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Hello EB Readers, this is a mail I got from a reader , wanted to share with you all for some advice, read below......

"I am a 30 year old single lady, working in Nigeria, earning a good salary, leaving in my own house and practically having a good time. I have a boyfriend, who is loving, understanding and caring. He is the only guy I have dated that understands me so much, in other words...he gets me.

I look forward to that in any relationship I go into and am grateful to God for bringing him to me. When we met, he said he was separated and undergoing a divorce....we started dating and things escalated, he introduced me to his family members, his mother, siblings and uncles. He has met my family members and talked with them.

We have been dating for almost 2 years and am worried, he has never asked for an introduction (formal way of meeting my father and mother), he always says he wants to marry me when his divorced is finalized, but how long does it take divorce to be finalized?? He is always saying that he loves me and I should give him more time....

I don't know what to do, please I need advice, should I wait for him for as long as it takes, or start dating another person waiting for the one that will ask for marriage first? ...."

(practical advice). Thanks


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