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“My name is Kate (changed for anonymity), I am 35 years old, I was formally married when I was 29years to a man I thought loved me as I loved him, the marriage was dissolved 2 years later due to spousal abuse ( I was being beaten up everyday of those years).

I stayed alone for awhile, then started dating this wonderful man-Sam about 2 years ago, he is older than me by some years, he takes care of my needs, he got me a house and 2 cars, opened a boutique for me and we fly everywhere around the world together. With the money I have gotten from him, I have been able to open a fishery, snail, and chicken farm, so basically I am doing ok, but I want him to help me get a steady job so I wouldn’t be dependent on him to much.

I was invited to a church, and I met a brother Ben-40years old that wants to marry me, the brother is jobless, lives with his parents, not his fault but he hasn’t been able to get a job for awhile so he sells books. He is good spiritually and helps me too I love that about him, he doesn’t want to have sex till after marriage.

I give Ben a lot from what Sam gives me, Ben doesn’t know about Sam yet, and I don’t plan to tell him. My issue is that, I want to get married again, Sam isn’t interested in marrying me, but Ben is, Sam takes care of me, he gives me all I want(I love shopping), Ben has nothing…if I leave Sam, Ben cant afford to take care of my needs( He thinks its the farm and shop that provides money for me, but funds gotten from them is too small)….

what do I do…please.”

Practical Advice please… thanks.


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Women?


Very confused set of peopl

Esthersblog:


the marriage was dissolved 2 years later due to spousal abuse ( I was being beaten up everyday of those years).

Eran iya

I stayed alone for awhile, then started dating this wonderful man-Sam about 2 years ago, he is older than me by some years, he takes care of my needs, he got me a house and 2 cars, opened a boutique for me and we fly everywhere around the world together. With the money I have gotten from him, I have been able to open a fishery, snail, and chicken farm, so basically I am doing ok, but I want him to help me get a steady job so I wouldn’t be dependent on him to much.

Nice

I was invited to a church, and I met a brother Ben-40years old that wants to marry me, the brother is jobless, lives with his parents, not his fault but he hasn’t been able to get a job for awhile so he sells books. He is good spiritually and helps me too I love that about him, he doesn’t want to have sex till after marriage.

So

I give Ben a lot from what Sam gives me, Ben doesn’t know about Sam yet, and I don’t plan to tell him. My issue is that, I want to get married again, Sam isn’t interested in marrying me, but Ben is, Sam takes care of me, he gives me all I want(I love shopping), Ben has nothing…if I leave Sam, Ben cant afford to take care of my needs( He thinks its the farm and shop that provides money for me, but funds gotten from them is too small)….

what do I do…please.”

May I know the reason why Sam isn’t interested in marrying you, have you ever discussed that with him??
Do you really love Sam or his money cos from the look of things, you are only interested in Sam's money

Ben 40yrs in his parent house!!!
Even Jesus started leaving his parent house by 12yrs
I don't know of the educational status of Ben.
All I see see in Ben in a no! No! No!

Hmmm...

Cutehector:
Women?


Very confused set of peopl

Yea, its surprising...

pharmagba:
Ben 40yrs in his parent house!!!
Even Jesus started leaving his parent house by 12yrs
I don't know of the educational status of Ben.
All I see see in Ben in a no! No! No!

Esthersblog:
Hmmm...

I lie?

Lol... Not all though...

Cutehector:
I lie?

Shey u no knw where your fellow women dey do juju ni. Wetin concern us for here. Make one of ur friends take you to one baba for solution abeg leave us.

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