please what would you do if you stumbled on some information revealing that your elder sister is cheating on her husband. they seem happy together though they have the usual financial challenges. they have 4 kids.

what would you do ? please advice.

Busy body. You wan take panadol for another man's head ache?

Talk to the sister, cos when the wahala starts, the shame will be on y'all.

Talk to your sister and move on with your life.

Fhemmmy:

Talk to the sister, cos when the wahala starts, the shame will be on y'all.

being the younger sis and talking to her about her personal affairs, hmmm for some means fire, some wouldnt take it lightly even though they know what they're doing is wrong. well i thinking taking this approach depends also on the type of relationship the person have with her elder sis.

@ post

what about your mom, cant you tell her to talk to your sis about this ongoing affair?

If you had a better job, you wouldn't have the time to gather such information.

Ben20001:

If you had a better job, you wouldn't have the time to gather such information.

i wouldnt really mind if it's my business or not, she's defiling her marriage vows and i dont personally condone cheating of any kind so i must find a way to talk to her directly or indirectly. what's bad is always bad no matter who's doing it and if it takes an outsider to make it right or make the person come to the realization of their act why not? of course this is just me.

stumbled on some information revealing that your elder sister is cheating on her husband

sissy,

what is the probability that the information you stumbled upon is true. Haterz are every where; that shouldn't escape your mind.

nenyenwato:

please what would you do if you stumbled on some information revealing that your elder sister is cheating on her husband. they seem happy together though they have the usual financial challenges. they have 4 kids.

what would you do ? please advice.

Well if you ask me, I'll simply say MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!!!

But, seeing that you are the usual busy-body-aprokoish-pesky-joy-killing sibling kind I would say, tell ur mummy for her. Well, of course, you can have a heart to heart with her directly, but that would depend to a large extent on the kind of relationship you both share. if she is the type who is quick with a knock to ur poke-nosing head or a slap to your I-too-holy face, then I think the "mummy option" is safer.

Ehmmm, on the darker side though, you could always stay silent and pretend you don't know any better, gather all of your facts, maybe get a few candid shots to boot, then blackmail her for some cool cash Oops!!! I forgot you mentioned that they are having financial issues. Doesn't look like there is too much cheddar lying around. Makes me wonder: could that be why she is seeing other guys?

~Sissy~:

being the younger sis and talking to her about her personal affairs, hmmm for some means fire, some wouldnt take it lightly even though they know what they're doing is wrong. well i thinking taking this approach depends also on the type of relationship the person have with her elder sis.

@ post

what about your mom, cant you tell her to talk to your sis about this ongoing affair?

IF she is truly cheating, i am sure she wont wanna cause wahala, cos she knows that the baby sister could decide to blow cover

You move on with life afterall it's not end of life.

,mama-gee:

You move on with life afterall it's not end of life.

When yawa gas, it will affect you too

Tell her once to stop then mind your business and concentrate on your own man;
ogba asiri

hackney:

Tell her once to stop then mind your business and concentrate on your own man;
ogba asiri

that is it