dear nairalanders as you are called, I really need your advice.
I and my love had been in this relationship for 7months now and we look forward to settling down in no distance time but at this moment I am having a rethink. I met her not a virgin just as myself. after some weeks into our relationship I noticed my friend was reluctant to be intimate then I tried to let her know that I was not OK with it and that was when she told me that our relationship will have to be without sex until after marriage. initially I agreed since I have the intention to marry her, but as days roll into weeks and weeks into months, I discovered I wasn't finding it easy to cope, I let her know but she insist on no sex till marriage. I don't want to cheat on her and I have not in this past 7months but at the moment, the temptation is on the high side and those willing are within my reach.
now my question is,
1)are my being reserved for marriage while someone else is doing my work?
2) how long can a lady actually stay away from sex especially when such a lady is not a virgin?
3) are my being inpatient?
pls help before is too late.
NB: all thing going well, we should be married by Nov.

Think with your head and not your dick!

There are 2 ways to this:
She might be fooling or She might be saying the truth.

But then, I expect her to make some sacrifices.
If she can't give you sex considering she's not a virgin, she should be able to other things that can relieve you of the 'burden'.

Let her know how you feel about this and watch her reaction.

She might just have misplaced Priority
Or she just doesn't trust you enough.

I believe that if a girl loves a guy and she knows she's gonna marry the guy and she's not a virgin, she should be able to do the real deal. If not everytime but once in a while.



Communication is the key

DON'T BE SILLY LEARN SOME CONTROL IF SHE SAYS STAY THEN LOVE HER ENOUGH TO STAY MARCH TO NOVEMBER AS FOR IF LADIES CAN STAY YES BRO SOME LADIES CAN STAY YEARS WITHOUT SEX NA WE GUYS THEY LIKE FORM BURNING DESIRE ASK HER WHAT CHANGED AND THEN WORK IT OUT EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE YOUR MIND SHOULD ALWAYS CONTROL YOUR BODY (MIND OVER MATTER)

LogoDWhiz:
There are 2 ways to this:
She might be fooling or She might be saying the truth.

But then, I expect her to make some sacrifices.
If she can't give you sex considering she's not a virgin, she should be able to other things that can relieve you of the 'burden'.

Let her know how you feel about this and watch her reaction.

She might just have misplaced Priority
Or she just doesn't trust you enough.

I believe that if a girl loves a guy and she knows she's gonna marry the guy and she's not a virgin, she should be able to do the real deal. If not everytime but once in a while.



Communication is the key

thanks

alizma:
thanks

Uwc bro

alizma:
thanks

Uwc bro

alizma:
thanks

Uwc bro