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BelittlePaul:
22 age

Haydens:
She even puked just to show that the guy irritates her and when her value decays she'll remember him I bet that she'll do and from the way the Mumu dey give her time for more insults he'll gladly accept her as an expired and an invalid product.

This is the main reason I don't have any girl as a friend.

Men and women cannot be friends. It doesn't work that way.

You won't know when they friend zone you. I don't even chat them let alone talk to them but once they chat I just keep it short and concise.

Girls know how to use guys to cure boredom via WhatsApp chat, I won't volunteer to be one.

Dvyne777:
No sir

DestinedForGrea:
Hello everyone.

Please I need an urgent advice from the mature minds here. I'm about to take a decision that has the potential to change the course of my life.

A quick background:
I come from a family consisting of five "children", of which I'm the fourth. Right from the days of my childhood, my parents and older siblings have had a firm control over me. They often dictated the friends I'd keep, placed I'd go to, where I should be, and almost how I should behave.

I was mostly indoors because they didn't want me playing around. That had an impact on my personality, because I couldn't master the ability to make friends, express myself confidently, and get involved in social activities that my peers relished.

Fastforward to this point:

I'm in my late 20s, a graduate and an NYSC cert holder, and although the level of control has been minimized, I still experience a bit of it. I don't have a place of my own for now, so I stay in the family house, but my older ones are independent in that aspect though they don't stay far from the family house.

I have a job too, but the salary is not even enough to take care of myself and support the home for a week.

Now here's the issue, I got a job offer from someone I served with during my NYSC, in a state about 8 hours from my current state of residence. It's the same job with the one I'm on right now (a teaching job) but with a slightly better payment return.

The person has a good relationship with the principal of the school, so according to him, the job is secure. I had to accept it because I'm tired of my current situation, and I'm tired of the life I'm living here -- my social life is next to zero, I don't have friends close by, I'm not socially active, and I need to explore. With my little savings, I plan to get an apartment as cheap as possible when I get there.

The problem is everyone is kicking against , because they're concerned about my safety, how I'm going to cope alone in this harsh economy. They've told me that if I decide to leave against their wish, that I'll be on my own and won't get their hands involved if anything goes wrong.

At the moment, I'm thinking of standing my ground and sticking to my decision, because I'm depressed from being in this environment, but I'm a bit afraid of my family cutting ties with me.

Please any advice? I really need some right now.

Thanks!

ManirBK:
The House Committee is doing a diligent job; after their investigation they should hand over to the ICPC or
EFCC but Corruption can't be totally eradicated in Nigeria 50/50 for sure.

Praxis758:
Why is Oshinbajo still using nose mast 2.5 years after Covid?

Is he, Oshinbajo still entitled to long convoy and security details as ex VP?

alabiexperto2:
To sactify your woman is not you buying a bigger bed or smoking all the leaves in the bush. Which most every nigeria citizen like doing. Some take drugs while some smoke before having sex.
so, therefore, after a little minute the man will begin to invite people too blow him hand-fans.
Beside, i have come to see a nigeria guys; that after they have fully toasted a lady, and the lady accept their proposal, they will took the lady home and start to do stupid love.
HERE ARE THREE THINGS YOU MUST DO IF YOU WANT YOUR WOMAN TO LOVE YOU AS A MAN OR GUY:
* Allow the lady or your girlfriend to suck your penis about 30-minute, when the sperm is out, tell her to lick it; it's good for woman body.
* Then, you as man you have to wait for sometime and allow your penic to raise again, while you take a drugs. In that process of taken a drugs, after you have fininished: then you as the man start sucking your girlfriend pussy; while the drugs resolved, put it inside the pussy and start enjoying your life with your partner.

Chessmaster52:
What could be the course and remedy

Ofunaofu:
How a notorious narcotics drug trafficker engaging in criminal state capture want to restore democracy in Niger republic needs to be studied.

LifestyleTonite:
Biafrans can't help but expose their covetousness for other people's property. What Joe Abah, a Biafran, is basically doing is trying to ensure that Abuja doesn't have any identity in terms of indigenous ownership. That way, in a couple of years time, they can start screaming no man's land. That's the same way Ezekwesili said Lagos is a "shared space".

Igbo people have exposed themselves so badly. Go on Twitter and Facebook and see the way they are freely expressing their hate for Nigeria. The whole thing has gotten out of hand that neutral Nigerians have seen them for who they are.

Just check the names attached to anti-Nigeria comments, they are usually from South-Easterners. This is unlike nairaland where real names are not used.

How can you be glad that a neighbouring country that is not fit to lace your country's shoes is insulting your country? Yet, you want your son Peter Obi to rule over the same Nigeria. You can't wish evil on a company and still want to be its boss. If you curse the ground, the curses will follow you everywhere as long as you walk on it.

