MARRIAGE MATHEMATICS- REASONS WHY YOU MUST MARRY
EARLY....by nwosu anayo..
When I came to the knowledge of this truth way back in the
secondary school, I made up my mind to marry before the age of 30
against all odds.
My dad died at a retirement age of 64 when I was 7 and my
younger brother was 4. The dead man left no plans or economic
arrangements to train both the younger and far younger children in
school or in trade.
This mistake is being repeated today by even far more educated and
exposed people. We do this and claim a non-existent covenant with
God when we should have applied the common sense He gave us.
Don't say u didn't read it from here.
I decided that I would not repeat the same mistake my father made
hence my determination to marry at 30 which I later found out was
even late.
HARD FACTS FOR GUYS
Assuming u get married at 30 and your wife conceives and delivers
your first child when you are 31.
Because the average age of graduation in the universities these days
is 26 then you shall be 57 at the graduation ceremony of your first
child.
Assuming you have 3 kids with an average spacing age of 2 years
then your last child would be 6 years younger than the first.
Therefore, you shall be 63 at the graduation ceremony of ur last
child.
ISSUES: Look around you and u shall notice the increasing rate of
delayed conception and child mortality which is 1/400 (that is one
new born baby out of 400 babies born to Nigerian parents dies in
the hospitals) and if you factor in the possibility that there might be
delays and assign a number of years e.g 4years to that, then a man
may be 68 years at the graduation of his last child.
INFORMATION TO CONSIDER
1. All civil servants must retire at 65 or 70 for professors and
judges.
2. Average live expectancy in Nigeria now is 47 years for men and
48 for women. That's most Nigerian men now die before the age of
48.
The above implies that you would be retired and may not be able to
earn enough money to pay the school fees of your last child in the
higher institution starting from his/her third year.
It's worse for bankers because the CBN has capped the age of
retirement of bankers at 60. Most banks find reasons to retrench
their staff once they clock 55.
HARD FACTS FOR LADIES
Hardships in the extended families and need to work to augment
income, pursuits of professionalism, feminism, long stay in school,
sheer greed, materialism, choosiness and other factors have
singularly or combined to make women delay in committing to
marriage much earlier.
INFORMATION TO CONSIDER :
1. Science says that the best age for a woman to have less
complications during child birth is from 18-25.
2. Most professional females now marry beyond 30 and have
difficulties either in conception or post delivery sicknesses. This has
posed a great gynecological challenge for non-circumspective
couples. They spend so much to get pregnant and sometimes the
women die in so doing.
3. In most cases, fibroids occur when the womb lays fallow for so
long without conception. There are other causes.
ISSUES: Imagine both parents being retired and cannot provide for
their undergraduate children.
This has help fuel student prostitution in civil service states of
Enugu, Owerri, Abeokuta, Akure, and around university campuses.
AGE LONG ADVICE TO AN ONLY SON
If you are an only son or if your desire in marriage is to beget
children, ensure that you marry a lady in her early twenties and
never beyond 26 so that even if you have fertility challenges and it
takes up to 10 years to be resolved, you still have a fertile wife.
Please note that IVF, Artificial Insemination and Surrogacy
techniques are expensive with no assurance of success after huge
expenditure.
GENERAL ADVICE
If you intend to have children in marriage please marry early enough
to avoid birth complications and be capable of shouldering your
responsibility before you port to the netherworld .
You can still achieve all you want with careful planning. Many
women who married early are MD of coys and are doing well.
I know that some readers would start telling me about Abraham and
Sarah, Hannah, the mother of Samuel and other isolated cases.
However, a visit to fertility clinics and gynecological section of a
teaching hospital shall speak common sense to a young girl and
boy.
If you have problems with the facts I adduced, please consult a
medical personnel for clarifications.
SCARY TRUTH
1. There is a disturbing likelihood that a child conceived at a later
age would be born with Down Syndrome or Mongolia Disease.
2. Some women now approach menopause as early as 35. Why opt
for treatment when it could be avoided?
3. Men's sexual libido reduces with age. You are at your best when
you are below 40. There is an extent Viagra and other performance-
enhancing drugs can go.
4. There is every likelihood that if you marry late to a sexually
active woman and fail to satisfy her you may lose her to intimacy gadgets or
gigolos.
5. Reminiscence of old couple of their early life great sex is
sometimes enough for them to reach orgasm. You have great sex
when your engines are new or fairly new.
NB
Medicine records that female sexual libido increases with age while
the males' reduces with age. But age does not affect a man's ability
to impregnate a woman but the act would be a mere inoculation for
old men.

Its never about how far but how well

its nt bou age dont make people ruin their lives gettin into something dey cant naturally accept or control

halfricanadian:
Its never about how far but how well

its nt bou age dont make people ruin their lives gettin into something dey cant naturally accept or control

halfrica good morning

*Sighs*

May we never be poor, OP included.

Cuz I see no other reason the OP has for establishing this Logic

All you need to do is to have solid plans to train the children you'll bring into this world, whether you are alive or dead.
Who told you that if you marry at 30 you'll start having children at 31?

Fact:
You may marry at 20 and have your first child at 35 with so much strucggle to cater for your family. Another person who married at 33 and starts having children at 34, with enough resources to cater for the family, would have produced a child older than yours, better taken care of.

Remember, don't marry and bring children into this world only for them to come suffer poverty. They'll hate you.

@ dietola01