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| Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Softy0709: 10:41am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Hello good people, please i need ur candid advice, I have been in this relationship for 5yrs now, but there has always been a major problem, my boyfriend cages me, Anytime I tell him I'm going for an occassion(weddings,birthdays,e.t.c)or to my family members place he always insists I should not go and when I ask why he will always scold me and tell me I have no right to 'ask him why'. Normally I'm an introvert, but he makes matters worse, I have no friends, nobody at all. I'm at the verge of leaving that relationship. He even tells me sometimes that when we get married, I wouldn't work, when anybody calls me on phone he will tell me to put the call on loudspeaker, he is hot tempered, I don't even know how I survived 5yrs with him. Currently we are not in talking terms because I violated his order by going out for a training and not coming back home at the time he said I should. Please i just need your advice because I don't even have anybody to talk to. Thanks and have a Blessed day! |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Buharism: 10:45am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Are u a slave, how can somebody or anything cage u frm moving around, and u call him ur boyfriend, he is nt even ur husband, the earlier u run frm him the better. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Pheals(f): 10:46am On Apr 07, 2016 |
cage !! Your body bad oo |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by vizkiz: 10:54am On Apr 07, 2016 |
which kin boyfriend be that  If you know you love yourself, you better just walk out if that cage you call a relationship.  |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nova15: 10:54am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Dear Op, You beta moved to kirikiru prison cos you are no beta than the inmates there. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Softy0709: 11:03am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Pheals:Not dedicated to parties, just once in a while an invitation ought to be honoured, like I earlier said I'm an introvert. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Frei(m): 11:07am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Why should you even be staying with him?.... move out asap! |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Aviero: 11:08am On Apr 07, 2016 |
 Both of you are mad! |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Cage? Are you an animal? Even animals don't really get caged anymore This is bondage not relationship |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by westlius(m): 11:10am On Apr 07, 2016 |
D reason is becaus u na fine babe so him no want oda guyz to see ur beauty
Very soon u go b muslim to dey dere mask sorry jab 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Softy0709: 11:14am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Frei:We are not staying together. He keeps monitoring by calling incessantly. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 07, 2016 |
No! It's not okay. He's tooo controlling an hot tempered. This sounds like an abusive relationship in the making. Does he ever get violent when you "disobey him" |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 07, 2016 |
U don't deserved this kind of treatment...ur not even married to him yet but he already abusing ur freedom... U wasted already 5yrs with him, not worth if u still wanna stay for another 5-10yrs and he will juz treat u like a prisoner....move out & save urself from this mess. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 07, 2016 |
You are about to marry Mike Tyson |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Frei(m): 11:25am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Softy0709:ok just break the hell up with him! that ain't a relationship but slavery!!! |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 07, 2016 |
if she is a wild animal, then yes. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by utenwuson: 11:31am On Apr 07, 2016 |
ur boyfrn na soldier? |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by nerdfrost(m): 11:32am On Apr 07, 2016 |
 lwkmd!! Na ur Popce. Oboy the guy funny finally. Kill the nigga  |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Softy0709: 11:39am On Apr 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:If I'm around him, yes he does, but if I'm not he keeps yelling over the phone. |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:41am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Softy0709:Nooo.You have to go before he takes yer life. You don't live with him,I hope |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Fadamant: 12:06pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
[quote author=Softy0709 post=44483834]Hello good people, please i need ur candid advice, I have been in this relationship for 5yrs now, but there has always been a major problem, my boyfriend cages me, Anytime I tell him I'm going for an occassion(weddings,birthdays,e.t.c)or to my family members place he always insists I should not go and when I ask why he will always scold me and tell me I have no right to 'ask him why'. Normally I'm an introvert, but he makes matters worse, I have no friends, nobody at all. I'm at the verge of leaving that relationship. He even tells me sometimes that when we get married, I wouldn't work, when anybody calls me on phone he will tell me to put the call on loudspeaker, he is hot tempered, I don't even know how I survived 5yrs with him. Currently we are not in talking terms because I violated his order by going out for a training and not coming back home at the time he said I should. Please i just need your advice because I don't even have anybody to talk to. Thanks and have a Blessed day! OP, the sad truth about your story is that you stopped living completing for the sake of keeping a boyfriend, who is even more or less an enemy. You have wasted five full years, suffering loss of freedom, mental and emotion abuse and violence when you are not even married to him. Everything about what you just discribed here is wrong and can't be called a relationship, not to talk about even contemplating marriage with him. He has kept you away from family and friends so that it will be easy for him to destroy you. He is a beast. So leave him and don't listen to his pleas, if he decides to plead with you, because, he will grow worse in the future. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by firstking01(m): 12:17pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Come on, i'm here you can talk to me ...forget abt that nigga he doesn't know what he has |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
I have a very strong urge to off your pants and flog you dirty right now. Ori e daru ni? U still get mouth to utter all these obscenities. Iwo eru lasan lasan yi... Abi are u d@uglay and I'm.becilic? |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by funlord(m): 1:18pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Softy0709: Well, maybe if you are a lioness, a gorilla or any sort of wild animal! In that case he may need to cage you in order to protect the public! |
| Re: Is It Right For A Boyfriend To Cage His Girlfriend? by schumastic(m): 2:10pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Softy0709: OP PLS DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND SET YOURSELF LOSE.. HE IS JUST BEING SELFISH, INSECURE, SELF CENTERED AND WICKED, NO1 DESERVES TO BE TREATED THIS WAY AND AM SURE HE IS WAY OLDER THAN YOU, THE REASON FOR THE CONTROLLING HABIT.
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