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Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by gozmok1(m): 10:09pm On May 22, 2016
what sort of question is this


you should rather ask weather it is okay to start arm robbery while in school












anyway alert me make i alert MR SHERIFFAT IF NDA START AGAIN
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Integrityfarms(m): 10:14pm On May 22, 2016
dollyjoy:
But you are doing it oocheesy
Wish to do it with you!
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by freshdude99(m): 10:17pm On May 22, 2016
ireneony:
u dis guy undecided u too spoil grin
Baby.... kiss
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Ladanboso: 10:19pm On May 22, 2016
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Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Yuneehk(f): 10:19pm On May 22, 2016
Acidosis:
Sex between 2 unmarried individuals can never be right.


It is IMMORAL, & SINFUL.
You're right! I'll assume you don't do this immoral and sinful thing then

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Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by holywota: 10:21pm On May 22, 2016
idiotic and stupid question,even outside campus is it right,mtshw ndi mmadu ana ekwugheri
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by ireneony(f): 10:21pm On May 22, 2016
freshdude99:

Baby.... kiss
cheesy
But wait oo
What made you leave such comment abt my sis on my insta ..i'm not happy oo
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by sam2dok2020: 10:21pm On May 22, 2016
I think you should be more concern with were u will go to if God calls u today, repent, no one knows tomorrow.
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Nasiruddeen(m): 10:35pm On May 22, 2016
Bad

Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by freshdude99(m): 10:36pm On May 22, 2016
ireneony:
cheesy
But wait oo
What made you leave such comment abt my sis on my insta ..i'm not happy oo
Awww cry
Sowi bout dat, I think she was tryna compete wit u, whose sexist and hottest.
But u nailed it.
U don't wanna hit ma watsapp ryt? Am not happy too wink
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by stevups(m): 10:40pm On May 22, 2016
I dated my course mate in my 200L, a day to our exams she called and told me that " i know you are a good boy but i will make you my best friend". And had spent a lot for her, both time and money. I just discovered that with all efforts i put in to the examination for that period i could not score more than average. To me, it's disractive. But any student that can handle it should go ahead.
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by ireneony(f): 10:40pm On May 22, 2016
freshdude99:

Awww cry
Sowi bout dat, I think she was tryna compete wit u, whose sexist and hottest.
But u nailed it.
U don't wanna hit ma watsapp ryt? Am not happy too wink
whatsapp? When was that?
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by stevups(m): 10:42pm On May 22, 2016
I dated my course mate in my 200L, a day to our exams she called and told me that " i know you are a good boy but i will make you my best friend". And had spent a lot for her, both time and money. I just discovered that with all efforts i put in to the examination for that period i could not score more than average. To me, it's disractive.
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by favouryemmy: 10:48pm On May 22, 2016
It's highly immoral going into any sexual relationship outside marriage. Besides I've also heard of very brilliant chaps having series of carry-overs because they got engaged in such
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by freshdude99(m): 10:54pm On May 22, 2016
ireneony:
whatsapp? When was that?
smiley
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by ireneony(f): 10:55pm On May 22, 2016
freshdude99:

Just did again, check ur mention
ok done!
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Taryur3(m): 10:56pm On May 22, 2016
Yes it is good
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by naijaboiy: 11:03pm On May 22, 2016
I see nothing bad in it.

Most of the people condemning I are worse off. undecided
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Maski87: 11:18pm On May 22, 2016
Very stupid question
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Zizu99: 12:18am On May 23, 2016
Someone wrote this and you will like it. I welcome your comments. Happy reading.

Is there any benefit in male virginity?

Sir, I have a question to ask you about male virginity. I have observed that female virginity is accorded more attention or better put, more importance than that of males. We have heard countless reasons why a female must maintain and keep her virginity. Now my question is, what does a boy, man, or guy benefit from being chaste? Would your wife appreciate it when you finally tie the knot? Needless to say I am one of them. Thanks.

