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|Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by vorigan: 3:02pm On May 11, 2016|
Fresh revelations from the Bewajis, Lekan Shonde’s in-laws, have rubbished the accounts of the alleged killer of always providing for the family, leaving his two cars for Ronke and catching her philandering with a manager in the packaging company she worked.
Lekan Shonde, 51, was described as an intensely jealous and insecure husband. The Ogun state indegene who surrendered on Monday, May 9, four days after his wife was discovered lifeless in their Egbeda-Idimu apartment on Friday, May 6, is said to be a recklessly violent man.
From the account of Bolatito, the only surviving sibling of Ronke, Lekan’s explanations are far from the truth.
Here are 10 shockers from Bolatito’s interview with Punch…
1. Lekan’s first physical abuse was in 2012. And the most recent was in December 2015, which almost led Ronke packing out of the house. She had agreed to leave, but changed her mind later. The case was even reported to the police.
2.Ronke, whose brother just passed on, was crying while Bolatito, on instructions of their mum, was begging her to leave him, that December 2015.
3. A pastor and landlady on their street begged on behalf of Lekan Shonde. And she stayed, in spite of the warning.
4. The recent source of rancour was a love child brought by his baby mama. The discovery shattered Ronke. And Lekan was pleading and begging, even volunteering to do a DNA test, which he never did.
5. The love child expose turned Ronke into a quieter woman who stopped talking to her husband.
6. Bolatito claimed Ronke never had a relationship outside wedlock. That it was Lekan’s jealousy and insecurity that fueled his suspicion. That the manager mentioned had a professional relationship with Ronke.
7. On many occasions, three other colleagues of Ronke had been accused of dating her. That even male Facebook friends have been embarrsssed by useless accusations.
8. Lekan kept vigil in front of their house to see who would drop his wife. And accuse her of adultery.
9. The children school fees were sometimes paid by the Bewajis, contrary to Lekan’s account of providing for the family. And sometimes rent. That before she died, she was struggling to raise N70,000 to replace the gear box of her car.
10. Lekan constantly went through Ronke’s phones to see if she was cheating. And constantly trailed her to check if she had lovers.
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by queenoflafia(f): 3:06pm On May 11, 2016|
Na by force to stay married
Have a child or two and enjoy your life
To hell with who ever has problem with that
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by vorigan: 3:09pm On May 11, 2016|
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More revelations are beginning to crop up as what could have possibly led Lekan Shonde to murder his wife, Ronke, with the late woman's family insisting he killed his wife because he was afraid she was going to leave him after she found out that he had a child outside wedlock.
Though the 57-year-old Shonde has insisted he did not kill Ronke, the family of the deceased has reacted to the allegations of infidelity he levelled The only surviving child of the family, Bolatito Bewaji, who is Ronke's elder sister, told Punch Newspaper that Shonde allegedly killed her sister due to jealousy and insecurity especially with the discovery that he had a child he did not tell her about and that this had really put a strain on the marriage.
Bolatito said Ronke had endured a long period of domestic abuse, and had almost packed out of their home in December, 2015, insisting that her sister would not have died if she had listened when she (Bolatito) and their mother begged her to leave the house after a series of abuse.
“The first case of abuse which I can remember, happened sometime in 2012. The most recent was in December, 2015, when we were still mourning the death of my brother. My mother was in the house with them when he started to verbally assault her.
It was getting heated and my mum had to immediately leave the house. My mum called me and I went to a police station closest to the house. The policemen there said I could not report the case since I was not the victim.
I went to their house and insisted that Ronke should leave the house but Lekan refused to let her go, and this created a scene on their street.
My mother said I must make sure she packed her belongings. I started begging her to follow me, and she stood up and went ahead of me. But as I stepped out, I discovered that she had gone back. When I returned to their house, I found her in bed.
I called her and said, ‘my sister, do you want to die? We don’t want to lose you. We just lost our second born. I know you are a loving person and you care about your family, but you have to quit this marriage.’ At this point, Ronke started crying,” Bolatito said.against her, saying they are all cooked up lies as their daughter was not that kind of a person.
She added that Ronke's problems that led to her death started after a woman turned up in their home with a child.
“My sister called me and said her husband had a child outside wedlock. She said somebody brought the child to the house and said her husband was the father. She was shattered by that news and from that time, she started keeping to herself.
Lekan asked her to forgive him, saying it was the devil’s handiwork. He would kneel and beg in the kitchen and bathroom. He promised to do a DNA test to know if the child was truly his own, but he didn’t do it. He started sending people to beg her. But she decided to stop talking to him.”
Asked about the infidelity accusation, Bolatito debunked the allegation, saying her sister never had any relationship out of wedlock, as the said relationship between Ronke and the manager in question was just professional.
She also punched holes into Shonde's claims that he bought two cars for his late wife, saying that too was false.
“She has been struggling to raise N70,000 to change the gearbox of her car. My sister would sometimes ask me for money for her children’s school fees and other things, but he (Lekan) would check her account and ask who sent the money and they would start fighting over it.
Since we lost our brother, the two of us became close and we promised to stay together to take care of our mum. But now, see what he has done to our family,” she concluded.
