Synzu:
Some of us have been through that bro. Been there.. Done that.. But I still pulled through.


All you gotta do basically is; satisfy yourself. When you feel you've had your fill (pound of flesh) then you can settle down. If you're lucky, you might even find one who'll send you into early retirement when you least expect bro.


Many nigga's hung their boots whilst still philandering. Think about it.

Kingsasian:
@Op, I am having a similar experience right now but most times I do not wish to go back to my old self...seriously. May be its because I am still struggling to trust ladies although I do feel sorry for what I am doing to the one I "claim to be in love with." Mehn! If I dey think of wetin babes don do me.........

So you hurt others because someone else hurt you The logic here.

DDeliverer:
you can't get back...I couldn't...you can't.

DDeliverer:
you can't get back...I couldn't...you can't.

layla129:


Lool, is that a curse?

Rexhenrex:
sounds more like it...I wanted passing bye till your beauty trapped me.nice hair do by the way!

falconey:
I'm sick and tired of living a promiscuous life, sleeping with girls whom caught my eyes. I can't keep living like this.
I was once a gentle,loving ,caring and emotional guy not until I was stabbed in the heart and everything changed, I've been going about this bad life style for years until recently I started missing my old me.
I missed the emotions, the thinking of her and having a smile, I missed it , I missed it all and I'm craving for it.
the question is for the guys that had or have this feeling, how did you get back? what do I have to do?

layla129:

Lol, thanks. I release you from that trap. Go! You are free

layla129:

Lol, thanks. I release you from that trap. Go! You are free

Synzu:
Some of us have been through that bro. Been there.. Done that.. But I still pulled through.


All you gotta do basically is; satisfy yourself. When you feel you've had your fill (pound of flesh) then you can settle down. If you're lucky, you might even find one who'll send you into early retirement when you least expect bro.


Many nigga's hung their boots whilst still philandering. Think about it.

Rexhenrex:
.I won't say I av been through what you have been am too emotional and put others before myself but I know one thing for sure if indeed you wanna change from your old way and be a better person then learn to forget the pass and move on find a girl whom u really like and love her a thousand ways and also pray for self control you will need that in your quest to being a better guy a responsible one at that...

DDeliverer:
you can't get back...I couldn't...you can't.

falconey:


if I get you right I should continue ? how long do I have to keep doing it?

Kingsasian:
@Op, I am having a similar experience right now but most times I do not wish to go back to my old self...seriously. May be its because I am still struggling to trust ladies although I do feel sorry for what I am doing to the one I "claim to be in love with." Mehn! If I dey think of wetin babes don do me.........

konkonbilo:
OP forgive me for derailing ur thread.have you noticed the way you comment first or among the first three commenters on most of the threads on romance section?its not always like this before.just an observation from a concerned member. Have a wonderful day.

Senna:


Lil boys chase cats and grown men chase money.

You'll grow up and understand your self worth... The only person you're hurting is yourself. Aids is real and condoms burst so quit playing Russian roulette with your Life and Health and have a lil self respect.

If any girl can have you then you're cheap and dirty because it works both ways. To think that one girl could rob you of your self worth is a lil sad and it shows weakness in character.

Did your ex give you worth and value? If you loved her and she took advantage then you should learn life's lesson and move on gracefully but if you choose to run around sniffing every arse that catches your eye then your ex won and her prize is your destiny.

cassieblake:
Till you are tired

falconey:


coming from a lady? I'm flabbergasted!

falconey:


thank you, mean a lot.

KingCheezyPuff:
So you hurt others because someone else hurt you The logic here.
A untruth.You an he can stop

Op all you gotta do is stop pursuing/using them for yer pleasure.
Get into a relaton where you give
A care
Yer time
Yer patience....love.
But if you mean you want sex without hurting anyone.
Start quick relations with women who want sex only relations too.

falconey:



hmmmmm I don't feel pity for any lady I've slept with , most if not all know I don't have / feel anything deep for them.

we'd just enjoy ourselves.

Kingsasian:
I don't feel happy doing what I am doing but I just can't help it.

if you say so