The go and marry syndrome especially among the yoruba communities,we are known for this we hardly face our own problem,when they notice you are off age they will want to know who your girlfriend is.so guys how do you cope or answer them.

Go and marry ko..

I'm single.. marriage is not on my To-do list for a long time.

It's not by force to have wife. People shouting go and marry should mind their business marriage let me mind my youthful enjoyment.

Marriage is a cage.. burden..

Haha!! Not easy o it sometimes demoralized me whenever I hear go and marry your younger ones are married.

Its a crazy trend and has made us have kids we can't train(agberos). Yes, they are many. Kamoru! Segun, Kayode just mention them. We marry young which is good but many a times not prepared mentally, financially and psychologically for marriage at that young age because imo we are not matured at heart.

A struggling yoruba boy who mistakenly impregnate a girl and bears a child out of wedlock will be pressuring me to get married as if marriage is a do or die affair.I dey tell dem say,shey dem force you to give gel belle?Why you won come force me too?

dancok:
The go and marry syndrome especially among the yoruba communities,we are known for this we hardly face our own problem,when they notice you are off age they will want to know who your girlfriend is.so guys how do you cope or answer them.

Sometimes they are jealous of bachelors.A struggling yoruba guy with a wife and kid will be jealous if they see a bachelor being able to afford some things they can't afford because they have a family to cater for that has restricted their budget.

Love Machine:
Sometimes they are jealous of bachelors.A struggling yoruba guy with a wife and kid will be jealous if they see a bachelor being able to afford some things they can't afford because they have a family to cater for that has restricted their budget.

i wonder o bro,but this marriage of a thing is not by force,one thing i cherish about these white people is that they are very individualistic.

Sunnypar:
Its a crazy trend and has made us have kids we can't train(agberos). Yes, they are many. Kamoru! Segun, Kayode just mention them. We marry young which is good but many a times not prepared mentally, financially and psychologically for marriage at that young age because imo we are not matured at heart.

lol.

I.m facing the exact pressure now from my mum, it's just happened that I.m her only child and she always ring it as a bell that I must get married immediately after my youth service.

2kaybiel:
Haha!! Not easy o it sometimes demoralized me whenever I hear go and marry your younger ones are married.

i wonder sometimes is marrige a yardstick for success,i feel somehow yday when one of our family friend came visit and my phone rang she said "is that your girlfriend, u are getting old o" am just 30 not even financially upright.

Godswillnwaoma:
I.m facing the exact pressure now from my mum, it's just happened that I.m her only child and she always ring it as a bell that I must get married immediately after my youth service.

if ur mum is going to provide for the marrige or maybe u are financially ok before,as in guys with money u know na,maybe u are that category

dancok:
if ur mum is going to provide for the marrige or maybe u are financially ok before,as in guys with money u know na,maybe u are that category

I will still hustle after graduation and you know that Nigeria economy is not helping matter at all. If I allow my mum to provide everything that will make me irresponsible and I don't want that to happen at all.

Godswillnwaoma:
I will still hustle after graduation and you know that Nigeria economy is not helping matter at all.

God will help us.

dancok:
God will help us.

amen

dancok:
i wonder sometimes is marrige a yardstick for success,i feel somehow yday when one of our family friend came visit and my phone rang she said "is that your girlfriend, u are getting old o" am just 30 not even financially upright.

30and you are complaining of financial uprightness..... You should be happy.... We have 35, 38 and 40 who are not close to your financial uprightness...... Many jumped into marriage because of pressure..... Some we dey Bleep they Bleep belle enter.......... Know what you want and go for it.

Sunnypar:

30and you are complaining of financial uprightness..... You should be happy.... We have 35, 38 and 40 who are not close to your financial uprightness...... Many jumped into marriage because of pressure..... Some we dey Bleep they Bleep belle enter.......... Know what you want and go for it.

I pity this our generation.

Godswillnwaoma:
I pity this our generation.

why?

Sunnypar:
why?

because the current economy is not friendly at all.things are going worse day by day.