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How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by bettytee(f): 9:56am On Apr 14, 2016
HOW TO MAKE YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WORK http://bettylivingword..com/2016/01/how-to-make-your-long-distance.html
Re: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by Daniel2289(m): 9:59am On Apr 14, 2016
Y directin me to a link wen I av many topics to answer
Re: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by bettytee(f): 12:51pm On Apr 14, 2016
if can't visite the link, keep your cool. It is an option not compulsary.
Re: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by firstking01(m): 1:39pm On Apr 14, 2016
bettytee:
if can't visite the link, keep your cool. It is an option not compulsary.
Mtcheeews, see your fine topic and nonsense linkundecided
Re: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by stmartynz(m): 1:56pm On Apr 14, 2016
@OP, what's so difficult in pasting it here... U want to help pple bridge gap and u are still asking them to go more miles.

SEE AM HERE JARE



A long distance relationship is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when partners are separated by a considerable distance. It is a strong emotional commitment to another who is far away and often beyond physical access most of the time. This requires a great deal of maturity and emotion. It's only ever effective in a case of lofty strong loving relationships. The below tips will help in making your long distance relationship work.



Have respect for your partner: Show respect to your partner as much as it should be' people tend to overlook how the other partner feel in their relationship, instead they think only about themselves. They expect their partner to fulfill every of their needs and feel is their right but your partner is human who can do much and it would be impossible to meet all your expectations. When you feel you have been wronged in some way in your relationship, have open mind, try to see things from your partners point of view. Always take to consideration your partners feeling and try to understand where they are coming from before you take action. You need to respect their feelings before you attack them with words that can really hurt them.



Make your partners feel special: Think and think very hard of things you can do everyday to show your partner that you really care.Use words like "I love you" or "I love talking to you", I want to be with you" or "You give me joy and happiness" on regular basis, this will give your partner more assurance. You can also send letters, emails, text messages, your picture to your partner.Gift too will do a great deal. All these simple things makes relationship to stand the test of time, unfortunately most couples forget these simple things once they feel comfortable and settled in their relationship.

Try to know more about your partner: Long distance couples use phone , send a lot of text messages and emails. In your conversation try to keep that spark on, exactly like the way you start the relationship. Avoid topics that can cause argument that can lead to bad feelings about the relationship in general. Be open minded to ask question bothering your mind about your partner.


Trust each other: If your partner has not cheated on you before trust him/her. Don't make baseless accusation about your partner cheating on you. Don't believe that your partner is cheating on you due to the fact that your partner doesn't doing everything you want. This can strain relationship. In a committed relationship you should be able to talk about everything(don't be afraid to ask tough questions).

Have a solid plan about your future together: Please don't enter into long distance relationship if you are not willing to have your life changed drastically. The relationship can't be a long distance relationship forever. One person has to move or both, if you really love each other these shouldn't be a problem. Don't engage in a long distance relationship if you don't love your partner deeply.

Arrange to visit regularly: Make plan towards visiting, this will give you some thing to look forward to. Visiting is a powerful way to boost long distance relationship. This can be very expensive . Save for it, both of you can share the cost. If you afford it, it worth it to make a trip to see someone you love. Be reasonable in case you can't afford it.

Communicate often: Try to communicate on daily basis and figure out reasonable amount of time you can spend on the phone. If you are worried about the phone bill, get network provider that offer low rate or free calling within the network. Incase you are in different countries try free internet calls through services such as skype. Get a webcam and good internet service, this will allow more interaction than a phone. From a webcam, you can read your partners body language and facial expression, this make interaction very interesting.

Interact with others: Don't be too occupy or consumed in your relationship. Make sure your long distance relationship is balanced with your day to day activities at home. Connect with friends and family members.

Have a night date with your partner: Distance is not a barrier, your can still have night dates. Just set a particular day in a week to eat the same meal, watch the same movie and interact online, or chat up for a longer period of time on the phone.


Wish you success as you journey through your long distance relationship.

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Re: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by ucheHapers(m): 2:34pm On Apr 14, 2016
Correct guy...

stmartynz:
@OP, what's so difficult in pasting it here... U want to help pple bridge gap and u are still asking them to go more miles.

SEE AM HERE JARE



A long distance relationship is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when partners are separated by a considerable distance. It is a strong emotional commitment to another who is far away and often beyond physical access most of the time. This requires a great deal of maturity and emotion. It's only ever effective in a case of lofty strong loving relationships. The below tips will help in making your long distance relationship work.



Have respect for your partner: Show respect to your partner as much as it should be' people tend to overlook how the other partner feel in their relationship, instead they think only about themselves. They expect their partner to fulfill every of their needs and feel is their right but your partner is human who can do much and it would be impossible to meet all your expectations. When you feel you have been wronged in some way in your relationship, have open mind, try to see things from your partners point of view. Always take to consideration your partners feeling and try to understand where they are coming from before you take action. You need to respect their feelings before you attack them with words that can really hurt them.



Make your partners feel special: Think and think very hard of things you can do everyday to show your partner that you really care.Use words like "I love you" or "I love talking to you", I want to be with you" or "You give me joy and happiness" on regular basis, this will give your partner more assurance. You can also send letters, emails, text messages, your picture to your partner.Gift too will do a great deal. All these simple things makes relationship to stand the test of time, unfortunately most couples forget these simple things once they feel comfortable and settled in their relationship.

Try to know more about your partner: Long distance couples use phone , send a lot of text messages and emails. In your conversation try to keep that spark on, exactly like the way you start the relationship. Avoid topics that can cause argument that can lead to bad feelings about the relationship in general. Be open minded to ask question bothering your mind about your partner.


Trust each other: If your partner has not cheated on you before trust him/her. Don't make baseless accusation about your partner cheating on you. Don't believe that your partner is cheating on you due to the fact that your partner doesn't doing everything you want. This can strain relationship. In a committed relationship you should be able to talk about everything(don't be afraid to ask tough questions).

Have a solid plan about your future together: Please don't enter into long distance relationship if you are not willing to have your life changed drastically. The relationship can't be a long distance relationship forever. One person has to move or both, if you really love each other these shouldn't be a problem. Don't engage in a long distance relationship if you don't love your partner deeply.

Arrange to visit regularly: Make plan towards visiting, this will give you some thing to look forward to. Visiting is a powerful way to boost long distance relationship. This can be very expensive . Save for it, both of you can share the cost. If you afford it, it worth it to make a trip to see someone you love. Be reasonable in case you can't afford it.

Communicate often: Try to communicate on daily basis and figure out reasonable amount of time you can spend on the phone. If you are worried about the phone bill, get network provider that offer low rate or free calling within the network. Incase you are in different countries try free internet calls through services such as skype. Get a webcam and good internet service, this will allow more interaction than a phone. From a webcam, you can read your partners body language and facial expression, this make interaction very interesting.

Interact with others: Don't be too occupy or consumed in your relationship. Make sure your long distance relationship is balanced with your day to day activities at home. Connect with friends and family members.

Have a night date with your partner: Distance is not a barrier, your can still have night dates. Just set a particular day in a week to eat the same meal, watch the same movie and interact online, or chat up for a longer period of time on the phone.


Wish you success as you journey through your long distance relationship.

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