My RESPONSE:
Male virginity, I love this. I was a twenty-seven-year-old virgin when I got married. My wife was also a virgin. Does virginity, whether male or female, accord benefits? Yes. Let me share one. On my wedding night, I had sex for the first time. It was November 4, 2000. That night, I had nothing to compare the experience with. I couldn't say it was better than sex with Ngozi, or the same as sex with Ruth, or any other lady in the world. No conflict existed in my mind. My wife couldn’t compare me with some dude or playboy.

That night with Tonye, my one and only wife, was great sex not better sex and I didn’t have to compare our sex life with various pornography styles. This is the beauty of virginity––a clean heart and a clean mind. We are having even better sex after fifteen years of practise with one another and our bed, by God’s grace, remains undefiled. ( Yes! Fifteen years anniversary celebration is a few days time!!!)

My brother, There was no intruder into our temples before we consummated our marriage, and there has been none ever since. Like Adam and Eve, we have been naked and not ashamed.

This does not mean I didn't have my struggles with sex. I got born again at sixteen, attended university of Benin, was a leader on campus, and I had my fair share of exposures to very fine babes (in and out of church fellowships). I had narrow escapes and was only saved by grace and mercies of God. I struggled with masturbation, until Christ gave me victory. I battled with lust and thoughts of evil. I confronted fatal attractions and sometimes, I lost some battles.

Nevertheless, Christ gave me victory. He taught me the principles of sexual purity. I learnt the path and the power of God. Above all, I learnt, "NEVER TEMPT TEMPTATION."

But hear me, If guys are supposed to be sex experts on their wedding nights, who would they have practised with? If ladies are supposed to be virgins on their wedding nights, who gave practice sessions to the guys? If guys seek to marry only virgins, who will marry the ladies they had practised with earlier? The answers to these questions should guide the way we relate with each other. Therefore, young guy, please do not leave virginity to the ladies alone. Please, defend and keep your virginity.

Today, I give you a charge. Rise up to be a true man. Defend "our little" sister around you. Don't take advantage of her. If she seduces you, be a Joseph. If she bathes naked, tell her your name is not David. If she allures you like Delilah, tell her that a greater than Samson lives in you. My friend, no more excuses. Our ladies are tired of broken men with empty trousers!

Thanks for sharing. Tag your friends on this post, and help spread this word.

@War against pre_marital Sex

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Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Stanleywaxy(m): 1:14am On May 23, 2016
deriksneh:
that's were marriage plans begin
Are you sure about what you just said ?
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Stanleywaxy(m): 1:24am On May 23, 2016
Actually , it's bad ... Whether I've been a Victim/Or not ... It's still a sin .
Sometimes I do think people forget that there's still something like the 10 commandments
We give silly reasons for doing whatever we do not knowing we've offended God himself .
Actually , it shouldn't be encouraged .
Sex is meant for Married couples only .
I rest my Case √
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by piagetskinner(m): 1:53am On May 23, 2016
Nice piece op.. ..although I have a little regret of not going into any relationship through my staying school undecided
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by vinceton: 2:33am On May 23, 2016
maxit2:
No it's not right.

BUT, i did it

AND i will do it again.

cheesy cheesy
pls stop doing it for ur own interest
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by calcal: 2:45am On May 23, 2016
Within 5 years I nagged almost 100, good old days.
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Miscellaneous(m): 4:20am On May 23, 2016
Baba, use eye gum your book ooo. Girls are like 8credit load in school (I.e they can crush your g.p.a)
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by JuanDeDios: 5:07am On May 23, 2016
Acidosis:
Sex between 2 unmarried individuals can never be right.


It is IMMORAL, & SINFUL.
Where is that in the Bible?
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by kunlesuccess(m): 6:03am On May 23, 2016
evansjeff:
What kind of nonsense question is this? And who brought this to front page today Sunday when there are sound posts languishing at the religion session, asking questions you already have answers to, campus or no campus, is premarital sex right morally and religiously? Ok YES, since that is what you want to hear.

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL...

DATE : MONDAY 23 MAY 2016

THEME : DO YOU LOVE GOD?

