do you all agreed we me that distance is a BARRIER in a relationship.
true/false.
pls ur experiences and views.
i know of a friend,who his relationship turned SOAR,just because,his girl went far distance.

yes, i quite agreed wit you
i missssssssssssssssssss my girl due to MOTHER FUCKER long distance.sooory,never want to tlak abt it

Distant relationships are really fun coz of the phone calls and the "i miss you's" but it sure is a barrier considering the fact that the two people in the relationship are not together, things could happen and the other party wouldn't know, so itz not always good to leave your love for a very long time.

I don't belong to the school of Thought that says "absence makes the heart grow fonder",  I think i prefer the phrase [i]"Out of sight out of mind".[/i]Seriously speaking I think distance always puts a strain on relationships. Look at it this way:

My guess is, if we took a survey on 100 couples in long distance relationships at least half of them would be guilty of infidelity.Yes! I know what ur thinking,  (its probably the same ratio for those in normal relationships) maybe, but is easier to give into temptation and easier to give yourself an excuse for falling when ur in a long distance relationship.

It is against human nature to trust  We all claim to trust our partners but deep down inside there is always that feeling that he or she is up to something. Weather or not we give into these feelings is one thing but as long as you are not with your man or woman sometimes you cant help but wonder if someone else is, and this just adds to the strain I was talking about earlier on

There is always someone willing and waiting to help u take care of your man or woman in ur absence no kidding. I hope this helps

It is not against human nature to trust. Please take note.

Next?

Yes!!

@topic,
I diagrees.

Distance is never a barrier in relationship. And I can tell you that it depend on who you are dealing with.

@poster,
let no man deceive u,
its a big barrier.
want to know?
try 1 and see 4 urself

men distance na bad tin oo, cos it just made me commit some fun anyway

Not really.

am neutral on this topic

Distance is such a bitch!
It makes it so damn hard to know and experience the 'look and feel' of truly pure and undilluted love! But having said that, if you can keep in touch as a couple, that makes it more interesting

Distant isnt a barrier, Your heart is!!!

I had to leave my location to another place just One week after I started going out with a lady. It has been over 4yrs now and non of us have relocated to join the other. We are still together and we still Love each other. there has been some hitches here and there but it only makes our committment to each other stronger.

I've been wt mine for 3 years now and we hv never been together in one place for up to a month and we r still on. Its been both interesting and strenous all together, but as someone said its ur hrt that matters here.

Distance . . .Relationship . . .very bad mix