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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Dcmg(m): 1:26pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Men dnt want to marry women of higher standard than them,women dnt want to marry guys of lower standard than them.How many rich and powerful women would want to marry a poor and weak guy?You see?50-50=Equality! No matter how powerful or rich a wowan is,she will always want to marry a man with a higher value than hers. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by abbey621(m): 1:32pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Another gender bashing thread, all is well! Male or female if everyone plays their God giving role then everything would be okay. Majority of men are afraid to get maried because they've either witnessed first hand the devastating consequences of a marriage gone sour or a narrative from frustrated couples. In Nigeria, the male is regarded as bread winner, ATM machine, the sole provider and even though it increases the man's ego, it does not help in the long run. Nigerian males must learn to live and let live, a strong woman can be tamed just as easily as a strong man, it all depends on understanding. Forget culture or traditional sentiments, nowadays the best spouse is one who has something to bring to the table. I rather marry an educated woman, who is financially smart, a hardworker and caring attitude, than marry a woman with low self esteem, confidence and a rundown attitude. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by 5minsmadness: 2:06pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Most Women are so darn Unlucky they meet the darnedest Guys... too bad |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
@ op, are you aware that a lot of women have never had the kind of conversation you had with that guy before with any man?Not Even their own so called boyfriends! Besides their house maid duties,All they do is smile, Collect chicken change and open their legs for any creature that says hi to them simply because he wears trousers. That is why the girl child education is a big deal in africa not just for women to speak good english but to be fully empowered so they don't need any man's presence or permission to be 'whole'. Just that most women lack self respect and dignity even with their level of education. It is also important to know that just as some men say they don't need women,some women don't need men either. But they just end up courting and marrying to avoid criticisms from the society and end up having a miserable marriage. That's why its important that when courting, people especially ladies should ask questions. Leave sex aside,be observant, talk and ask questions to know the real intention of that man towards you! 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by timilehing(m): 2:20pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Can't believe this post actually made it to front page after 5years. Congrats to me |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 2:43pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:I think you are one of the few sane ones. Will follow you and read your other posts to ascertain if I'm right or if perhaps this is just one moment of clarity in the sea of insanity. . not that you are or should be bothered by what I think, just looking to reassure myself that all hope is not lost and that there are still good peeps out there, good peeps sound of heart and mind. 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 2:47pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
njokusboy:Not in mine and a lot of homes I know. Ain't no bosses in mine. We rule together, side by side, bonnie and Clyde, ride or die together not oga and his minions or madam and her boi-boi! Stop chatting bullsh!t! It's too early in the week! 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 2:47pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
EternalBeing: Thanks;your additions are essentials too. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 2:52pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
njokusboy:Then you most certainly are NOT an alpha male especially in your crib. An alpha male leads the pack of his kind, alpha- amongst other males not alpha- amongst females, geddit? 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by joseph1832(m): 3:07pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
MrWaters: The other day, I was talking to a male acquaintance whose one-time girlfriend had been a friend of mine, which I had been aware of ended because he refused to get married after three years of being together. He was complaining to me of how his house had been turned into a “base” by his friends, and how he never had any moments of peace any longer, and how he was wondering what to do about the situation. I remarked that perhaps, he ought to get married. OP. I read this post and came to the conclusion that you are really not telling yourself the truth!. In fact you speak like a hypocrite. You can not use the actions of a single man to judge the rest of us. I believe as you know character, attitude and behaviour defer from one person to the other. What would you say do girls who go around chasing married men?, what would you say to girls who open their mouths and say they can't date bachelors?, and what do you say to girls who go around prostituting themselves to married and unmarried men?. Believe me when I tell you that acquaintance of your's is a coward. If he doesn't want his friends to use his house as a base he should just tell them so, nobody will kill him. An advice for you OP. never use the actions of a select few to judge others. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by cococandy(f): 3:09pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
After going round in circles you agree with me that not all males are alpha? Good. Your first post says we men are made alphas meaning that men are all naturally alphas isn't it? Now you also admit that females can be alphas too? Keep contradicting yourself. My point is that a male 'alphaness' isn't hinged on how he's able to dominate his woman but more about he's the at the top among men. As against the picture you were trying to paint. Following that train of thought a man who can beat,manipulate or shout his woman into submission can call himself alpha even when he has nothing that it takes to be the head. we are talking of the human species here. If a woman finds such a man as the true alpha male,I doubt if she'll have a problem with his leadership.so that's by the way njokusboy: 2 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 3:10pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Thanks. I am no saint,just one consciously trying to shatter the curtains of autocracy and the patriarchal concept of marriage as servitude that have denied us true love,fulfillment and enduring marital peace. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 3:14pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:Who is? But that self reflection and examination is what matters because that is the only way to grow and become a better person. I sighted your post on the other thread about what family is about, are you single? From what I am sighting, I could dash you one of my fine friends. Observing mode activated! 2 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by vislabraye(m): 3:26pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Ngokafor(f): 3:32pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy: ..Lwkmd!..as in when everi everi don shrivel finish ba?..hehe.. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by traware(m): 3:42pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy:Nah!!!I very much intend to 'check out' this way.Nothing do me.Emi ni baller!
