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My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 11:47am On Feb 18, 2016
Good morning fellow house members.

I'm sorry to be back here again but things are deteriorating seriously for me here. My family is falling apart. My wife and kids are worse hit of this my joblessness.

Sequel to this post https://www.nairaland.com/2862636/why-everyone-cares-when-too

Many nairalandlers responded with words of encouragement and advice.

That aside, I have submitted over 150 applications both online and offline and received 4 invitations in all, attended all and yet no call up.

Please brothers and sisters I'm not here for financial assistance or for you to pity me but I'm here because I need a job to take care of my family which already falling apart.

My joblessness had bring untold hardship to me and my family. Yesterday I received the worst humiliation in my life I was dragged out of a BRT because I couldn't pay N100 and many people were looking at me. I tried to controlled my emotions but still I had to cried out my heart in secret.

This is me that used to help people a year ago now my friends and family members won't pick my calls again.

Some moments ago I was just staring at a fan hook. And thots of taking my life kept on creeping in. Please I'm dieing inside of me. I need a job.

Please I'm not a begger and I find it so humiliating to beg because it's absurd since I can work. All I'm asking you my fellow members especially Mr Seun and mods to please put this on front page who knows maybe my helper will be the there waiting.

Please save a soul

My details and pictures are in the above mentioned thread.

I need a job please.

Cc Seun Mynd44, Lalasticlala,davide490
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by Nobody: 11:55am On Feb 18, 2016
I feel your pain.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by Rachie83: 12:04pm On Feb 18, 2016
My brother i really feel your pain,the unemployment is really hiting us all.i cant help you but may God grant your heart desires.Hope you submitted your cv with Sharaton as i told you.You can drop your cv with shoregatehotels@gmail.com.

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 1:10pm On Feb 18, 2016
Rachie83:
My brother i really feel your pain,the unemployment is really hiting us all.i cant help you but may God grant your heart desires.Hope you submitted your cv with Sharaton as i told you.You can drop your cv with shoregatehotels@gmail.com.

I did and thanks.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 2:36pm On Feb 18, 2016
sometimes life can be so cruel u will want to commit suicide. Life had given me a hundred reasons to cry and end it all.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by Bookiemart01(f): 2:56pm On Feb 18, 2016
What can you sell fast in your area?

deGovernor2024:
Good morning fellow house members.

I'm sorry to be back here again but things are deteriorating seriously for me here. My family is falling apart. My wife and kids are worse hit of this my joblessness.

Sequel to this post https://www.nairaland.com/2862636/why-everyone-cares-when-too

Many nairalandlers responded with words of encouragement and advice.

That aside, I have submitted over 150 applications both online and offline and received 4 invitations in all, attended all and yet no call up.

Please brothers and sisters I'm not here for financial assistance or for you to pity me but I'm here because I need a job to take care of my family which already falling apart.

My joblessness had bring untold hardship to me and my family. Yesterday I received the worst humiliation in my life I was dragged out of a BRT because I couldn't pay N100 and many people were looking at me. I tried to controlled my emotions but still I had to cried out my heart in secret.

This is me that used to help people a year ago now my friends and family members won't pick my calls again.

Some moments ago I was just staring at a fan hook. And thots of taking my life kept on creeping in. Please I'm dieing inside of me. I need a job.

Please I'm not a begger and I find it so humiliating to beg because it's absurd since I can work. All I'm asking you my fellow members especially Mr Seun and mods to please put this on front page who knows maybe my helper will be the there waiting.

Please save a soul

My details and pictures are in the above mentioned thread.

I need a job please.

Cc Seun Mynd44, Lalasticlala,davide490

Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 3:06pm On Feb 18, 2016
Bookiemart01:
What can you sell fast in your area?

