I don't understand ooo . Does it mean that men don't contribute positively to the lives of women at all...obviously the statement completely exclude the family ie father, brother, cousins etc

It means behind every successful woman is herself ? How can you not understand ? Lol what does her brother and her cousin have to do with her being successful ? Eh.

dareyyyy:
I don't understand ooo . Does it mean that men don't contribute positively to the lives of women at all...obviously the statement completely exclude the family ie father, brother, cousins etc

Well you should have asked, how do you define success?

joseph1832:
Well you should have asked, how do you define success?

bros, I dey wait make thm talk now

YourMain:
It means behind every successful woman is herself ? How can you not understand ? Lol what does her brother and her cousin have to do with her being successful ? Eh.

..I knw , that's why I wana knw y is just by herself, no contribution from her hubby, brother, father abi landlord

dareyyyy:
bros, I dey wait make thm talk now

Okay oh.

dareyyyy:
..I knw , that's why I wana knw y is just by herself, no contribution from her hubby, brother, father abi landlord

Eh ? If she's successful financially. Did the husband or brother give her the money she made. If it's her job. Did he do the job for her ? If it's with her academic did they help her read the book ? So... I don't understand what does this have to do with the men in her family... ?

YourMain:


Eh ? If she's successful financially. Did the husband or brother give her the money she made. If it's her job. Did he do the job for her ? If it's with her academic did they help her read the book ? So... I don't understand what does this have to do with the men in her family... ?

...My dear, my point is no matter how success driven, energetic or intelligent u maybe, one way or the othr u need the support of some pple around u. Now before success cn be attain, some individuals either directly or othrwise would av contributed positively in her life. For example father probably sent her to school.
The saying that a woman is successful by herself is hypothetically wrong from my own point of view, I still stand to be corrected.

YourMain:
It means behind every successful woman is herself ? How can you not understand ? Lol what does her brother and her cousin have to do with her being successful ? Eh.

HOW THEN IS IT POSSIBLE, THAT THERE'S A WOMAN BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN??

dareyyyy:
...My dear, my point is no matter how success driven, energetic or intelligent u maybe, one way or the othr u need the support of some pple around u. Now before success cn be attain, some individuals either directly or othrwise would av contributed positively in her life. For example father probably sent her to school.
The saying that a woman is successful by herself is hypothetically wrong from my own point of view, I still stand to be corrected.

Bia Mr darey wt al d y. What don't u understand when u are already convinced 4rm ur own point of view.

AngelXs:
Bia Mr darey wt al d y. What don't u understand when u are already convinced 4rm ur own point of view.

...madam, I want learn more now

swaggzo:



HOW THEN IS IT POSSIBLE, THAT THERE'S A WOMAN BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN??

I don't agree with that statement either.

dareyyyy:
...My dear, my point is no matter how success driven, energetic or intelligent u maybe, one way or the othr u need the support of some pple around u. Now before success cn be attain, some individuals either directly or othrwise would av contributed positively in her life. For example father probably sent her to school.
The saying that a woman is successful by herself is hypothetically wrong from my own point of view, I still stand to be corrected.

Lol. What about those people whose fathers and brothers sent them to school and they didn't end up successful. Would you then say behind their lack of success is their father and their brothers. No. When I go to school and if I end up successful it's because of my hardwork and the determination I put into school. You can be successful without school.

It's not wrong at all. You are responsible for every seed your sow in your life. wheather that seed is fruitful is up to you. It's only by your input that your seed will become good. My father cannot sit my exams for me, he will not work in the job I'm successful in for me. So how is he behind my success ?

[quote author=dareyyyy post=43746090]...Now before success cn be attain, some individual(s) either directly or othrwise would av contributed positively in your life. For example father probably ...is just an example.
Lets b pragmatic, let's take olajumoke fr instance, she attained the position she is tdy becos obviously she was dedicated, committed n industrious.These are personal triats buh somebdy, somewhr who happens to be Ty Bello, pulled her and brought her to lime light. Also, nobdy knew Late professor Dora until she was appointed as d DG of NAFDAC. Someone appointed her and that gave her a push. Ma point again ma is that, somebody dey behind that success...shebi u acknowledged someple for ur project fr school?

YourMain:


I don't agree with that statement either.

. I agree buh it may not necessarily be a woman..

dareyyyy:
. I agree buh it may not necessarily be a woman..

Lol so only men can be behind people's success ?

YourMain:


Lol so only men can be behind people's success ?

...It cn be anybody...that's not what I mean oooo