Hi NLandas,
I ve dis 19 yr old gal and 3rd yr university undergraduate who likes me but the probs is dat she saes she is 2 emotional and 4 dat is nt in a relationship rite nw as it mite consume her if she does.And i ve bin implorin her to tk a chance,bt she still hesitates.Pls aw 2 i go abt convincin her 2 go out wit me.It will also be pertinent 2 note dt she dis type of easygoin person dt bonds wit people easily and as such has many friends.AW can i make a difference and as well as date her.

Please leave her to concentrate on her studies, she is just 19, her education comes first now, if u really care for her then give her a break, don't ruin her future.

wat if sum1 sweeps her of her feet b4 i do.Am nt disputin leavin her 2 concentrate on her studies bt aw do i mk her knw dt am d one 4 her.

Obamaa:

wat if sum1 sweeps her of her feet b4 i do.Am nt disputin leavin her 2 concentrate on her studies bt aw do i mk her knw dt am d one 4 her.

Please stop thinking with ur dick, how old are u anyway?

for heavens sake she is still young. but if u insist u love her wait untill she is ready, if some1 weeps her off then she was not meant for u
just continue to be her friend and talk to her. dont force her so u dont scare her away, just be there 4 her. and give her time.

candyshore:

for heavens sake she is still young. but if u insist u love her wait untill she is ready, if some1 weeps her off then she was not meant for u
just continue to be her friend and talk to her. dont force her so u dont scare her away, just be there 4 her. and give her time.

Exactly!!!.

How are u sure u guys are meant to be? How sure are u that u are the right man for her?
Man, she gave u a very good answer and if u really care abt her, give her time. If she goes into any relationship now, she's likely to be consumed like she said.

Let me tell u this, no lady will appreciate any man that stands on her neck or pushes her too far. Just hang around and be urself, when the time is right and she sees u to be a good fellow, she will fall into ur arms without u blinking an eye. For the time being, find somtin else or someone else to shower ur love on since u've got enuf ot it.

best of luck.

Let her be. If u really love her, let her be

10x all d advice has bin well heeded n i'l bid ma tym and continue 2 relate n b nice 2 her.If dere is any more advice,dnt hesitate 2 post it.

TIME will tell whether she's yours or not. Nonetheless may your wish be granted, If it is good for you. Good luck