Yes, Northern senators may oppose military intervention based on genuine reasons, but deep down, they are happy about the coup going on in West Africa because it means if such happens in Nigeria, the West won't have any strong country in the region to help restore democracy. It also means that one of their sons will become the military leader because they are the majority in the military. Remember their born-to-rule mentality. Once that happens, their evil Islamization agenda will be unstoppable.

Right now, Southern Nigeria is able to stop RUGA and other land grabbing legislations they've been pushing. But under a junta, no lawmaker will exist to oppose such move. They will simply take land from different regions and hand them to the Fulani who are mostly from Niger and Mali. Sadly, Igbo people can't seem to see this because their hatred for Yoruba people has blinded them. Only a blind man will say the hate doesn't exist. Your land which isn't much in the South-East can't be taken and handed to cattle herders all in the name of RUGA. Those cattle herders will breed like roaches and take over your land. You won't even have the luxury of Twitter to voice your grouse under a junta.

What annoys me the most is that it is 95% confirmed that there are no opposing Igbo voice to the nauseating attitude the tribe is displaying on social media. Sadly, even the elders like Peter Obi, Ezekwesili and their celebrities hold the same horrible mindset and are no more scared of voicing their hatred and greed for other people's success and land. At this point, I just conclude that they are all the same and can never be trusted. That's why they can't get to the presidency.

Those of use who have been on nairaland since 2013 are not surprise by their current display on social media. When they started tribal slurs and taunting other Nigerians because Goodluck Jonathan gave them an edge, we all thought the comments were just coming from riff raffs in their region. But now, we can see that even the highly educated ones and those in position of power who ought to know better are no different.

The best part is that every other Nigerian can now see them clearly. It is now clear that they hate the country and the reason is because they can't function without hating on something. If they were a country, they will hate on themselves, which they actually do; it's just that hating on other Nigerians gives them a false unity.

I would have advised the Igbo to retrace their steps but I've come to realize that they were never without hatred, so they have nothing to retrace. They can keep it up while other Nigerians move forward.

youcanmakeit:
To hell with this make money and women will magically start chasing you... let's us stop this fantasy thinking.

There was this fine girl I gave lift. She stopped at a house. Later, I learnt that's her boyfriend house. I'm not here to broke shame anyone but her boyfriend doesn't look like he has much money. Although he has this bad boy rebellious look.

Anytime I here the make money and women will chase you, I don't totally cosign with that.

I don't want to brag but I just want to pass a point. I work as a sales guy in a very prestigious company on the island... own a nice new car, I recently moved into a nice flat I rented. I might not be wealthy, but I'm living very comfortably. Yes, I get choosen signals from women from time to time, but I'm not seeing women rolling over me and begging for my love.

Same thing with most of my colleagues and friends who are also earning big... I don't see women chasing them and licking their feet while they walk. They still having issues with women. But yet we say make money and women will chase after your dick.

I know a guy in my neighborhood who isn't making money as much as I do, but he change girls all the time. He's not having any issues with women.

I have learned that women love guys who are rebels. The guys who give off this I don't give a Bleep vibe This guy in my neighborhood has that attitude.

I playfully asked him how he does it.

He said "omo don't mind all the girls, Dem to like dick too much.'

He was saying, this girls like sex too much that's why he's able to get them.


But mean while on this thread, guys are preaching that women don't like sex.

Guys....If you are there waiting till you start making millions before you start getting sex and getting girls.....You are wasting your time!

I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard and make money. Definetely, every guy should be grinding and focus on improving themselves.

But I'm just saying that, the woman you are hoping to Bleep when you finally become rich is probably fucking a broke nigga who has I don't give a Bleep attitude.

Better learn what these rebellious bad guys are doing to attract women, or keep waiting till you make billions before you start bleeping girls.

This is why the only guys I listen to on this thread is ubunja and Pukkalolo and maybe few other guys. These are the guys that truly understand women and game...the rest are just copy and paste

Omoawoke2:
DSS slap don reset his brain, baba dey write letter 😂😂

Be a good citizen and represent your country well, chest beating cannot save you.
Obey the law of your land and contribute to its growth. Don’t terrorize innocent citizens, otherwise government will catch you, Jagaban will catch you and you will humble

Cc ruggedbiafran

SPAMBOX7:
You mentioned most valuable currency twice but never stated what is it. For the light switch effect at least one could Google but the first one you just feeling yourself I guess. But if that's not the case then it's gonna be really hard for your students to understand you if you ever get to mentor anyone lol.
In a nutshell there is no way a newbie would learn anything from you.
Una Deh try o

Ihateheadslamer:
Thief

kokoA:
Where is Garba Shehu?