One of our neighbors was spanking his 15 year-old daughter this morning for refusing him entrance into their bedroom while dressing up. The wife was shouting at him which drew some attention to the scene. The man claimed that he needed something urgent from the room and that was not his first time of warning the daughter of such. The wife was against the man as it usually will be in such case. Nawao, don't even know what to think....

kenonze:
Hmmmm

Not just the men. Both parents should stop seeing their children privacy from the moment they started attaching importance to it.

yeah question can be vice versa. Nice opinion though

as soon as any of them feel uncomfortable with such act

If you say that fine, but in most cases you won't exactly know when.

MRBrownJ:
as soon as any of them feel uncomfortable with such act

MRBrownJ:
as soon as any of them feel uncomfortable with such act

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mtch...wetin concern nigerian parents concern privacy?...
if dem born una well, juz lock ur room door...u go knw say death get younger broda....
on a serious note, nigerian folks need to b enlightened on this issue, if ur female pikin don dey sprout bobby, give am privacy, and if u notice signs of puberty in ur male child, he needs some space...
but nigerian parents.....they wont listen!!!

Sookul:
If you say that fine, but in most cases you won't exactly know when.

the minute a person doesnt feel comfortable any longer then they tell it to their parent, and everyone would be aware. thats also the reason why there needs to be healthy communication between parents and their offsprings

In reality most children can't tell their parents such to their face, especially their fathers

MRBrownJ:


the minute a person doesnt feel comfortable any longer then they tell it to their parent, and everyone would be aware. thats also the reason why there needs to be healthy communication between parents and their offsprings

From puberty, my opinion though

Sookul:
In reality most children can't tell their parents such to their face, especially their fathers

again, children that have an healthy r/ship with their parents would tell whichever parent they are closer.... so girls would certainly tell their mothers. of course, if there aint heathy communication between parents and children then that would be difficult. the important question is:"what kind of deluded parents dont sit down and talk with their kids?"