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Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by kaziblake(f): 1:34pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu:That your business...As for me my my chi nobody will separate us |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by TheArchangel(f): 1:34pm On May 26, 2016 |
kaziblake:Come on. We are in the real world here. This is not telemundo. Real love or true love or whatever is fostered by many factors which includes and not limits to supports from people who cares about you, most importantly parents; excepts they are bunch of nutjobs. 4 Likes |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:36pm On May 26, 2016 |
Nature129: Don't blame him...blame the idiotic girl that dates a man for over a decade |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by waternogetemeny: 1:36pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu: This is serious. They should pack up the language and start speaking Igbo, maybe it will help them to appreciate themselves better. 1 Like |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Nature129(m): 1:36pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu: Onye nsogbu!!! Your moniker is disgusting You are indeed a trouble maker |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by birdman(m): 1:37pm On May 26, 2016 |
lovingT: Maybe. But its better to lose 5 years than to lose 6 years, or 10 years. Walk away, for your own sanity |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:37pm On May 26, 2016 |
TheArchangel: You see the effect if watching too much telemundo on these girls True love ..in Africa I laugh in okutipupa |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:39pm On May 26, 2016 |
Nature129: There is no nsogbu about this Am I not stating the facts |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:39pm On May 26, 2016 |
waternogetemeny: I will put that as a recommendation |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by TheArchangel(f): 1:43pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu:Oh yeah!!! When I read their naive write-ups I laugh. I don't want to spend my productive and precious time learning about any culture, language or cuisines. I have masters and PhD to acquire abeg. 4 Likes |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by steppin: 1:45pm On May 26, 2016 |
dragonking2:Fellow Nigerians have dealt with us na. Our parents are now afraid of giving their support. 9 Likes |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by steveben7(m): 1:46pm On May 26, 2016 |
richyblink1: For d fact dat your own marriage works out doesn't mean every other will wrk out same way. I had same issue wen I wanted to marry a edo lady I ws adamant at first buh wen I traveled to d east and came bk I found out d edo lady wil nt be able to cope, so my advice is if she can she shuld jus move on 1 Like |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:47pm On May 26, 2016 |
TheArchangel: Gbam ....i gave up on them |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 1:50pm On May 26, 2016 |
legalspices: Hope u can now take the tons of advice available now dear |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by blessedqueen(f): 1:51pm On May 26, 2016 |
tomzman: I got thinking too |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by ayusco85(m): 1:53pm On May 26, 2016 |
CruellaDeville: Wow. What a story. Hw did u survived. That was cruel of him. |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by skillzbae(f): 1:58pm On May 26, 2016 |
Have a heart to heart talk with ur man, be sure he really want this to work as much as u do, I was in ur shoe many years ago, I'm a Yoruba married to an akwa ibom, his parent wanted him to marry Frm dre place bt he was not interested, b4 marriage, I used to av problems with his mum nd sisters, d dad nd brother didn't av any problem, bt with time, every one become happy, nw, my mother in law is my best friend, we gist nd drive to market together. You can make dem love u, dre might b a reason in d past for dre behaviour 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Intrepid01(m): 1:59pm On May 26, 2016 |
Chinaimporter: I will try not to insult you in any way cos you actually need a serious lecture more than bashing. It is evident that you are from an insecured clan which is written all over you. Is it not so rude and demeaning that you think the Igbo blood is superior to that of other blood? I would not address you on behalf of just the Yoruba race; cos we have evolved to know that no race is superior to another race. We have moved up the ladder of evolution to know that individual are rather not genetically different but for the environment and experiences that have fashioned them in to different personalities. It is evident that the Igbos are still far below down the ladder of evolution, for a HUMAN BEING supposedly with his senses intact to have spoo what you wrote up there. I tell you it is enough for the world to give up on you, cos you are definitely a loss. Despite the fact that your Dad was kind enough to dilute your blood to bring your generation up to speed on the ladder of evolution, it is evident that the ever stubborn, strong-headed backward genes of his were still dominant. My dear friend if what you have written up there actually represent your views, my dear you had better go back to your mother's womb so you could be born again, cos this one is a full blown failure already. OMG!!! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Nobody: 1:59pm On May 26, 2016 |
Jaygrl:congrats dear but pray the Yoruba guy don't leave you and Marry another woman, they are very polygamous in nature, I can't marry that tribe. 5 Likes |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 2:02pm On May 26, 2016 |
Vickyydera: They won't listen |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Ewiss(f): 2:03pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu: U must be a very stupid guy here n very tribalist. Instead of you to say Igbos r very tribalist u r saying a different thing altogether. Grow up mr igbo man n get some sense into urself 3 Likes |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Nobody: 2:04pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu:worst part if the guy should mistakenly die ,the family will join hand and make the wife life miserable , its better to marry from your tribe. 1 Like |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IGLE25(m): 2:05pm On May 26, 2016 |
Take your time to read what I wrote on there... Right from the very start of the relationship her parents were not in support of relationship but later the mother succumb. She told me that she has to go with her father opinion because of consequences... Read and digest before quoting me.. Thanks for Quoting Anyways... |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by raziboi(m): 2:08pm On May 26, 2016 |
legalspices: my sister if ur man is ready go ahead and marry him forget de parents!! |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Twinkle004(f): 2:12pm On May 26, 2016 |
I will advice u 2 have patient & also pray earnestly, if possible seek counsel from those that are spirit filled than u in christ because in marriage u don't only marry d man but with his whole family. There is also an adage that says "u can marry a bad man but don't ever try having a bad husband in laws"..if is God's will he wl change their mind-set...But pls am begging u in name of God, seek 4 spiritual counsels..My parents are a living witness of ur. Circumstances & it wasn't funny..wish d best |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by kaffy4tope(m): 2:13pm On May 26, 2016 |
legalspices: My sister....werin u dey find for omo Ibo side? Biafran? Name checkers come talk to our sister oo lol. |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by TheArchangel(f): 2:18pm On May 26, 2016 |
kaffy4tope:Name checkers won't tell her to back off rather they will spend their time hounding on Igbos for being " tribalistic". What the heck. Na by force. |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by toprealman: 2:19pm On May 26, 2016 |
legalspices:from your second paragraph, you are not ready yet. |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 2:23pm On May 26, 2016 |
Vickyydera: That's what they don't know |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by richyblink1(m): 2:23pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu: Since you are Igbo, let me make it easier for you. Ask what it means for an Anambra man to marry outside his town, not to talk of marrying outside his state and tribe. Are you forgetting this slogan,"mma anyi siri" |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by Nobody: 2:27pm On May 26, 2016 |
IkpuMmadu:you married outside East and you are here discouraging inter tribal marriage. isn't that weird? |
Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by IkpuMmadu: 2:27pm On May 26, 2016 |
raziboi: Be careful for what you wish What if your kids forget you in future |
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