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Can U Learn To Love? by lwanibeauty(f): 10:26pm On Apr 19, 2016
Guys, just wanna know if u can learn to love ur partner in marriage pls ur views
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by sinaj(f): 10:44pm On Apr 19, 2016
Have to love b4 d marriage na
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by petux(m): 10:45pm On Apr 19, 2016
sinaj:
Have to love b4 d marriage na
whats up bae?
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by lwanibeauty(f): 11:26pm On Apr 19, 2016
sinaj:
Have to love b4 d marriage na
I know.... but d situation is I don't love d man...but d man love me so much... so am thinking dt maybe if I marry him I can learn to love him with time
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by sinaj(f): 11:42pm On Apr 19, 2016
lwanibeauty:

I know.... but d situation is I don't love d man...but d man love me so much...
so am thinking dt maybe if I marry him I can learn to love him with time
have u tot of how u will cope with him in d main time?


Well it works for somepiple tho but nt evribdy.

Coz I doubt if I will b able to stay under d same roof with someone I dnt love for more dan 2days.


Btw wot if u find out that u cnt love him? U knw dat marriage is nt wot u jump in n out
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by lwanibeauty(f): 5:25am On Apr 20, 2016
sinaj:
have u tot of how u will cope with him in d main time?


Well it works for somepiple tho but nt evribdy.

Coz I doubt if I will b able to stay under d same roof with someone I dnt love for more dan 2days.


Btw wot if u find out that u cnt love him? U knw dat marriage is nt wot u jump in n out
GBAM!!!
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by chriskosherbal(m): 5:58am On Apr 20, 2016
Of course there are still many things to learn in marriage and that can trigger more love.
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by ShayGirl(f): 6:41am On Apr 20, 2016
chriskosherbal:
Of course there are still many things to learn in marriage and that can trigger more love.

Quite agree with u to an extent, but isn't it better for one to develop d feelings and learn to love first before marriage...? If marriage is indeed a lifetime COMMITMENT, Tell me how such person can be totally committed to that partner if all he/she does is hope to learn to love.
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by Brimstone1: 6:47am On Apr 20, 2016
You can but it's best natural.
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by ShayGirl(f): 7:04am On Apr 20, 2016
lwanibeauty:

I know.... but d situation is I don't love d man...but d man love me so much...
so am thinking dt maybe if I marry him I can learn to love him with time


I'd like to ask if u like him as a person, or probably feel happy around him, if so, probably u might end up loving him especially wen he does things that wins ur heart over ..but if u don't even like His presence around u at all, nt to talk of getting pissed up wen he mentions d word "love" to u, i tell u no matter d love he has for u, it would b difficult trying hard to love such man...U cannot and can never force love..
Probably u look at these things, link them to what u want, knw if u share d same attributes, or see tins d same way, then think properly about the decision u wanna take if it will make u happy.
Bae, don't do things to please people alone, make sure it pleases u too..Its a life time commitment, u HV to Think,sit and think again. The choice is urs bae, KNOW WHAT U WANT, WHY AND HOW U WANT IT.
Re: Can U Learn To Love? by sinaj(f): 7:12am On Apr 20, 2016
petux:

whats up bae?
m gud gud

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