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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by bukatyne(f): 3:42pm On Mar 10, 2016
purityannabel:
my brother in law staying with us is driving me crazy. ....many at times when he comes back from school ...He will just keep his school bag and leave the house without my knowledge ooooo..... He won't even bother to fetch water just from the tank oooo.....if I want to cook I will go down stairs and fetch it before doing the cooking. then if he later come back he will ask me for food........
Am just tired of this teenage boy.....I dont know what to do ........Pls your opinion will be appreciated. ......

Maám,

The boy is just 17; treat him like a 17yr old boy and designate chores to him.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 10, 2016
If he doesn't want to fetch water, fetch it yourself to cook your husband meals. Fetch water for your bathing ONLY. when your husband comes home, he should fetch his own water too, afterall he has a worthless brother at home,

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by jashar(f): 4:10pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
17, he s grown, will soon go to 2d university, d best way to make him work in d house is by being friendly, u can't simply nag @ him to do house chores! he s not a girl


hmmmm..... so girls should be nagged to do house chores baa?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by jashar(f): 4:15pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
I grow up wt my elder bro, we live 2geda b4 he even get married, I don't c y d wife should send me on errand, I do things I want 2 do, like take my bro cloths to laundry, wash his car @ tyms, I even cook cos she was friendly, d moment she started seeing it dt is mandatory I help her I quit helping her, I will voluntarily mess up d whole place dts how we guys tend to grow, even mum cnt send me wen she s hard on me, but I can do anything 4 her wen she sound nice n friendly

... and you're proud of your behaviour? undecided

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 4:18pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:

But he's living with her? And he would like to eat ba? She is not his house girl either. He must help
he ll help surely but not under duress, u cnt simply mk it obvious
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 4:20pm On Mar 10, 2016
PresVA:
Just a wife abi? Kids of nowadays, ewww

Mr man, if you wan form big boy, GO AND HAVE YOUR OWN HOUSE! it's that simple na..

Byeee#
kids of nowadays? I jst stated how I spent my teen age wt my bro, am all grown now n am on my own
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Godmother(f): 4:45pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
kids of nowadays? I jst stated how I spent my teen age wt my bro, am all grown now n am on my own

You truly haven't met your match that's why you speak this way. How can you go and form boss in another person's house? If you cannot fetch ordinary water then get a place of your own to live as you wish.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 4:55pm On Mar 10, 2016
Godmother:


You truly haven't met your match that's why you speak this way. How can you go and form boss in another person's house? If you cannot fetch ordinary water then get a place of your own to live as you wish.
who ll sent me out? my bro or d wife?
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Godmother(f): 5:05pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
who ll sent me out? my bro or d wife?

There's no point arguing this. You obviously are so confident in your opinions, even if they aren't proper. Wish you good luck
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Moana(f): 5:08pm On Mar 10, 2016
I do not think your brother in law is a mind reader, if you want something done you have to ask. If you dont you wilk keep frustrsting yourself silently.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by TheArchangel(f): 5:11pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
keep yawning! am not her maid either! my match? lol she s jst a wife
The beauty of the Internet is it anonymity.

One word from her and your sorry arse will be bundled back to your village.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 5:16pm On Mar 10, 2016
TheArchangel:
The beauty of the Internet is it anonymity.

One word from her and your sorry arse will be bundled back to your village.
Hehehehehehe I wish u know more! I wish I could share! old tyms though
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by TheArchangel(f): 5:18pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
who ll sent me out? my bro or d wife?
With this your attitude imagine the extent of the rift you caused in your brothers marriage. We may not know it but teenage bros and sis in laws are often the major cause of squabbles young couples has in their marriage.
When we grow up, we all acts saintly even proffering solutions to troubled marriages, oblivious of the harm we've caused out of spite to others either knowingly or unknowingly in our formative years.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 5:22pm On Mar 10, 2016
TheArchangel:
With this your attitude imagine the extent of the rift you caused in your brothers marriage. We may not know it but teenage bros and sis in laws are often the major cause of squabbles young couples has in their marriage.
When we grow up, we all acts saintly even proffering solutions to troubled marriages, oblivious of the harm we've caused out of spite to others either knowingly or unknowingly in our formative years.
u ladies won't stop quoting me!!! wat ever I stated here was way back about 6 yrs bck! nw I aav my own work n stay on my own! I jst advise d lady on how she should go about d. bro inlaw cos he won't stay there 4ever!
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by TheArchangel(f): 5:24pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
u ladies won't stop quoting me!!! wat ever I stated here was way back about 6 yrs bck! nw I aav my own work n stay on my own! I jst advise d lady on how she should go about d. bro inlaw cos he won't stay there 4ever!
Naaaaaa the aftermath of his staying will cause a rift which if not well handled may be blown over.
How was your brothers marriage after you left? What was your sister in law's relationship with you like?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 5:34pm On Mar 10, 2016
TheArchangel:
Naaaaaa the aftermath of his staying will cause a rift which if not well handled may be blown over.
How was your brothers marriage after you left? What was your sister in law's relationship with you like?
I started living wt bro wen I was in ss1, he got married wen I was in 100 level! it's way bck now! we re all cool, no woman can deter d relationship I av wt bro, I wish u understand how my family bonds
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by TheArchangel(f): 5:36pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
I started living wt bro wen I was in ss1, he got married wen I was in 100 level! it's way bck now! we re all cool, no woman can deter d relationship I av wt bro, I wish u understand how my family bonds
tongue grin ;DYou didn't answer the question. Na so you pass university ni?
TheArchangel:
Naaaaaa the aftermath of his staying will cause a rift which if not well handled may be blown over.
Ho[b]w was your brothers marriage after you left? What was your sister in law's relationship with you like[/b]?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 5:39pm On Mar 10, 2016
TheArchangel:
tongue grin ;DYou didn't answer the question. Na so you pass university ni?
re read! I said we re all Cool! They re all cool
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Nobody: 6:07pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
re read! I said we re all Cool! They re all cool
Since u argue that u did ur bro wife no wrong, then may God repay u all dat u've done to her n her marriage in VERY good measure, wherever u go, whatever u do and from whoever u meet.
Pls say Amen