Memorise :

So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.
John 21:15

Read : Deuteronomy 6:4-7

4 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD:

5 And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

Message

In today's Bible reading, Jesus asked a pointed question from Simon Peter, "lovest thou me more than these?" Jesus was not in doubt whether Peter loved Him; He was more interested in knowing the level Peter's commitment to Him when compared to other worldly things. Many truely love God, but they are more committed to other things like their profession, business, means of livelihood, fashion, sports, entertainment, food and delicacies, friends and family, social engagement, etc. Whenever God's demand clashes with their interests, they will surely go for their interests. When the chips are down, God must play the second fiddle to the true love of their lives. In this respect, on Psalms 42:1, David says

"AS the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God."

In the above passage, the Bible recorded the Psalmist speaking of his yearning for God. He compares his yearning for God to the extreme teaching of a dehydrated deer, whose need for water is shown by its painting. We know the hart or deer does not pant except when it is being chased by hunter or when it is highly dehydrated. Do you know that for many people, it is only when they are being hunted by the devil or situations of life that they remember God? When everything else is in place: the store is filled with rich varieties of food, the bank account is bubbling, the contracts are coming, the family members are well and making process and ministry is moving on; the need to search for God never arises in the hearts of many. But when there is trouble: a child is sick, there is no food to eat, the business is experiencing dryness and there are several challenges in the ministry; then suddenly the one at the receiving end would remember that he or she has a God. If you seek God only when you are hunted, you are a God-user and not a God-lover. You can be sure God know the difference and He will deal with His seekers according. John 21:15 says :

"So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs."

It is possible that a pursue God, not because you are in trouble but because you love him. Anything can happen when you are in love. Songs of Solomon 2:5 says it is even possible to become sick because of love. If you have an intense love for God, you will go to any length for Him. God has created us to be capable of loving one another, particularly Him. If you find it difficult to truely love God, it is because something else or someone else has stolen your love. Material things have stolen the hearts ur many people from God. If you have lost your first love- the original quality of love once expressed towards Him when you first knew the Lord, then ask Him to help you recover it. Are you panting after God because you are hunted or because of love? If love drives you to God, love will drive Him to you in return and He will give Himself to you without reservation. Do you love God more than anything in this world?

Prayer Point :

Father, let my love for You grow stronger, and stronger, all the days of my life.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 1 Chronicles 16:8-18:17 and Proverbs 28:14-25

AUTHOR : Pst E. A ADEBOYE

HYMN 4: TAKE MY LIFE AND LET IT BE

1. Take my life, and let it be
Consecrated, Lord, to Thee;
Take my moments and my days,
Let them flow in ceaseless praise,
Let them flow in ceaseless praise.

2. Take my hands, and let them move
At the impulse of Thy love;
Take my feet and let them be
Swift and beautiful for Thee,
Swift and beautiful for Thee.

3. Take my voice, and let me sing
Always, only, for my King;
Take my lips, and let them be
Filled with messages from Thee,
Filled with messages from Thee.

4. Take my silver and my gold;
Not a mite would I withhold;
Take my intellect, and use
Every power as Thou shalt choose,
Every power as Thou shalt choose.

5. Take my will, and make it Thine;
It shall be no longer mine.
Take my heart; it is Thine own;
It shall be Thy royal throne,
It shall be Thy royal throne.

6. Take my love; my Lord, I pour
At Thy feet its treasure-store.
Take myself, and I will be
Ever, only, all for Thee,
Ever, only, all for Thee.

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Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by Nobody: 6:24am On May 23, 2016
If dem no enter relationship for campus, na your house you wan make dem come enter the relationship? This is the kind unrealistic expectations wey dey kill black people. You put young adults wey their blood dey boil pack full one place, you dey ask whether it is right for people to get into relationships for campus...mtcheww anuofia asking quetion.
Re: Students Going Into Relationships On Campus, Do Or Don’t? by doctorpromise(m): 6:24am On May 23, 2016
fornication is a sin please desist from it

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