I was asking a friend this morning one unusual question. I was just wondering how a guy can date a girl for a long time without losing interest in the relationship. Infact, I have never dated a girl more than three (3) months after which I suddenly lose interest. Why is it so? I want to change this and stop breaking people's hearts 'cos its not intentional.

The factor to be considered is your age.

I am just 22. Infact I am losing the spark for my present adorable queen. I know some people would want to say its because I have had my way with the girl but hey, that's aint it. I need mature advise and opinions from everyone.

@Poster,
The only way you can end your penchant for breaking hearts is to stop giving false assurance/hope.You don't need to date because others are doing it.
Finally,ensure you date or enter into relationships only when you are matured enough to do so.

Ben20001:

The factor to be considered is your age.

well spoken!!!!!!

@Ifeleke, I do hope to make something great out of them but along the line, I often get boreb!

u can't keep changing cars cos its no longer in vogue, or u dont find it fanciful anylonger.
i guess ur age is the determinant like ben said.

stereo2:

@Ifeleke, I do hope to make something great out of them but along the line, I often get boreb!

Yes you get bored because you are not ready for it.
You see, the problem you have is your inability to differentiate between affection&lust between likeness&love.I'll advise you try the platonic friendship option. . .

try keeping a flower for 3 months,
if u succeed, then take a pet.
and ift hat survives 3months, then go ahead and date.
_{small children of this days}.

@ poster

You are a dog.

You've got TWO option:- go blind or enunch

Hey fellas, cut the guy some slack here pls.
@ izeek
na wa for this ur philosophy!
@ poster
yeah, it all boils down to ur age, when u become mature enuf to date because u really want to date, not because others are, you'll finally ask yourself how u passed the three month mark.

@ poster

you are still young and it is okay what you are feeling because you are not ready to settle down so date as much as you can while you still can. In order to change your outlook you might want to look beyond sex and how cute the girl is. Once you go beyond the obvious you will see that 3 months will not be enough for that one special lady

C'mon stereo ur 1 & only probs is dat u put sex first in ur r/ship datz Y wen u get it u tend 2 lose interest.
Soln:
start ur r/ship based on luv & if datz difficult 4 u then start ur r/ships based on casual friendship then develop luv datz all!

Hope they haven't use pusssy to swear for you but once they do, your relationship will always remain unstable. but as for me, my first relationship lasted from 2003 to march 2007 before we broke up due to her bad character cos she suddently changed and I have been in another relationship since July 2007 up till date

just rmember that hiv is real.