Valentine’s Day is a day to show love to your partner, friends and relatives. Life indeed gets busy, from all kinds of daily routines. From work to the school, market and every other thing coming up. Valentine’s Day is just one day in the year when everybody talks about love. You can indeed feel the sparks of love in the air, from the match of white and red attires, to the exchange of gifts. Couples and singles in every area and corners around you. Valentine’s Day comes ones and those in love sees it as their day. Most lovers behave the way they would not on an ordinary day and then after 24 hours it’s gone. Lovers wish it never goes, and they look forward to the next in anticipation to do more amazing things.

Valentine is for everybody, and should be celebrated by everyone in respective of your marital status or what have you. Every couple, married, engaged or anyone who wants to catch fun, should celebrate Valentine’s because it is a day to show love and to be loved. That is, you are my valentine because I love you. Understanding love will really help us appreciate the big day Valentine, our own Valentines and the reasons why they are our Valentines.

An anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Jersey by the name Helen Fisher wrote in her book “Why we love” The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love.

Helen Fisher broke love into three different brain systems that facilitate mating and reproduction. The three brain systems of love are:
 Sex drive
 Romantic love (obsession, passion, infatuation)
 Attachment (calmness and security with a long-term partner)

Helen said the three brain systems play significant roles in love. They can operate independently and are not dependent to one another. But the three works for an ideal relationship.Read More.relationshiptalks.com.ng/why-heshe-is-your-valentine/