Cutehector:
why will I be a victim? I'm so not vulnerable

PureWays:
Yeah man, that's why one needs to act fast and that's exactly where the mistake is..
You wanna make her know that you want her without giving it much time, Bam!! you ask her out, she agrees and later the whole thing fades..

Sometimes, we just don't get it right..

Danfuster:


Thats why you don't have to rush it, the best way to start a relationship is to be friends. That's how you know you if you have a chemistry or not.

JeffreyJamez:


Exactly..... and in the process of trying to be "sure"..the other person might actually feel you're not taking them serious.... which is not the case.

JeffreyJamez:


We're on the same page.

cool then

Danfuster:



Thats where communication comes in " the greatest communication problem is we do not listen to understand, we listen to reply"

This is typical of most women. You try to make a point and before you're done they turn it round against you asserting the opposite. This doesn't mean she's smart but nothing but a smart mouth

PureWays:
Exactly! Some ladies just wanna win the argument.

Danfuster:


I just know how handle them. Once they start doing the smart mouth thing, i just keep quiet with a straight face looking her in the eyes, when she's done, I go... "are you done!?" in a soft tone whilst maintaining the straight face, she might answer "yes" or may not after which I just say "OK, good".

Then she starts to think if she had made sense or not, if she says anything after that. I just maintain eye contact, straight face and remain mute. This is how you make em feel stupid and trust me... They Hate it

Danfuster:


I just know how handle them. Once they start doing the smart mouth thing, i just keep quiet with a straight face looking her in the eyes, when she's done, I go... "are you done!?" in a soft tone whilst maintaining the straight face, she might answer "yes" or may not after which I just say "OK, good".

Then she starts to think if she had made sense or not, if she says anything after that. I just maintain eye contact, straight face and remain mute. This is how you make em feel stupid and trust me... They Hate it

halfricanadian:


na wa o

Do u av bsc in womancology?

Danfuster:


Lol...im just a guy who respect women and vowed never to raise a finger on one...you have to be smart to device methods to use 2x4"apola" without flexing a muscle... I know you hate this already

halfricanadian:


No im just amazed some will say she nags nd just start cheating nd rubbing to her face nd all sort of painful strategies

Yours is quite cool dats why im amazed

thanks. This is why I have requirements when it comes to choosing my lady, if I see I won't be proud to show you as my wife... I won't date you, you never what might go wrong, chemistry is priority and I never rule out physical attraction. You might think I'm choosy, but hey!... That's me

Danfuster:


thanks. This is why I have requirements when it comes to choosing my lady, if I see I won't be proud to show you as my wife... I won't date you, you never what might go wrong, chemistry is priority and I never rule out physical attraction. You might think I'm choosy, but hey!... That's me

halfricanadian:


Its better than you misleading a lady i respect u so mch for that

Its better u take ur choice nd date marry

Dan u lead sumone u managing on for fuvk sake

I respect you too. Pls advocate to your sisters to go easy on us, we are only doing our best, we are not genies neither are we psychic. I understand you want us to read you like a book and decipher what's bubbling in your heads but sometimes it's good to "communicate". Thank you

Danfuster:



I respect you too. Pls advocate to your sisters to go easy on us, we are only doing our best, we are not genies neither are we psychic. I understand you want us to read you like a book and decipher what's bubbling in your heads but sometimes it's good to "communicate". Thank you

halfricanadian:


When someone hurt u deeply communication cant do a thing

Especially wen d person is bent on being wicked nd not ready to change communication goes weak

Danfuster:


very insightful.. This I know. Just referencing the mood swing and grumpy moments that sisters exhibit often

PureWays:
What would you do if all the feelings and affection you have for your spouse vanished?

Sometimes, you think you feel something and after few months, the whole shiit gets bored and you just wanna be out of the relationship.. (I'm sure guys will relate to this)..

What do you do when you are damn sure your feelings for your bf/gf has gone? Especially when the guy/lady has gone deep into the whole relationship thingy..

halfricanadian:


A lady in a relationship mood depends on her man

relationship is exhausting

truly... It is exhausting but WWJD

Danfuster:



truly... It is exhausting but WWJD

halfricanadian:


Wats wwjd?

Danfuster:


what would Jesus do...i feel you should be conversant with that saying!?

halfricanadian:


Tank u now i am

chigoizie7:








U said "spouse" I presume married.

Op, that is marriage for u, it is not always about love, I have said this times without number, it is endurance and understanding. We tend to fall out of love every now and then, even in relationships, and that when u start acting strange and subsequent break up, and den u find out that after sometime(as long as u both see each other) that affection and bond comes back together again.


In marriage, it is d reason for the"for better for worse".


Chill, don't run, u will certainly fall back in love again, and dis time, a big stronger, it will keep happening like that until u get to a stage when u both can not just stop loving each other.