Copied article*...... I'm posting this because I use to have a girl like that


" I need help with my fiance.... she is very pretty and God fearing but extremely aggressive.... since we started living together, every single quarrel ends with me leaving the house for her cause during the slightest of arguments she picks up a knife and threaten to stab me if I ever come close...... she recently dropped my TV to the ground, broke the screen of my laptop and almost destroyed my phone out of anger..

When she calms down, she expresses a very emotional remorse and pleads heavily cause its almost like she lost her mind each time she gets angry.... I've always advised her to let me take her to a therapist but she refuses.. I've been heavily criticised by some friends for being too cool while some think my calmness towards her is the best

this girl has done so much for me, so even if it continues I cannot leave her, I will still marry her

now am only asking for any sort of help from people with experiences"


nairalanders, help a nigga

U dan jam karashika




She could prolly be battling with a trauma.
Pschai tinz o! Lol

Anger issues isn't easy to manage.


I have done many regrettable things out of anger.

Am not that good at that bt i think Decker will be of help cos my advice won't be of ur liking

Being violent as a personality trait is a deal- breaker for most people... When a person has a negative personality trait, they will inevitably direct it towards you sometimes

Anger management issues are a HUGE issue when trying to build a healthy relationship. It indicates lack of self control, and lack of limits. Consider your future children - do you think her anger management issues will negatively impact them? Do you want them to learn how to handle conflicts and problems from her? I would seriously rethink the relationship. She is unlikely to change.

You need to put your foot down and tell her to either seek help or you'll walk. Otherwise your impending marriage is a recipe for disaster. You'll still come back here to tell us how your marriage is a living hell. Nip it in the bud now whilst you can and stop pretending it doesn't matter.

Michellla:
Being violent as a personality trait is a deal- breaker for most people... When a person has a negative personality trait, they will inevitably direct it towards you sometimes

true

My bossesses at the top have said it all