Recharge cards but it depends on what you have in mind
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by Bookiemart01(f): 3:08pm On Feb 18, 2016
Nope, it's not about me, it's about you. If you can sell particular items fast in your area, we can start from there.

deGovernor2024:


Recharge cards but it depends on what you have in mind

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 3:19pm On Feb 18, 2016
Bookiemart01:
Nope, it's not about me, it's about you. If you can sell particular items fast in your area, we can start from there.


I can sell a recharge cards and consumable items like snacks and drinks.

Thanks
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by jemype(m): 4:21pm On Feb 18, 2016
deGovernor2024:


I can sell a recharge cards and consumable items like snacks and drinks.

Thanks
i saw a product- moringa juice and coconut juice smwhere on nairaland. Tho I have a job but I think it will sell very well in ur neighbourhood. Was thinking of doing d biiz too.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 4:28pm On Feb 18, 2016
Please don't just look at this and move away.
Mods please you can save a soul by putting this in front page maybe my helper is there.

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by MissSlimbody(f): 4:37pm On Feb 18, 2016
May God answer you speedily embarassed
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 4:38pm On Feb 18, 2016
I have spoken to my pastor and he says
"keep praying" and i do but still nothing
happens
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by greatwin100: 4:48pm On Feb 18, 2016
There are one 1001 reasons for you to step up ur game and succeed. See reasons for success rather than lamenting. I have failed many times, with many challenges, but I choose to keep moving forward. Put trust in God and walk the talk of ur dreams. #keepmovingforward[color=#006600][/color]
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 5:00pm On Feb 18, 2016
greatwin100:
There are one 1001 reasons for you to step up ur game and succeed. See reasons for success rather than lamenting. I have failed many times, with many challenges, but I choose to keep moving forward. Put trust in God and walk the talk of ur dreams. #keepmovingforward[color=#006600][/color]

Bro I'm not lamenting but he who wear shoes knows where it pains..my children suffering is getting too much some nights no food... cry cry
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by MznAirA(f): 5:31pm On Feb 18, 2016
I really feel sorry for you but instead of searching for a job with no result yet, why not go into entrepreneurship? Go and learn a trade or start selling something even if it's indomie at a popular junction. God wld surely come to ur aid soon. Shalom

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 5:39pm On Feb 18, 2016
MznAirA:
I really feel sorry for you but instead of searching for a job with no result yet, why not go into entrepreneurship? Go and learn a trade or start selling something even if it's indomie at a popular junction. God wld surely come to ur aid soon. Shalom

Thank you sister but you can do it empty hand. I have approached some family members that I help when things were good with me for fund but they keep promising now they don't pick my calls.

But I have learn my lesson and I know this storm shall pass sooner than I thought.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by Btruth: 5:51pm On Feb 18, 2016
jemype:
i saw a product- moringa juice and coconut juice smwhere on nairaland. Tho I have a job but I think it will sell very well in ur neighbourhood. Was thinking of doing d biiz too.
which area are you OP?
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 6:07pm On Feb 18, 2016
Btruth:
which area are you OP?

Ijede in ikorodu lagos
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by ednut1(m): 6:16pm On Feb 18, 2016
it is well bro. these same pple who deserted u will come back when things get better smh

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by sibb2011: 6:27pm On Feb 18, 2016
How flexible are you to travel? Cashew nuts is about to flag off, hopefully by ending of this month. Could talk and link you up for the sourcing job.

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 6:45pm On Feb 18, 2016
sibb2011:
How flexible are you to travel? Cashew nuts is about to flag off, hopefully by ending of this month. Could talk and link you up for the sourcing job.

I'm available for anything sir. Put me in your radar.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by bollyfolly: 6:45pm On Feb 18, 2016
I feel your pain bro. I've been out of job since Jan this year and I know what it takes to loose job. I'm also a family person like you.

I'll like to ask if u can cope with 40k job, though your location matters in this cos if you are coming from far you may not be able to cope.

Pls let's talk via mail. Drop ur email n I'll mail u. I'm not promising anything but let's c how it goes. Pele dear.

deGovernor2024:
Good morning fellow house members.

