tollyB:
They have come to destroy your marriage.. they will make you blind,till ur home is destroyed.. the Bible asks us to flee... if you don't want a broken marriage,heed the word of God...

thesicilian:
That, my friend, is the hundred million dollar question.

cruzita:
its because u can try dirty stuffs with your side chics but with your wife u have to be the gentle man she knows .But u will eventually know the value of your wife when she leaves you

tollyB:
They have come to destroy your marriage..
they will make you blind,till ur home is destroyed..
the Bible asks us to flee...
if you don't want a broken marriage,heed the word of God...

PunkyV:
Ever heard of the phrase, familiarity breeds contempt? Probably because they (the side chics) dont get to deal with your shit everyday & don't really know you the way your long term partner knows you. Most men tend to be on their best behaviour & bring their A-game while trying to establish a new relationship, so of course you're gonna get treated like a superstar because you yourself are acting more like a trooper than a loser.

kiddoiLL:
I have one simple answer..
that is because you are a CHEAT!![b] .... thats why you have a side chick outside... You have DSTV in your house yet you going outside to watch star times..my brother abeg na wetin una dey find??

Michellla:
spouse and wife are da same.
correct your headline

korel9:

Thanks. I actually meant concubines

kiddoiLL:
besides they aint romantic..they are just wild and dirty,they'll do stuffs your wives cant do..all these ladies xev enh, guy will have you as side chick and wont be able to tell his wife to give him BJ but you will give him and do more...cheerful givers

selfdefence:
Cos they are looking for means to collect the man from the real owner.

Ginaz:
They are more romantic cos all side chick wants is money, the more romantic and caring they are, the more money keeps rolling.

korel9:
There's always this cry from women that their men cheat on them bla bla bla.

Judging from experience I've come to notice that side chics and concubines are often more romantic than main chics and house wives.

The question is, are the wives and main chics aware of this fact and also, why is this so?

They were probably once a side chic and sure were more romantic then.

korel9:


Okay let me clarify something here. I'm not talking about manners, behaviours, etc, I mean being romantic on bed. Has nothing to do with A-game.....

PunkyV:


Still applies. Let me give you an example. Let's say the guy in question has a wife, right? After some time she realises he has shortcomings & it frustrates the heck out of her. That IS real life. Couples have real issues, so sometimes steamy sex takes the backseat because there're bigger issues to be dealt with. Nobody is gonna feel like sexy time when there're bills owed, kids on the way, etc.

Now in comes the mistress who takes his mind off his real life problems & allows him to engage in this fantasy life where it's all about pleasure & none of the serious issues he has at home. Do you think he goes over there all gloomy? Of course not! He goes in there a different person on a mission to forget his troubles even if it's for a little while. He puts his best foot forward. Indulges in fantasy. Hence it'll seem like his other life is so much better, even more satisfying than the one he has at home. Delusion at its finest.

That's MY take on it.

naijaboiy:

True.

PunkyV:


At last we agree on something

Surprisingly...

korel9:

Bros, if the star times outside has subscription and shows live premier league matches and the DSTV @ home has no suscription, you too will follow watch the star times outside.

korel9:


But bros, what stops the wives from doing same "stuffs" u mentioned above?

korel9:


Bros, if the star times outside has subscription and shows live premier league matches and the DSTV @ home has no suscription, you too will follow watch the star times outside.