Hello Friends - I Urgently Need Ur Help

I'm Jude a member of Nairaland as u may have already known
I fell in love with a girl who happens to be in a relationship
What i feel for her i have never felt for anyone before
I told her all about it, she responds:
"Jude I would have loved for us to be together
but, I am in a relationship now"
I know she loves me, I told her i'll w8 for her
no matter how long it takes
she begged me not to, I still insist
now i'm having double thoughts
please i need ur help people
as i love this girl with every beat of my heart

Plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss Helpppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
My time is already running out

And pls no insult guys ok?

No insults, So don't take this as one! What on earth r u doin being 'in love' with someone in a stable rel, That fact alone should av been enough to tell u to back off. At times like dis i wonder where stuff like integrity av gone to. A guy like u wld most probably 'fall in love' wit a married woman. My guy, wat do u do?, Its simple, Back off! Let ha concentrate all ha time and strength on who she's wit now but if things don't work out fine. Abeg stop puttin any undue pressure on d poor girl! At least, put urself in d shoes of d current boyfriend! Integrity my friend, is worth a lot more dan desires, moni and many other things , Naija will be a beta country if we all lived like dat. No insults, right?! Just my own expression of truth!

Abo oro la n so f'omo luabi to ba denue a dodidi

translation
half talk na im we dey tell gentle man
iF the talk come enter mam he go become whole

I hope i was polite sir? Cheers!

Hello,
t was nice bkos u said no insult bos gus in here sometimes dont give striaght answers instead they nagg alot.Well my advice for you is to understand and let her continue her relationship.Dont think much about her anymore nd dont lways cntacther as b4.Reduce ur feelings by thinking that she is ur sister man.Is easy to reduce this feelings.ok

Hey guys thanks alot for replying ma

Hello "ghengis " Please try and understand me
I met this girl and fell in love long before i knew
she's in da relationship
But i appreciate ur help though
I'll try ma best to let go
Knowing fully well it ain't gonna be easy
Thanks again my bros

is she gat someone else then let her be.

omo dont decieve ur self she has told u her mind.

Hey "Busta"

Thanks for ur concern really do appreciate it
I actually needed help from a lady
But there something u should know about this
Please contact me if u can. I seriously need help
Email: flowman47@yahoo.com
Tel: 2348026992470

The Name Is Jude

flowman you obviously think you have flows by including you # and emailadd for the ladies to call you.

but guess what . It aint gonna work

hey, there are over 10000000000000 girls out there that are NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP!!! why did it have to be the one in a relationship that you picked make better choices, man!

Hey "Candylips"

I thougt i specified that msg
that msg wasn't for u or any other
no one other than "Busta"
So pls becareful what u say
u don't know me like that ok?

Must u get at one all da time?

just move on and let her be.

omo,leave the poor girl alone and let her b,if u look around you,u wuld c so many pretty girls around u that re not into any relationship.

Hmmm

man?what will u do when someone else is loving ur lover how will u feel.dont use ur greedy emotions to spoil the nice things this two are building cos u aint gonna want same to happen to ya.so what u aint gonna take dont give it to someone else.aight

okay, this is my chip.

first of all, is this feeling mutual between the two of u ? u already answered so we are left with the girl's end.

now if this girl feels the same way about you like u feel about her, believe me, there's no way she's going to marry the other guy - unless u mess up somewhere/somehow.
you should be concerned about her happiness. if she's in another relationship and harboring serious feelings for you, then there's something wrong.
the only thing i really think you should do is marry her.
if she really loves u, she'd marry you.
u don't expect her to leave her current relationship and come hang out with u for another one or two years while u decide if u can go through with it or not. that'd be like leaving a Shell job for bar- tending !

@all my brothers and sisters in here,
if "Relationship" means a babe and a dude seeing each other, then i think many of us broke relationships to get a babe.
why??
1. how many of us got a virgin babe or a first - time guy ?
2. how did his/her previous relationship end ?
3. can you vouch for what he/she told you over question 2 above ?
4. r u sure he/she ain't seeing someone else ?

i'm just trying to be reasonable cos these things happen; many of u will agree with me.

think about it.

cheers.

close your mouth

Mystique:

***yawns***

makes sense.

@topic


Thank God for your life. This girl in question really love u but not in that romantic aspect. If not she would have been toying with ur heart until u run psychological. She had made it clear to u that her romantic affair is with his guy and not u.

What u dont know is that there is a girl out there looking for u, she's beautiful, sexy, pretty and ur i deal lady. She is looking for u. Cool down cos u re about to meet her. Let this girl in question go so u ca meet ur angel.

My advice is that girl are like weather, if shes ur she wil come looking for u, if not wait for ur own angel.

wormedup woleprof

Thanks alot guys, ur opinions really made me think very clearly
that's what i actually wanted to hear from Nairaland forum
thanks alot

candylips
Don't hate, Appreciate

U re welcome. what re friends for?

Its not worth waiting, just get on with your life, you must definitely find someelse to lavish all your love on, cheers mate, it aint da end of the world, yu know?

Hello bro,my advice?let go of her.it just happened 2 me.d girl agreed 2 be close 2 me,but her body language kept telling me it'll take time which is a commodity scarce 2 come by.wel y'day i saw her&after a coupla hellos i went my way.

Dang! You fell in fall out as well

cant believe dis

donno wot 2 say

then seal ur lips innit

@Flowman

Move on, don't wait for her. candid advise for you, if she cam back to you, you'll be nothing but second best, otherwise why is she not with you now? Move on

candylips:

then seal your lips innit

they are

Thanks guys u've all been great

Oh! my God she's here . . . . . . . .