I'm sorry to be back here again but things are deteriorating seriously for me here. My family is falling apart. My wife and kids are worse hit of this my joblessness.

Sequel to this post https://www.nairaland.com/2862636/why-everyone-cares-when-too

Many nairalandlers responded with words of encouragement and advice.

That aside, I have submitted over 150 applications both online and offline and received 4 invitations in all, attended all and yet no call up.

Please brothers and sisters I'm not here for financial assistance or for you to pity me but I'm here because I need a job to take care of my family which already falling apart.

My joblessness had bring untold hardship to me and my family. Yesterday I received the worst humiliation in my life I was dragged out of a BRT because I couldn't pay N100 and many people were looking at me. I tried to controlled my emotions but still I had to cried out my heart in secret.

This is me that used to help people a year ago now my friends and family members won't pick my calls again.

Some moments ago I was just staring at a fan hook. And thots of taking my life kept on creeping in. Please I'm dieing inside of me. I need a job.

Please I'm not a begger and I find it so humiliating to beg because it's absurd since I can work. All I'm asking you my fellow members especially Mr Seun and mods to please put this on front page who knows maybe my helper will be the there waiting.

Please save a soul

My details and pictures are in the above mentioned thread.

I need a job please.

Cc Seun Mynd44, Lalasticlala,davide490

Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 6:45pm On Feb 18, 2016
ednut1:
it is well bro. these same pple who deserted u will come back when things get better smh

Amen bro
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 6:54pm On Feb 18, 2016
bollyfolly:
I feel your pain bro. I've been out of job since Jan this year and I know what it takes to loose job. I'm also a family person like you.

I'll like to ask if u can cope with 40k job, though your location matters in this cos if you are coming from far you may not be able to cope.

Pls let's talk via mail. Drop ur email n I'll mail u. I'm not promising anything but let's c how it goes. Pele dear.


Bro I'm leaving in ijede here in ikorodu.
I have sent you an email
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by jemype(m): 7:36pm On Feb 18, 2016
Btruth:
which area are you OP?
im in ikoyi
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by matrix199(m): 9:03pm On Feb 18, 2016
Been there too once. Well, I wld have loved to help, just that you're 700km away from where help is. I'm sure those closer to you wld do smthing to help.



This reminds me of an experience I had some years back. I was so broke, had an appointment somewhere afar, defied the brokeness, went to meet up with the appointment, cldnt beg for tfare cos of shame, had to trek 10km back home, got home and I was like...now I understand why some people steal. Well, u don't solve a problem doing the wrong thing. U solve a problem doing the right thing.

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by 100Cents: 9:12pm On Feb 18, 2016
God will help you..

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by macaranta(m): 10:04pm On Feb 18, 2016
I'm sorry but I am going to be very blunt,with your suicidal tendencies/thoughts you are quite unfit for employment .Employees with extra emotional,financial,psychological etc baggage will be inefficient in a work place as they will lack concentration and focus.Reason why I am saying this is for you to repackage yourself as desperation will rather scare potential employers away.

Here is my advice,sorry I had to criticise you constructively first.
1.Depending on if you are technically or commercially inclined,look for any business you can attach yourself with on a learn,work earn basis(repair shops,mechanics,sales shops,etc) that way you get an income while waiting sanely for a job.
2.I can't advice you to start a business since it's obvious you have no savings,look for any middle man capital free job you can do and earn commissions e.g Property Agent,Clearing assistant at sea port or airport,Land agent,car sales agent.in this arrangements, you look for buyers and get paid commissions.
3.I don't know what your wife does,but she needs to take a crash course in catering, baking,tailoring,bead making,etc with this she can contribute her quota to sustaining the family.
4.I personally don't like demeaning jobs,but since you appear desperate consider looking for a keke,taxi or bus to drive it doesn't have to be yours;you can do daily returns,hire purchase,etc.Or you can do a little conductor job,even if you make 1k per day that's 30k per month you can start from there.
5.Look for any entrepreneur currently into any trade ,learn the trade secret get some products(you can do this for major distributors,etc) sell from home,you can also sell it from their shop.Create an online presence saying you sell stuffs(from the major distributors dealership,your sales price will be your profit+what the dealer sells for)You have a NL account,so it's safe to say you have internet access,do online marketing for whatever products you choose to sell,it's faster selling that way.
6.Take the internet seriously,go to freelance websites where with minimal skills like just typing and data entry you can make some dollars per day.Bid for projects ,see this one as a side hustle.

