nijaomegacode:


when i notice how she feels anytime i give something, i told her that we can be just friends if she doesn't want a romantic relationship with me. I also promised to give her anything she ask for if we are just friends. She didnt say anything but kept her head down. So i removed my hands from her belly and pulled back. immediately, she raised her eyes and gave me a piercing look. i didn't move, then she started figetting, moving her hands uncontrolably and speaking with tension in her voice. Then i grabbed her and begin rubbing her hands with passion and she calm down and became relaxed. How do you explain that?

fact that she became relaxed means nothing...see guy I think you really want you and this chic to work out.. but it doesn't work like that.. this chic isn't into you the way you are to her.. it's a pity she can't front up and tell u the truth... my advice to you is that you should move on... she couldn't even give u an honest answer when you asked her if you guys could be just friends. I stand by my initial assessment that she's milking u for cash but maybe cuz ur a good guy she feels guilty about it.. leave her sorry ass

swiitJese:
Maybe she is using oyinbo style

which one is oyinbo style? how e they be?

emmawiz:
Be wise as a serpent broda!!

what will you do if you were in my shoes?

nijaomegacode:
[color=#000099][/color] Hello guys! I really your advice on this. I met a girl four months ago through a friend. I asked my friend to tell her that i like her a lot, which he did. Then later i ask my friend to collect her number for me but she told him to "forget that thing". Some weeks later I met her around my lecture Hall and i asked for her number. I said "i asked my friend to collect your number but you refused. oK can i have it or maybe i should give you mine?" She replied by saying "no, let me give you mine".We started talking and she visits sometimes. After about 2 months, the physical contact increased as she visits me every night and she will leave my place late at night most times. Recently, i asked her to be my girlfriend because i like her very much. She looked down for awhile and she said yes. I was happy that night and i cuddle her for a long time. Now the problem......
When i noticed she has changed her phone i asked where she got it from and she replied "why doyou want to know? i let her be and later that night she told me her dad got it for her. If i tell her i love her, she doesnt say it back but she will say "ok dear". She always seems sad whenever i giver money or something. Yesterday, she told while we are talking on phone she told me that when her cousin ask about me she told her(the cousine) she didn't know me. whenever i ask for sex she will say i should be a little patient and that she will give what i want in just a little time. wheneve she comes to my place sad and i ask what the problem is she will continually say "nothing" even if i ask 100time and she is always happy when i ask for something from. I had to ask a lot of times if i can kiss her before she allows me the first kiss. Guys, i am confused about her love because she never she loves me. Pls is this girl playing me or using me as a backup plan. Or does she loves me. In either case, what should i do?

Treat her exactly the way she does to u .. Nd stop telling her you love her...Works like magic.. Thank me later

nijaomegacode:
Pls no insults. Please guys, I want to know if she loves me or not. Should i end the relationship or i should continue? She's is really not a demanding type, i just want to know if i can really invest in her. Do you think she loves me?

in BUHARI'S voice KWANTINU!!!