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Lolzzz, I won't bother responding.... With the energy you dey use puff, I sure say e no long before you yab me... Nd am a worse yabber... Nd dis thread go spoil.... Madam, when u re ready to debate without throwing invectives, lemme know..... |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Ngokafor(f): 3:45pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: ..hey you lady please take timeoo!..i was going to recommend him to one of my sweet friends,now you want to snatch him from 'us'..abegoo... ..@apolonius dont mind her,if you are still single and searching, i have a sweet,fresh-face, skin and decent babe for you.She is also a good cook..so what do you say?..hehe.. ... just kidding but i honestly love reading your balanced comments on men,women and relationships...if thats how how you really are then your wif is/will be a lucky woman...keep it up. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by traware(m): 3:54pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Ngokafor:A very nice pat on the back for you @apolonius.By the way,@Ngokafor since he is such 'a real/good man' why must he marry just a wife and not wives?Eh?Why should he limit himself to just one woman when there is always a steady stream of young,fresh faced women always available for men from age 18 to age 120? 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by bukatyne(f): 3:56pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
chinziaski: A woman who knows her onion and keeps to it will always find it difficult with men of this day. They find those women hard to crack therefore they chicken out. Many men want submissive women, a woman that will ignore their ills. A woman who will strictly adhere to his rules and face her job of cooking and giving birth. But, lucky is the man who marries these women because on the long run, they get the real fulfillment of marriage. I told a woman about her bill some days back, you know what her reply was "let me tell my husband". Chai! I said "which kind woman be dis?" A woman who knows her onion will sort the problem there without calling her husband but later tell her husband she had taken care of the problem. We find those women who know their onions bossy and very hard to manipulate. So we get scared of the future. Very correct 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 3:59pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Ngokafor:You snooze you loose! I sighted him first. Apolonius, what say you? I will prepare before you a buffet of fine delectable well mannered and hot gals, you can have just one though depending on ya taste. I will personally pay the bride price for you! All you have to do is choose one and sail away into the sunset together. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 4:01pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: The human spirit is a 'god',it connects with the 'personalities within us' even without having to see us. I appreciate your comments and do cherish your intelligence-real intelligence enchants me greatly. I found love over 1 year ago,and it has been so beautiful that we are saying 'I do' in September,God willing. You know how it is when you have had interesting relationships,and then true love happens in a way you decide to marry early and quite young?This is what my story is that I can only thank you for your genuine offer. But who says we can't go beyond sharing beautiful ideas on here and be proactive in connecting great guys and babes together across states and around the world? I am grateful. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 4:03pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
traware: A very nice pat on the back for you @apolonius.By the way,@Ngokafor since he is such 'a real/good man' why must he marry just a wife and not wives?Eh?Why should he limit himself to just one woman when there is always a steady stream of young,fresh faced women always available for men from age 18 to age 120? Thanks bro. On 'wives',you want make Lady Coco and the titans of feminism chew you alive? |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 4:04pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Ngokafor: Thanks for your kind words. Bless you. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy: After going round in circles you agree with me that not all males are alpha? Lolzzz, I never said all males are Alphas and you know it.... Atleast I never championed that course, my response to you clearly states that.... Abi no be me write am... I go quote am after this.... Neither my first post or any other posts suggested that there are no female Alphas... Check my post again, I said, "if the woman runs the home, the male is no alpha"... Stop grasping at straws to score cheap points... Your point was that alpha has nothing to do with women and an alpha is only dominant among males... And I told you, an alpha controls his unit, his unit includes his wife... So what is your point.... No definition of alpha states that it is the dominant male in a group of males... An Alpha is the dominant male in his pack which consists of his wives and children.... A male is the Alpha in his home... An alpha is not the Top among men, he is the top in his unit.... A woman can also be an Alpha in a pack, does it mean, its only among the females.... Hell no.... What are you even talking about... You are veering off tangent... I don't understand "the shouting, the beating, and having what it takes to be the head".... Kindly elaborate... I reiterate, An alpha as far as the human specie is concerned is one who handles his ShIT, is in charge of his home.... In my circus, I am an Alpha... Among my peers, I am only one of the hotheads... Am I an Alpha where they are concerned, no... We are all the same... When each goes to his home, he can become an Alpha.... |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Ngokafor(f): 4:07pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: ..Awwww this is nice...Happy married life in advance.. ..@shaybebaby ntoor!you wanted to 'chance' my friend right?...well he is getting hitched soon..*tongue out*.. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
njokusboy: |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 4:09pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
njokusboy:You just did ya know! Me that was expending energy doing housework as well as perusing NL. It's called multitasking and that is something only an alpha- female would understand . But... First sensible thing you have said on this thread, the not engaging! |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 4:13pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:Congratulations to you and your wife to be. She is one blessed person and I wish you every fortune, happiness and plenty of off springs. Your owe the world more mini- versions of you. E pain me sha that I just returned from naija, otherwise I would gate crashed to come and chop rice, dance and celebrate with you. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by traware(m): 4:14pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:I dey fear them?They can only cluck and quack and do nothing else.Which 60year old man wants to wake up with a 57year old woman next to him every morning?Me?at the age of 72,I want to wake up with two fresh faced,firm bodied young women on my left and right sides every morning.Nothing do me.I dey live my life!!!Eh eh eh eh ehhh!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by shaybebaby(f): 4:15pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Ngokafor:Ngo, take time o. You are looking for my trouble ooo, where is my e- bulala? |
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