Let me stop for now..and I pray life treats you more kindly.

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Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 10:12pm On Feb 18, 2016
matrix199:
Been there too once. Well, I wld have loved to help, just that you're 700km away from where help is. I'm sure those in closer to you wld do smthing to help.



This reminds me of an experience I had some years back. I was so broke, had an appointment somewhere afar, defied the brokeness, went to meet up with the appointment, cldnt beg for tfare cos of shame, had to trek 10km back home, got home and I was like...now I understand why some people steal. Well, u don't solve a problem doing a wrong thing. U solve a problem doing the right thing.

Thank you Bro. Mine was that the 2 ticketers dragged me out of their bus after all the pleas. The worst was that people were just watching me. I cried my heart out secretly. Me that give people lift to ikorodu when I still got my car. Now I'm been humiliated for just N100. That was the day I feel like it's finished.

Sometimes life can be unfair.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by deGovernor2024: 10:18pm On Feb 18, 2016
macaranta:
I'm sorry but I am going to be very blunt,with your suicidal tendencies/thoughts you are quite unfit for employment .Employees with extra emotional,financial,psychological etc baggage will be inefficient in a work place as they will lack concentration and focus.Reason why I am saying this is for you to repackage yourself as desperation will rather scare potential employers away.

Here is my advice,sorry I had to criticise you constructively first.
1.Depending on if you are technically or commercially inclined,look for any business you can attach yourself with on a learn,work earn basis(repair shops,mechanics,sales shops,etc) that way you get an income while waiting sanely for a job.
2.I can't advice you to start a business since it's obvious you have no savings,look for any middle man capital free job you can do and earn commissions e.g Property Agent,Clearing assistant at sea port or airport,Land agent,car sales agent.in this arrangements, you look for buyers and get paid commissions.
3.I don't know what your wife does,but she needs to take a crash course in catering, baking,tailoring,bead making,etc with this she can contribute her quota to sustaining the family.
4.I personally don't like demeaning jobs,but since you appear desperate consider looking for a keke,taxi or bus to drive it doesn't have to be yours;you can do daily returns,hire purchase,etc.Or you can do a little conductor job,even if you make 1k per day that's 30k per month you can start from there.
5.Look for any entrepreneur currently into any trade ,learn the trade secret get some products(you can do this for major distributors,etc) sell from home,you can also sell it from their shop.Create an online presence saying you sell stuffs(from the major distributors dealership,your sales price will be your profit+what the dealer sells for)You have a NL account,so it's safe to say you have internet access,do online marketing for whatever products you choose to sell,it's faster selling that way.
6.Take the internet seriously,go to freelance websites where with minimal skills like just typing and data entry you can make some dollars per day.Bid for projects ,see this one as a side hustle.

Let me stop for now..and I pray life treats you more kindly.

Thank you Bro. I tried using my car to drive taxi but it keep give problem to the extent I had to sell it off. Mercedes vboot 230.
Re: My Condition Is Deteriorating Seriously Here. by HaneefahRN(f): 10:46pm On Feb 18, 2016
deGovernor2024:


I can sell a recharge cards and consumable items like snacks and drinks.

Thanks

Don't even think abt recharge card, it has no gain. Macaranta's advice isn't bad. May God help u wt something good soon

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