LESSONS REVERBERATING IN MY HEAD FROM THE TIWA & TEE BILLZ's TURBULENT MARRIAGE

1) Marriage is never a cure for infidelity. If you perceive the tendency that your partner would cheat, and you can't cope with that, please leave. You might not fix it.

2) Don't marry for sympathy sake. Don't even do it to prove a point or because the fellow claims to have assisted God in creating you. Never.

3) If your partner has spent a lot on You and along the way, you believe you won't make good couple, approach the other person and if force creeps in, ask for the total amount minus your input and then pay the balance, then walk away.

4) When an opposite sex is splashing so much love on you, better be careful and search for any hidden intent. Or find your own route to always compensate. Don't always be a receiver.

5) Don't crucify People whose marriages couldn't work. You might be inviting Karma. Marriage life is not as tasty as orange juice. Just learn.

6) As married couples, always have a round table discussion and spread out your plans and goals. Learn to accept a fault and make amends.

7) Marriage is not a community affair. It's between two persons. Choose for yourself whose shits you can stomach.

Men, treat your women right. Most times they are the ones who perceive the future and I slightest dangers on their inside. Learn to pay rapt attention to whatever they say.

9) Ladies, make sure you have a good source of income such that when trouble shows up and he starts boasting about bringing you out of the bin, you can buy a ticket to London the next day and go for a month or two holiday. You may call him from there. After all, you have the cash.

10) Whether single or married, don't try to live out louder than you are. Stay true to yourself and allow people to choose (not) appreciate you. So that you may not be drenched in brokenness.

11) Don't get married to someone in order to reward him/her. You are not a trophy.

12) Marriage is not for everybody. You can still be single and satisfied.