michelin89:

@ busy_body

I agree!

prittigrrr:

[/size]I understand your point but he always could have walked away.  Since he  chose to marry, he should love his wife and commit to the union.

clickgold:



how u take win her heart? u tell am say u love am abi?

collins2:

@tpia and clickgold you two have asked the most stupid questions on this thread,let me also ask you this question and i want an honest answer is it everyman that ever slept with you that you married? are u married to the man that disvirgined you?when will women ever grow up?una think say na only men dey toast women now?i am sure this dude must be a loaded guy and that was why the babe fall for her and besides she was not raped.and let me tell you women are toasted everyday by different men it is now up to the women to reject such advances or accept them,our duties as men na to to toast but no be by force.
so i beg make una grow up ? gbam u have said it all dont mind them jare

collins2:

@tpia and clickgold you two have asked the most stupid questions on this thread,let me also ask you this question and i want an honest answer is it everyman that ever slept with you that you married? are u married to the man that disvirgined you?when will women ever grow up?una think say na only men dey toast women now?i am sure this dude must be a loaded guy and that was why the babe fall for her and besides she was not raped.and let me tell you women are toasted everyday by different men it is now up to the women to reject such advances or accept them,our duties as men na to to toast but no be by force.
so i beg make una grow up

collins2:

@tpia and clickgold you two have asked the most stupid questions on this thread,let me also ask you this question and i want an honest answer is it everyman that ever slept with you that you married? are u married to the man that disvirgined you?when will women ever grow up?una think say na only men dey toast women now?i am sure this dude must be a loaded guy and that was why the babe fall for her and besides she was not raped.and let me tell you women are toasted everyday by different men it is now up to the women to reject such advances or accept them,our duties as men na to to toast but no be by force.
so i beg make una grow up

dean2725:

still crying for answers

Busy_body:


Sisthren, I am glad you concur IT IS TIME LIKE THIS, I LOVE MY COUNTRY ^{AND PEOPLE} I NO GO LIE




HE DID NOT CHOOSE NADA, he was forced to marry her by his Pastors and the other elders in the family and he had to abandon the one he truly loved How many Nigerians can go against the orders of such individuals and their parents

You would be hardpressed to find 2% of people who will go against the wishes of their Parents/Pastors and this has been proven time and time in so many threads on NL

Anyhoo, nothing do me and richard10 make hin carry go on loving his missus, i just dey talk my own say and thank God say I no need to marry for love, na titles and status and wealth and bank balance be the koko from now henceforth

Busy_body:


Sisthren, I am glad you concur IT IS TIME LIKE THIS, I LOVE MY COUNTRY ^{AND PEOPLE} I NO GO LIE




HE DID NOT CHOOSE NADA, he was forced to marry her by his Pastors and the other elders in the family and he had to abandon the one he truly loved How many Nigerians can go against the orders of such individuals and their parents

You would be hardpressed to find 2% of people who will go against the wishes of their Parents/Pastors and this has been proven time and time in so many threads on NL

Anyhoo, nothing do me and richard10 make hin carry go on loving his missus, i just dey talk my own say and thank God say I no need to marry for love, na titles and status and wealth and bank balance be the koko from now henceforth

2tait:

Deep down in my heart and mind, I think you are a very lucky man.

The best thing any man can get in this life is to have a loving and understanding/respectful wife. The opposite is called hell fire. You have a loving and understanding wife. It is even obvious to people.

Your situation seems bad to you because you THINK you have a better choice (option) out there! That's an error. You are already married. Any other thing is a facade.

I suggest you go back and re-build your life, your values, your priorities, your marriage and indeed your home. You can do it and enjoy your life.

2tait:

Deep down in my heart and mind, I think you are a very lucky man.

The best thing any man can get in this life is to have a loving and understanding/respectful wife. The opposite is called hell fire. You have a loving and understanding wife. It is even obvious to people.

Your situation seems bad to you because you THINK you have a better choice (option) out there! That's an error. You are already married. Any other thing is a facade.

I suggest you go back and re-build your life, your values, your priorities, your marriage and indeed your home. You can do it and enjoy your life.

richard10:

once again i have come to give you an update on my situation,i thank you once more again,
1 i have spared no expenses on buying books for her .
2 we now intend to move into the same room again,let me confess why i had really stopped sleeping with her i didnt want another pregrancy if you catch my drift,i had wanted that child to be the only child we would ever have but i have begged GOD for forgiveness and also my wifes forgiveness
3 i am now trying with and with prayers too that i dont give up or take my life i belive i can make it with my wife.
4 ONCE AGAIN I THANK U ALL

hasabi:

from me to u i wud say u walk out and make urself and her happy.OR u do a soul searching of urself maybe d reason u don't luv is because u are trying not to maybe u feel she rushed u into marriage.try to look at all her good features,sincerely open ur heart to her love and learn to love her.don't fight it that's the wall hindering u.