLieve it has to do with ur in-abiLity to satisfy her in bed like other people have suggested, if not i believe she woulda told you, or better still, her body language woulda kineticaLLy told u too...

From ur write up, i percieve u guys are stiLL very young in marriage.

My advice....sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her, better of in the mid-night by 1-2am, after all she be ur wife, na u marry am, nobi she marry u...ask her wat the problm is, re-prophessed ur love to her, ur the husband u should know and understand her better, even if is sex issue, i believe u guys can iron it out amicably....

Note...don't always involve a 3rd party in ur maritaL affaire , except it's a spirituaL head or pastor...

Goodluck.

Op i dun wanna beLieve it has to do with ur in-abiLity to satisfy her in bed like other people have suggested...

From ur write up, i percieve u guys are stiLL very young in marriage.

My advice....sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her, better of in the mid-night by 1-2am, after all she be ur wife, na u marry am, nobi she marry u...ask her wat the problm is, re-prophessed ur love to her, ur the husband u should know and understand her better, even if is sex issue, i believe u guys can iron it out amicably....

Note...don't always involve a 3rd party in ur maritaL affaire, cos i'd always believe there's no mis-understanding couples cant setLLe if they are trueLLy serious with themselves...ur bringing a 3rd party to ur maritaL affair most times would only end up adding saLt to the injury aLready incured.

Op i dun wanna beLieve it has to do with ur in-abiLity to satisfy her in bed like other people have suggested...

From ur write up, i percieve u guys are stiLL very young in marriage.

My advice....sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her, better of in the mid-night by 1-2am, after all she be ur wife, na u marry am, nobi she marry u...ask her wat the problm is, re-prophessed ur love to her, ur the husband u should know and understand her better, even if it's sex issue, i believe u guys can iron it out amicably hence she's ur wife....

Note...don't always involve a 3rd party in ur maritaL affaire, cos i'd always believe there's no mis-understanding couples cant setLLe if they are trueLLy serious with themselves...ur bringing a 3rd party to ur maritaL affair most times would only end up adding saLt to the injury aLready incured.

Mods help this brother for a wider audience

naijagobetter:
am always the one to make the first move if not i will have to wait for more than a month to get intimate with her,most times i have to do it while she sleeps. Pls dnt misunderstand me i alway feel bad there after but i think its better than goin out even though she dnt complain or is someone severcing her? Am confuse please help a brother folks

maybe she is the shy type

talk to her about it,make her comfortable with you.

maybe you are the type that just climbs and do the do,the. get off with out any form of intimacy....

bros i know my way in and around women and by His Grace we are married for 13yrs with 3 lovely kids, it seems like 2yrs. Seriously this issue is wat is giving me sleeplss nights,