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Why only Igbo people? Are there no Yoruba and Hausa residing in Anambra that scored high? I smell tribalism here. Congrats to all the recipients but next time make it more inclusive.

Don’t go to any pastor. Search for a competent therapist and don’t be afraid to switch them till you find the right one who will work through all issues with you.

You don’t need deliverance but you need to have a prayer life. Don’t let Pastor use you to open branch. Talk to God yourself.

ruggedtimi:
But the last voice claiming to be Nigerian...Cant pronounce "Lagos" as a Nigerian. It was like she was reading a script.

Someone else was narrating the victims story to hide identity.

meobizy:
Not surprised if true. Many of these demons masquerade as saints. UN forces rape people in war torn regions. It’s collectively barbaric only when Africans and Arabs do so. When Caucasians do it, it’s termed a personal mistake.

Who knows whether he has AIDs since they put him on the AIDs concert all over the world. They seem to be telling their personal situation in movie, song and whatever. I hope Nigeria government get serious and look into this. Plus take a more serious look into these NGO’s and these so called celebrities who offer FREE help.

There is nothing free in this wicked and evil world and our people need to stop looking for handouts from devils. This is crazy that this was somehow kept silent. Someone that should have immediately had jungle justice happen to them.

He doesn’t align. He knows why he’s saying what he’s saying.

So allegedly, Epstein, Bono and Clinton came to Nigeria repeatedly and raped and killed children in Lagos. Then will send hired killers to go after their family once done.

All his concerts in Africa were used to raise money to arm local militias through USAID which Trump cancelled.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVXUuUflCZ8?si=UCutquUE0Bzjc5U0

So she was pregnant with the allegations of heavy drug use. I hope that baby grows up to be normal. Kids born to druggies have a lot of issues.

That is your own family, in laws and for you. You don’t know the character of others and you cannot give such advice. Some in-laws are dangerous. One must treat people how they treat you and if such relationship threatens your peace, safety and nuclear family, deal with them at arms length. It is up to the husband to ensure his family are in check and treat the wife well. Anything outside that, a daughter inlaw is not obligated to understand, make anybody like her, tolerate and embrace bad behavior or abuse.

thomas2024:
This thing still boils down to our mentality as African parents. I can bet my chest that those adopted children were not taken care of and disciplined like their biological children. If they were taken care of and disciplined like the biological children, none of them will go haywire. Those parents put their biological kids first before the adopted ones and that begs for troubles

Most White Serial Killers are adopted. What did you say about Africans again? Some of you just talk like …

When these politicians attain such positions, groundnut seller cannot even come near them again, without being bundled away.

Stop using educational buildings for people’s ego except they paid for and built it out of their own pocket. Our schools built by our common wealth should not be a place for politics. I also dislike naming universities after politicians. I swear if I ever become President, that’s the first thing I reverse.

delpee:
Well, Joke Silva said she's an adopted child. She turned out well and has always appreciated the family that gave her a name and the opportunity to be who she is today.

I know people who have adopted kids who are truly grateful and successful. Just as not every biological child will turn out well, so it is with adopted children.

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Gajagojo:
In the context of this story yes. At the time he became an adult he was not a problem to his Adoptive parents or community

He was able to join the Army and get commission around the age of 21

After that? He caused problems for his whole country that we are still battling today.

Gajagojo:
People who are blood children don't do this?



Steve Jobs was adopted
Babangida was adopted
Nelson Mandela was Adopted

Some things are so stupid to say that you wonder about the brain of the person saying it
It is like saying you should not cross roads because Mr A was killed by a car when he crossed the road. How sensible is that? Apply the same logic here

Is Babangida a good example? His own is one of the cases against adoption.

HacheNoire:
Oh! Genetics plays a good role you said?

Majority of those blood thirsty cultist you find were raised by their parents. Most of those hook up girls were raised by their parents, and those fraudsters and drug abusers were raised by their parents.

From your statement, can we now conclude that the genetics of their parents included prostitution, cultism, drug use, fraud.

A kid will become what you want him to become if you invest the time.

Are you saying you have never seen biological children rude to their parents, cos you make it sound like it’s only adopted kids.

