To the married couples pls! Did u fall in love before marriage or after marriage? How easy is falling in love after marriage? Is it a good risk to take considering you v a good partner for a spouse or is it a wasted effort!

wasted effort

diana158:
wasted effort

oh! Whats ur reason? V u experienced such before?

My Pastor teaches us to love who you marry, don't marry because u love. Find out the key points u want in a spouse. Spiritual qualities should top your list. Love is a responsibility.it's a decision. Else u will fall in and fall out.

I have to be drunk in love to promise for better for worse. You have to love who you are marrying. The most important thing is that the person you love and married is flexible and ready to uphold the vows with you.


What happens if you don't love after marriage? Dooms day beckons then.

Which kain pastor teaches such rubbish?
Ok, go ahead and marry when there's no atom of lobe, u come bk here for stories that touch.

Fake preachers everywhere...so sorry for those that fall prey.

Love have to be there which will b nitured all hrpigj d life spent.

What I v observed is that love marriages like that dont v wat it take to stand test of time. Most of d time c couples fall out of love

Heard that there is a possibility that you might end up not being able to fall in love after marriage
I wonder what happens then

Love is a gradual(continuous) process before /after marriage which Allah has described to that that he will put love and affection in couple
Regards

mutaalim:
Love is a gradual(continuous) process before /after marriage which Allah has described to that that he will put love and affection in couple
Regards

hmmm ,ok

SUV:
Which kain pastor teaches such rubbish?
Ok, go ahead and marry when there's no atom of lobe, u come bk here for stories that touch.

Fake preachers everywhere...so sorry for those that fall prey.

Love have to be there which will b nitured all hrpigj d life spent.

trust me sweetie, couple of years ago I would have agreed with you but over time I've come to realize that what we term love in most cases is either infatuation or lust; both of which have an expiry date. You think all these guys/ladies killing their spouses never loved them? Of course they thought they did.
Personally, I believe compatibility is the most important thing in marriage.
So, yeah, the pastor is spot on.

I believe compatibility n chemistry should b balanced

Love alone is not enough for marriage