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| Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ArinzeAlec(m): 12:07pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Why do young aspirant couples blow things out of proportion in the terms of consulting a church minister to help choose for them a life partner? If you go to different pastors i bet you they will tell you different thing pertaining to the lady/man. They can even choose your younger sister, brother or a blood related cousin if you include his/her name that she's your wife. One has to be very honestly careful when it comes to going to pastors to help pick a life partner. Most pastor are never real. Where is our sense of belonging? that one would approach a pastor to help get you a spouse, for which eventually you get to meet and realise he/she wouldn't even fit in your choice category if had your made the decision to seek for a spouse yourself. They happen to force him or her on you that "HE/SHE IS THE CHOSEN ONE", chosen ko, winners chapel ni. When eventually trouble sets in, they will so quick to list all the bible verses for you to pray and hold on to. Whatever happened to our sense of mutual feeling, going for it and taking it a next level. So one need to be extra careful. Alot of marriages and relationships has been destroyed because of pastor say this, pastor said that. |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by MrCork: 12:09pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
ArinzeAlec: ..bro try Onstelly of nairaland....She a Yoruba chrissstian girl loookin!!  |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by kcid(m): 12:10pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
that is thier own concern |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ArinzeAlec(m): 12:17pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
kcid:Most brothers carry am for head like this. Very tiring. |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by oglalasioux(m): 12:17pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
How else can the ladies have; Tall Handsome Rich Caring Religious Loving father Not keeping late nights Always spoiling me with gifts Guy whose mother is dead etc And the guys; Working class rich girl Not nagging Religious Beautiful Faithful Not minding the kind of friends I keep Not worried if I stay out late Not minding if I put my phone on password etc That's why they are running to the pastors because it's only the pastors that can make impossible things possible. After all their God is arbitrary in blessings. |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by Terry68: 12:31pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Its sonetimes frustrating when a making a delicate choice that concerns long term. At some point in life, we lost faith and direction and seek succour in close range to fix that. Most run to clergy men, Some to spiritual heads. The truth: it will be difficult for one to know God if he/she does not have problems. |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by Bluezy13(m): 12:33pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Hmmm... And then  |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
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| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ArinzeAlec(m): 12:44pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
oglalasioux: Silly choices. If most of them go for the basics, most divorce issues wouldnt have occured. What boils the most is, they tend to reject what ever their parents bring for an option to settle the pastors. Someone who might deny their a.ss tomorrow. 1 Like |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by cruzita(f): 12:52pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
pastors destroying lives and marriages with their fake prophecies and advice since 1800 1 Like |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ArinzeAlec(m): 12:53pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Aisha96: So because there is no time so one should settle for less? Yes, Less. Cause now its being desperate. What happened to when one had better options to settle for but would rather, wants to 'take their time' and lose the option along the way or finally get to realise it aint worth settling for? |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ArinzeAlec(m): 12:56pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
cruzita: :-D:-D |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
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| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by Cutehector(m): 1:16pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
Those in marriage wish to get out of it, those not in marriage wish to get it.. |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by itstpia8: 6:06pm On Apr 11, 2016 |
kcid: |
| Re: Why do Vibrant Young Men and Women Still Run to Pastors For a Spouse? by ghostwritter(m): 6:29pm On Apr 11, 2016 |
sometimes sef, marriage dey fear me....with all dis karishikas everwhere |
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