Another family member added that when Ronke refused to take any action on the child born out of wedlock, her husband checked her phones to know if she was dating another person in retaliation, and was always monitoring her.
“He would pick her phone and would query her on numbers not in her contact, he would ask who it was and why he was calling. Before she got her job, whenever she was going for an interview, he would commission a motorcyclist to trail her and check if she actually went for the interview or not.
If she told him she was going to see a friend, she would call that friend some minutes later and said he could not reach his wife on her mobile phone and would like to talk to her through the friend’s phone, just to check if she was there.
At another time, he started waiting for her at the gate at night to see who would drop her at the gate.
It got to a point that he sent friendship request to all her male friends on Facebook and got their contacts and started calling them and harassing them. The man is insecure and jealous.
He was always concerned about his age as his friends mocked him that he was too old for the 36-year-old woman and may not be able to satisfy her in bed.
Ronke was a loving person. The only thing that mattered to her was her family and her children. Even when things were bad, she would call her sister to borrow money to pay rent or pay the children’s school fees.”
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Nobody: 4:00pm On May 11, 2016|
10 points is it premier league?
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Built2last: 4:02pm On May 11, 2016|
na devil cause am...thats the next statement
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by neocortex: 4:02pm On May 11, 2016|
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by psalmistkakah(m): 4:03pm On May 11, 2016|
May God help us...Amen
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Nairadays: 4:03pm On May 11, 2016|
Say No To Domestic Violence.
It's just sad that the Mother of this lady victim(Ronke) has lost 2 children out of 3 with only 1 surviving.
May we never bury any of our children in Jesus Glorious Name. AMEN.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 11, 2016|
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by hazyfm: 4:04pm On May 11, 2016|
Watching in 3D
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by HarkymTheOracle(m): 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
Even a mad man knows this man is lying!!
Hang him already..
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by EbonyCy(f): 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by segebase(m): 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
sure 10 odds? I c
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Mamatee07: 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
So the bastard making noise about his wife supposedly cheating was even cheating on his wife and impregnated another woman
Cheats are always the first to rant about cheating they always think everyone is like them
Amazing how he left out the fact the he committed adultery and impregnated another woman
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by SamuelAnyawu(m): 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by greatseed: 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
Hmmm! Am i 1st 2comment! This story sha...
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Eneze1(f): 4:05pm On May 11, 2016|
If he's guilty he should face the cosequence of his action
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by realborn(m): 4:07pm On May 11, 2016|
Please prevent and guide me against any evil that will tear my family into shreds like the unfortunate Shonde's.
Forgive all iniquities that may lead to this uncontrollable state of family destruction.
Grant me the wisdom to be a better husband and lover to my wife.
May we men learn to run when she is vexed with a venom.
Who am I to judge. Good night Ronke. Lekan, I pray you find peace. May your children find new foster parents better than you too
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by allanphash7(m): 4:07pm On May 11, 2016|
i can never trust or believe woman
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Dollyak(f): 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
So a pastor begged her to stay in a violent relationship. Nigerian pastors needs serious change of orientation regarding Divorce and marriage abuse.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by LikeJesus: 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
Age differences probably led to the man's insecurity. Not all men can handle and marry a much younger woman without issues...JEALOUSY. Ladies and gentlemen this should be a lesson to all.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by hazyfm: 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
YOUR COMMENT SHOWS YOU LACK APATHY & DISPLAYS YOUR INSENSITIVITY TO LIFE ISSUES
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Akinaukwa: 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
The worst that happens to a woman is when you marry a possessive, jealous, callous and insincere brute called husband. I knew from onset Lekan cannot claim not to be on the know of what killed the wife. You heard Police were in your house looking for who killed your wife and you bolted into hiding. Am just full of pity for the innocent kids who will forever live with the nightmare of seeing their mother's corpse lying down there. We are waiting for the medical autopsy result. Well Mr. Lekan, your wife is no more alive to contradict your statement or otherwise, but you cant do wrong and get by. Someday, sometime the truth shall be revealed. R.I.P Mrs. Shonde.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by anselm791(m): 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
I hope the young ones are learning something here, stop taking selfies and start developing yourselves.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by iamdynamite(m): 4:08pm On May 11, 2016|
this is not sounding nice at all.............say no to domestic violence............
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by dulux07(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2016|
The police should investigate well n not compromise. I believe the guy is lying
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by balancediet(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2016|
These points neither indict nor vindicat the husband, pls let's have a better proof.
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by allanphash7(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2016|
just love your bitter truth joor
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by IamEdun: 4:09pm On May 11, 2016|
To hearken is better than sacrifice
No no no to domestic violence
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by abbey621(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2016|
Everyone is to blame here:
1. The husband who probably murdered the wife.
2. The wife who should have packed out and file for a divorce.
3. The pastor that pleaded on behalf of the husband
4. The mother that watched her daughter continuously get battered
5. The sister that should have paid boyz to deal with the man severely
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|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by guywitzerogal(m): 4:10pm On May 11, 2016|
Pls if ur husband s cheating on u Jst call me so we cheat on me too
|Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Herapal(m): 4:11pm On May 11, 2016|
The Lagos Boy!
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