Many have tried to be a perfect gentleman and many have been reduced to being termed as a "Bad boy"..
What we seek and desire in life is different but more than 95% of human being on earth desire for sexual pleasure, Love and companion..

In recent years, guys around the world have discovered that being a gentleman is most seen by ladies as weakling so most men crave to be termed as a "Bad boy".

We don't just love, we see, think, feel before we do and the easiest way for a lady to feel anything for a guy is if she thinks the guy have all what it takes to be a man..
Yes, MAN!!

The definition of a Man by an average lady in her subconscious mind is a male with masculine, cocky, strong, confidence, emotionless and brave attributes..
Don't get me wrong, an experienced woman will desire or seek a man with other qualities like, gentle, caring, loving and all that but it's because of her experience with other men..

The choice of being termed as a bad boy is not what anyone can dwell into.. I personally think everyone to be his/herself, if you know you don't have the gut, balls or the stomach of being a bad boy, don't even bother to try because you will always betray yourself (if you know what I mean)..

Most dudes in here (Nairaland) will form cocky and all but in actual sense they are just looking for a medium to act their rehearsed fantasy... Lol..
They are as solo as a duck in real life....

HOW DO I BECOME BAD?
The only way to become a bad boy is to strangle your emotions, don't show much care about anything, this will eventually cause huge damage to your personality but if you think the juice is worth the squeeze, you can go down that lane...
I'll advise every guy to simply be who they are but if you are too weak to accept who you are, there is an option for you which is being bad but ask yourself, if it is worth the stress?

P S: To all the natural bad boys , there is still a chance to redeem yourself, I guess you are enjoying the life but always have it at the back of your mind that your world is in the wild where you can also be hunted or fall prey, and also that no one is born Bad..

Op b like

TIME TO DE EVILISE

halfricanadian:
Op b like

TIME TO DE EVILISE

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Lol Bad boy records

tintedniggz:
Lol Bad boy records

Yeah!
You bad?

PureWays:
Yeah! You bad?

fam, honestly, I don't know lol. I just do what I think its best for me.

"Bad" is for the weak in spirit and strong in self-deception.. What am I even sayin?

halfricanadian:
Op b like

TIME TO DE EVILISE

When you sound like the "victim" and people act all compassionate toward you, I laugh at them in my mind

discoprophet:


When you sound like the "victim" and people act all compassionate toward you, I laugh at them in my mind

its not wat u tinkin my ex its nt

tintedniggz:

fam, honestly, I don't know lol. I just do what I think its best for me.

Ooh, that's cool.. Sticking to the necessity..

discoprophet:
"Bad" is for the weak in spirit and strong in self-deception..
What am I even sayin?

It depends on one's perspective though, but going by the spiritual aspect, your assertion is quite true..

Omo toh bad.
Being a 'bad boy' is really cool though.
its a matter of being urself and not suppressing the way u want people to see and feel u.

hmmm! bad boy ke!


am a gentleman oh

Badoox:
Omo toh bad.
Being a 'bad boy' is really cool though.
its a matter of being urself and not suppressing the way u want people to see and feel u.

Yeah..

Maxi112:
hmmm! bad boy ke!



am a gentleman oh

Lol.. Na so.

PureWays:
Lol.. Na so.

why d laugh, abi I no dey gentle

Well depends on a lot of things and actually I tried been a good guy but that ddnt go too well,so I had to go back to just been me,the guy who doesn't let things botther him especially matters of the opposite sex ..I do it as I see it,truth is the way things are in the world just makes it a lot easier to be strong minded,but don't get it twisted I am also a gentle man just that i might not do things the way she might want or dream it..

Maxi112:
why d laugh, abi I no dey gentle

Chief, your face dey betray you oh.. Lol..

torqque7:
Well depends on a lot of things and actually I tried been a good guy but that ddnt go too well,so I had to go back to just been me,the guy who doesn't let things botther him especially matters of the opposite sex ..I do it as I see it,truth is the way things are in the world just makes it a lot easier to be strong minded,but don't get it twisted I am also a gentle man just that i might not do things the way she might want or dream it..

Being strong minded is a necessity for all..

You are not far from the truth my brother..

PureWays:
Being strong minded is a necessity for all..

You are not far from the truth my brother..

True its definitely a necessity to all but a lot of guys don't get it,they just become little puppies and let women toy with them up and down,imagine a full grown man kneeling and begging a woman to stay with him even crying self after she cheated on him and treated him like hot garbage smh lol,even here on NL we see threads everyday like 'plss she cheated on me with my friend and I love and want to marry her still what should I do'..lol well I guess not everyone can be a superhero, there has to be normal people too for the heroes to help so not everyone can be strong minded,some have to be weaklings too..pathetic tho

PureWays:
Chief, your face dey betray you oh.. Lol..

na face u dey carry judge ur own??


no allow d face to deceive u

torqque7:

True its definitely a necessity to all but a lot of guys don't get it,they just become little puppies and let women toy with them up and down,imagine a full grown man kneeling and begging a woman to stay with him even crying self after she cheated on him and treated him like hot garbage smh lol,even here on NL we see threads everyday like 'plss she cheated on me with my friend and I love and want to marry her still what should I do'..lol well I guess not everyone can be a superhero, there has to be normal people too for the heroes to help so not everyone can be strong minded,some have to be weaklings too..pathetic tho

Ooh! That's cray..

I use to state this:
Never exercise your emotions, exercise your mind instead.

Because you are in Love doesn't mean you should take shiit..

Maxi112:
na face u dey carry judge ur own??


no allow d face to deceive u

Lol.. Okay.

PureWays:
Ooh, that's cool.. Sticking to the necessity..

Exactly, you know the drill.

tintedniggz:

Exactly, you know the drill.

Nice write-up man.

Boland:
Nice write-up man.

Thanks man.

PureWays:
Many have tried to be a perfect gentleman and many have been reduced to being termed as a "Bad boy"..
What we seek and desire in life is different but more than 95% of human being on earth desire for sexual pleasure, Love and companion..

In recent years, guys around the world have discovered that being a gentleman is most seen by ladies as weakling so most men crave to be termed as a "Bad boy".

We don't just love, we see, think, feel before we do and the easiest way for a lady to feel anything for a guy is if she thinks the guy have all what it takes to be a man..
Yes, MAN!!

The definition of a Man by an average lady in her subconscious mind is a male with masculine, cocky, strong, confidence, emotionless and brave attributes..
Don't get me wrong, an experienced woman will desire or seek a man with other qualities like, gentle, caring, loving and all that but it's because of her experience with other men..

The choice of being termed as a bad boy is not what anyone can dwell into.. I personally think everyone to be his/herself, if you know you don't have the gut, balls or the stomach of being a bad boy, don't even bother to try because you will always betray yourself (if you know what I mean)..

Most dudes in here (Nairaland) will form cocky and all but in actual sense they are just looking for a medium to act their rehearsed fantasy... Lol..
They are as solo as a duck in real life....

HOW DO I BECOME BAD?
The only way to become a bad boy is to strangle your emotions, don't show much care about anything, this will eventually cause huge damage to your personality but if you think the juice is worth the squeeze, you can go down that lane...
I'll advise every guy to simply be who they are but if you are too weak to accept who you are, there is an option for you which is being bad but ask yourself, if it is worth the stress?

P S: To all the natural bad boys , there is still a chance to redeem yourself, I guess you are enjoying the life but always have it at the back of your mind that your world is in the wild where you can also be hunted or fall prey, and also that no one is born Bad..

Boo Boo May i kiss you?

Boxer007:



Boo Boo May i kiss you?

Ooh! Sorry dude. I'm not Gay.