I'm a married woman with 3 kids for 7 years now. I got married to my husband cos we were so much in love. Moreover we were supported by friends and family saying we were perfect for each other. We got married after dating for 2 years and everything was perfect till our 3rd year in marriage.

Hubby started keeping late nights and being irresponsible as a husband and father. When I try to talk to him he rebels and walks out on me. Last year, I discovered he's abusing substance (cocaine). I spoke to him about rehab. and he went after much counselling. Only to come back & this time was worse than before.

Friends and family told me to live the house cos of my children while I keep praying that things will change for good cos they're being affected by everything going on...please what should I do? Leave my home or stay?

Thanks

Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/my-husband-takes-stuffs.html?m=1

You have 3 kids?

Please divorce the man and leave the house.

Return to your father's house if you have money rent an apartment and train your kids. Dont let them grow in a house of weed.

A word is enough for the wise

Whats yo profession and how much do u earn? How much do u guys spend on yo household spending? How much does he earn and contribute to de home?

I will be back

Lol op u n this ur husband abeg free the guy jare ....

Haba

Fable! Keep praying,dont relent.

Divorce! No questions asked!

Thank God he hasn't started beating you black and blue. But , I am so sure when he starts you won't be able to survive it. Do the needful.

3kids


Bt u luk lyk a 16yrs old bae

modelmike7:
Thank God he hasn't started beating you black and blue. But , I am so sure when he starts you won't be able to survive it. Do the needful.

Leave he/she nah topic E dey create up n down

You are so wicked for telling someone that love her husband to leave the house with three children. Will you be the one to pay for her house rent, will you also be paying her children sch fees and will you also be acting like an husband to her?
She needs much and more prayer to regain her home. Every men and women has their own bad side. Her own husband is sniffing Cocaine right, i guess your own may be a man sleeping with another man wife or with under 15yrs of age girls. Try to put yourself into someone's shoes before you give an advise to him or her....OK?

coolsix:
Please divorce the man and leave the house.

Return to your father's house if you have money rent an apartment and train your kids. Dont let them grow in a house of weed.

A word is enough for the wise

hodusglobal:
[s]You are so wicked for telling someone that love her husband to leave the house with three children. Will you be the one to pay for her house rent, will you also be paying her children sch fees and will you also be acting like an husband to her?
She needs much and more prayer to regain her home. Every men and women has their own bad side. Her own husband is sniffing Cocaine right, i guess your own may be a man sleeping with another man wife or with under 15yrs of age girls. Try to put yourself into someone's shoes before you give an advise to him or her....OK? [/s]

Nonsense!

He has been doing it for 4 Years! The Marriage is 7 Years Old. It started 3 Years in the Marriage that is 4 Years since he has been sniffing cocaine. 4 YEARS! Has she not been praying? PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.

WHEN HER CHILDREN GROW UP TO BECOME DRUG ADDICTS OR DRUG PUSHERS WILL YOU BE THERE?

The Bible Says "...Train up a child in the way he should grow" how would she train her children where their father sniffs drug?

Even the bible says "...If your eye would lead you to sin, pluck it off". Why stay in an environment of bad omen? If she had no kids, fine! But she does. That is one reason she should leave.

Speaking of house rent, if her family cannot fend for her and her family allow her children see their father take drugs then be my guest.. sleep there and close this topic! She doesn't need advice. How much is house rent compared to the future of her children?

She can even sue the husband and the court can demand she leaves and he continues to fend for her. That;s it. So please. Wake up