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Joy1706(f): 6:10pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
he ll help surely but not under duress, u cnt simply mk it obvious
He WILL help as long as he stays in my house and eats my food. What kind of ill mannered boy is that?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 6:17pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
17, he s grown, will soon go to 2d university, d best way to make him work in d house is by being friendly, u can't simply nag @ him to do house chores! he s not a girl

Jesus is Lord

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Faith111: 6:19pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
if he s not living with u, u won't cook? who fetches d water wen he hasn't come? leave dt boy mk he groove no be house boy

You're not married...I'm right cos there's no need to ask.

She should fetch water and cook for a teenage boy...will her son act that way?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by utenwuson: 6:22pm On Mar 10, 2016
hotmum:

Since u argue that u did ur bro wife no wrong, then may God repay u all dat u've done to her n her marriage in VERY good measure, wherever u go, whatever u do and from whoever u meet.
Pls say Amen
amen
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 6:23pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
I grow up wt my elder bro, we live 2geda b4 he even get married, I don't c y d wife should send me on errand, I do things I want 2 do, like take my bro cloths to laundry, wash his car @ tyms, I even cook cos she was friendly, d moment she started seeing it dt is mandatory I help her I quit helping her, I will voluntarily mess up d whole place dts how we guys tend to grow, even mum cnt send me wen she s hard on me, but I can do anything 4 her wen she sound nice n friendly

What nonsense. See smelling pride oo

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Faith111: 6:25pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
I grow up wt my elder bro, we live 2geda b4 he even get married, I don't c y d wife should send me on errand, I do things I want 2 do, like take my bro cloths to laundry, wash his car @ tyms, I even cook cos she was friendly, d moment she started seeing it dt is mandatory I help her I quit helping her, I will voluntarily mess up d whole place dts how we guys tend to grow, even mum cnt send me wen she s hard on me, but I can do anything 4 her wen she sound nice n friendly

If you were my BIL, you will certainly be typing this carp from your village. If it were your sister's house will you act like that? You sincerely don't regard your brother and I fault your upbring.

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 6:38pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
keep yawning! am not her maid either! my match? lol she s jst a wife

U for man enough stay on ur own. why live with people? Big bros. U sound like an outdated Urhobo man.
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 6:41pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:

Ur parents failed in training u well. Failed woefully for that matter. Ur wife will end up cursing ur mom cos of ur lack of training
I like u because, u nor dey disappoint me. lol
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 6:46pm On Mar 10, 2016
Moana:
I do not think your brother in law is a mind reader, if you want something done you have to ask. If you dont you wilk keep frustrsting yourself silently.

Really? so pikin for house nor know wetin to do again?

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by parrotibaba(m): 8:16pm On Mar 10, 2016
thelish:


Really? so pikin for house nor know wetin to do again?
She has a point, sometimes we are the architects of our own problems. If she want the boy to fetch water for her or do any other chores, all she has to do is ask and not expect the boy to read her mind whilst she continues harboring ill will towards the boy. A little communication doesn't hurt does it?
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Richy4(m): 8:42pm On Mar 10, 2016
utenwuson:
17, he s grown, will soon go to 2d university, d best way to make him work in d house is by being friendly, u can't simply nag @ him to do house chores! he s not a girl


Hahaha u are deliberately making this women angry on this thread bro. that's really funny cheesy

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Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by thelish(f): 8:49pm On Mar 10, 2016
parrotibaba:
She has a point, sometimes we are the architects of our own problems. If she want the boy to fetch water for her or do any other chores, all she has to do is ask and not expect the boy to read her mind whilst she continues harboring ill will towards the boy. A little communication doesn't hurt does it?

So, if d boy was living with his mom, he will
need some form of communication before doing house chores? It seems nowadays kids are different ooo. How can I be in a house, and not do anytin? In this case, d boy have been doing it until he clock 15 yrs. When dem don dey carry small small girls, na so e dey be. Useless open eye
Re: What To Do When He Didn't Fetch Water For Cooking by Acidosis(m): 8:51pm On Mar 10, 2016
How many times have you instructed the boy to fetch you water?

Has he ever turned down your request?


Are you a perfectionist? I asked because some men and women can never be satisfied when they outsource. There is nothing you can do that will ever satisfy a perfectionist.

Its either you arrange the plates wrongly, or you sweep poorly, the plate is slippery, you use too much soap, the TV is too loud, you placed the remote wrongly, etc. When I meet such people, I run!

So may be the boy sees you as a perfectionist and he's trying to avoid home duties.

Examine yourself ma, and speak to him. Do not expect a 17 year old boy to read your mind. He has been living with you since he was 12! Where else do you expect him to learn home training?

Train the boy and stop frustrating the efforts you've never attempted.

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