I have been having this issue since I met my girlfriend.
She has been complaining about my visits to Nairaland.
I don't know what to do and am afraid this going to affect the relationship.

choose one ur girl or nairaland

dump the babe jor

NL is not the issue here, there is an obvious lack of trust in the relationship and this needs to be addressed because today maybe NL tomorrow facebook, yahoo, internet or oh don't text your friends again. So my guy sort out the underlying problem

That is absolute bullshit!!! Don't let a Girl control you, now it's nairaland later she'll ask you to stop browsing!!!

insecurity!

Maybe she has an account here and might have said something she wouldn't want u to read.

kunmibola:

I have been having this issue since i met my girlfriend. She has been complaining about my visits to Nairaland. I don't know what 2 do and am afraid this goin 2 affect d relationship.

This is just pathetic, what nairaland got to do with the relationship you have with your girlfriend,

next time it will be my GF has been complaining that she dont like the look of my nose, she wants me to have nose plastic surgey like MJ, booo hooo,     what do i do, please dude , be a man, geez some people

its possible they both met here on NL, and the poor babe is feeling insecure of her guy being snatched by her likes

camelot:

its possible they both met here on NL, and the poor babe is feeling insecure of her guy being snatched by her likes

or as the adage goes
Eni ti a fe ni ile ijo, iran lo ma wo lo,

Ibkaye: u're bad oo!

Lmao!

Eni ti a fe ni ile ijo, iran lo ma wo lo,
what do you mean

flog the babe wel wel

kunmibola:

I have been having this issue since i met my girlfriend. She has been complaining about my visits to Nairaland. I don't know what 2 do and am afraid this goin 2 affect d relationship.

Reasons?

So your gf now controls your life.
I hate ultimatums

chiejik:

Eni ti a fe ni ile ijo, iran lo ma wo lo,
what do you mean

ha ha ha
it translates as
"The woman you meet at the nightclub/dance hall, you end up losing to someone who can dance better than u"
the gal meet the poster on NL and now she is allegedly scared of losing him to someone else on NL
kapish?

ok hahahahahaha i now understand

k

debest i hail u with dat adage

poster,

learn to type FASTER. or type THE FASTEST!

learn to type and listen and talk at the same time

LEARN TO TYPE WITHOUT LOOKING AT YOUR SCREEN AND KEYBOARD AND TO LOOK ONLY AT YOUR GF!

Type when u have time and dont type when you dont have time. In one day, U are atleast to have 5 secs every 20 mins free so post during the 5 secs free time!

camelot:

debest i hail u with dat adage

thx so do i get a for my "adage" skills?

To be sincere, i guess she's just afraid of losing me. She also visits NL and i think her fear is that i might end up being 'snatched' by NLgirls.

To be sincere, i guess she's just afraid of losing me. She also visits NL and i think her fear is that i might end up being 'snatched' by NLgirls.


WHAT ARE YOU FEELING LIKE

I think she should have been complaining if you were visiting facebook. You open your page only to discover numerous mails from people you dont even know. I have quitted facebook long ago.

I've been going through the same thing for over one year now and I hide under the cloak to stay on nairaland . Mine visits blogs, facebook, nairaland and chats but doesn't want me to do the same. If you will take my advice, nairaland is not worth your relationship. If she doesn't feel comfortable about it, why not give way to her wishes. Its not as if she is asking you to quit your job or change religion. If you can, hide your ID  and hang out here for its better and cheaper than hanging out in bars and clubs; clear up your computers history after each session in case she visits suddenly and you will be fine.

If ur gf cn say or gv out such damn order to u,imagine hw u gonna make it wtout stooping so low to ur wife in future.
Thats one of d outcome of showing a gf dat shes so important to u. Countinue wt ur nairaland abeg,unles u wnt d asshole to toy wt u. BE A MAN

If ur gf cn say or gv out such damn order to u,imagine hw u gonna make it wtout stooping so low to ur wife in future.
Thats one of d outcome of showing a gf dat shes so important to u. Countinue wt ur nairaland abeg,unles u wnt d asshole to toy wt u. BE A MAN

chidyke77:

If your gf cn say or gv out such damn order to u,imagine hw u gonna make it wtout stooping so low to your wife in future.
Thats one of d outcome of showing a gf dat shes so important to u. Countinue wt your nairaland abeg,unles u wnt d asshole to toy wt u. BE A MAN

Its not about being a man, its more like being mature. If you want to show your manhood, head to Afghanistan or Sudan. She is not asking him for his kidney, relationship is about adjustments. Will you expect her to make adjustments for you when you refuse to adjust for her?. may be she doesn't want him here because he spends too much time here or because some of these lady chimp monks here send him private mails. I receive those too and no woman feels comfortable when they see their man receive them.