How about adopted kids that turned out well. Do we also praise the biological parents genetics or those who raised him?

Who do we attribute Steve Jobs successes to? His biological parents or the couples who nurtured him supported his dreams.

Please! That genetics excuse won’t fly!

Genetics play a role with them too. They are just displaying traits their parents know exist somewhere in their family. But a family without such nasty behavior is bound to be in disarray when that kind of child enters into it.

Do very good research before adopting. It’s better in my opinion to adopt a family member. So the child can form relationship with the biological family. Those adoptions seem to work out better, like the Presidents case. There is something about humans and their biological family, it is their whole identity and once disrupted can cause the adoptee parents big issues.

HacheNoire:
Your aunt over pampered him.

No way you will adopt a kid who barely knows life and blame adoption for him/her turning out bad. She didn’t adopt an adult.

How about kids who lived with their parents and became worst, do we blame reproduction or society for that?

She wanted a kid so bad and getting one, she over pampered the kid.

Not necessarily. I have watched a case of a boy who was adopted and became a serial criminal. His adopted family were good people. He eventually found his father who was locked up for life. They compared their crimes and it was exactly the same. Genetics plays a very big role in who we are and what we do. Nurture can try to change it but genetics is stronger than nurture.

Yorubastardz:
She should have left the baby to be eating beans in orphanage.

That is why I don't like helping people

Now she don go buy market.

I heard the boy hits her sometimes

Her crime was to raise and take care of the boy.
The boy know that he is adopted

All I see is there is no motherly connection
Because she didn't give birth to him. Simple

Some of these children were birthed by mad women on the streets or people with serious psychiatric issue. They will always show what’s in them. It’s genetic. Also abandonment from birth creates severe trauma once a child is separated from the mother too early. That’s why a lot of adoptees have issues outside of the genetic factor.

You aunt could also not be a good parent. Regardless of him being abusive, if you adopt, you have to make extra effort with the child especially if rude family members disclose they are adopted too early. They usually change and become difficult.

By the way, when is this government going to sack that health minister? Nothing is progressing in that ministry. Only regression and bad news.

Politicians, senior medical doctors, pharmacists and even nurses have absconded with the money. When we insult them, some of you will say they are sharp. Wait, your own time too will come. Even if you are abroad, you can visit and fall sick. If you are a politician, you can have an emergency that you can’t be flown out. Then you will have to face the rot you created or supported.

That man is obviously a mad man. Does he look normal? All these people who use violence in fights have mental issue but people refuse to see it and run far from these people. You can never change them or tolerate them. The more you tolerate, the more it increases.

A lot of stupid people have money. They should even investigate how she got that amount of money. Which President will give NNPC GMD position for any amount of bribe. Do you know what NNPC is

Burob:
is government property?

Financial crimes building for that matter. I am sure he is joking but he needs to be taught a lesson.

DeltaBachelor:
I like tight, YES. But I also like mature. I also know that most mature aren’t tight due to experience. It is now left for me to choose between tight but inexperienced and loose but experienced. Thank God I got both tight and experienced. However, if I am to choose between those 2 up there, I will go for loose but experienced

Sounds like your ponron is very small. You need enlargement not accusing someone else of your defect. If your size is normal, either way you go feel am.

She need to stop apologizing. If she’s that good, better opportunities will come along. In these days of social media, you don’t need anyone to succeed if you have talent.

erad:
Why all these naija women in UK dey misuse opportunities anyhow?

Their mouths always have a way of running faster than their brains can process.

Everything na opportunity to you. I never chop.

Exousiang01:
You are actually the one who isn't smart here.
He never used the word for sale.
He only said the hotel was available. You can argue this in any court. He never advertised a property for sale.dude is probably a lawyer. He was very sleek

You are not smart enough to quote me if you have issue reading that Ad. You can’t even read and see the issues with the Ad. If you are a fraudster, desist from it.

Ezeeboiy:
what would you do? Tell us

No mind that small boy. Shey na everyday for your house you go de guide yourself ni.

Marrying young girls while being a serial cheat is a death sentence.

So sorry Sally. Wish you healing. Anyone that wants to donate should first see doctors reports. No be by shaving head alone o. Scammers all over the world use the shaving head tactic very often.