Hello nairalanders, am posting this because am a little bit confused about something huge. I often imagine and watch it in movies but this is real. Couple of weeks ago, she contacted me and cheerfully told me about her upcoming wedding which felt weird and somehow to me but I only complemented her. Fast forward to my main confusion, she's asked me to plan her wedding alongside her close male and female friends which I accepted but God knows am not comfortable with that. What do I do please?

Only helpful suggestions please and please dont mind my English, its the rush

Hhmmmm.. if u plan dat wedding, I will loo for you and beat u up

abeg re u an even planner ni ¿ if nt butt out

Smellymouth:
Hhmmmm

Thats it ooo, I dunno what to do

WELL SINCE SHE ASKED, THEN PLAN THE WEDDING FOR HER, ATLEAST ITS A FAVOUR THAT SHE WILL EVER BE THANKFUL OF, AND OP MAY SHE KNOWS YOU ARE AN INTELLIGENT GUY THAT CAN PLAN VERY WELL, SO DO IT FOR HER ASAP.

Smellymouth:
Hhmmmm.. if u plan dat wedding, I will loo for you and beat u up

its not funny jawe.

Am suspecting foul play

Are you an even planner?


If yes, charge her for the job. Pure business arrangement without favour but if you're not then Bleep off.



Seems she wants to use you for the last time.

And you can't immediately reply with "THUNDER FAYA YOUR MOUTH THERE"

healthyarena:
And you can't immediately reply with "THUNDER FAYA YOUR MOUTH THERE"

it might seem rude to her and she might think I dont wish her good

tolexy111:
Hello nairalanders, am posting this because am a little bit confused about something huge. I often imagine and watch it in movies but this is real. Couple of weeks ago, she contacted me and cheerfully told me about her upcoming wedding which felt weird and somehow to me but I only complemented her. Fast forward to my main confusion, she's asked me to plan her wedding alongside her close male and female friends which I accepted but God knows am not comfortable with that. What do I do please?

Only helpful suggestions please and please dont mind my English, its the rush

"Ogbeni the event planner?" No wonder she is not getting married to you! You seem to be a weakling in addition to being a punk! Better go and purchase some balls preferably in "size XXL"!

she wanted back maybe not really really back, you know what i mean

or perhaps she has explicit trust in you when you guys were together and wouldn't trade that perceived good relationship/friendship for anything

consider her request an honour

tolexy111:
it might seem rude to her and she might think I dont wish her good

If you don't want to sound rude you may still pick her faeces! Tell her it sounds absurd! where is it done?

tolexy111:
Hello nairalanders, am posting this because am a little bit confused about something huge. I often imagine and watch it in movies but this is real. Couple of weeks ago, she contacted me and cheerfully told me about her upcoming wedding which felt weird and somehow to me but I only complemented her. Fast forward to my main confusion, she's asked me to plan her wedding alongside her close male and female friends which I accepted but God knows am not comfortable with that. What do I do please?

Only helpful suggestions please and please dont mind my English, its the rush

She wants to fúck you for d last time b4 she say, "I do" and d only way to do that is to bring you closer so that no one will suspect her. And d only way to do that is to make u a planner, but it will still look suspicious, and that is why she involved her other friends and then mixed them up with guys so that u will not be the only male (ex) around.


She is smart.






Maybe she want her 1st child to be yours without even knowing it. Some women are just mean.


My assumptions though

chigoizie7:






She wants to fúck you for d last time b4 she say, "I do" and d only way to do that is to bring you closer so that no one will suspect her. And d only way to do that is to make u a planner, but it will still look suspicious, and that is why she involved her other friends and then mixed them up with guys so that u will not be the only male (ex) around.


She is smart.






Maybe she want her 1st child to be yours without even knowing it. Some women are just mean.


My assumptions though

hmmmmmm

Other advice pls