This is a little but serious dilemma, a friend is currently facing. He requested for my advice and I felt I could come here to get tips before I meet him on Sunday when we are chanced to hangout.

It goes thus...

He had this presumed soulmate back then in school and they dated for 3years. They both studied computer engineering, graduated together and went to MIIT, (whatever that means). When they finished the program, the guy got job first with this IT firm in PH and they were forced to separate due to distance...the lady in question had to get married with the guy's consent and later divorced in October 2015. My formed got married December 2015, but did told me that he still crush on his ex.

Things got a bit complicated when he bumped on his ex at his office, where she came for an interview on March this year and the fire seems to have been kindled. He tried to avoid her but this week Monday, she was to be reporting to my friends immediate boss. My guy closes late, about 7pm daily, so as to prepare for the next day's job and it means, his ex must report to his boss through him and sometimes, only very few people are left in the building when she's to submit her report.

It got serious this Thursday, when they where alone in the office and she was, I quote, "extremely hot"..at least, that is what he said.(remember he still crushes on her). He couldn't help but caress and kiss her and according to him, he is devastated he had to do that. Today, his ex made advances again...he is confused as he is weak when she comes around...

(Pardon the cut-and-joined explanation) hoping you understand the crux.

Now, I am to advise him on Sunday, what should I say? I'll still pray about it though...

Simple... He should crush the feelings before it crashes his marriage.

He should remember the stability of his home rests on his shoulders now. He should allow the past to remain bygone. I dont want to hear tomoro how another man used stick to kill his wife because of a side chick. He should reverse the situation. If it were his wife how would he feel to even hear that an ex kissed her.

And i have this feeling that the ex came to that office because of him. It was no coincidence.

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You better don't let your crush Crush you