That feeling in the pit of your stomach when you realize the guy you’ve been dating and are crazy about is… not like any of the other guys you’ve dated before. And at first you can’t put your finger on it, there’s just something… different… off… not quite right. And then a friend of yours casually mentions, “Do you think he’s gay? ‘Cause he kinda seems gay to me.” And your whole world comes crashing down around you and you feel like the world’s biggest idiot for not having noticed the signs yourself.
To be sure this never happens to you (again) here are 14 signs that most likely mean your boyfriend is straight-up gay:
1.He Stares at Other Dudes;Maybe you’ve caught him looking at other guys but you’ve shrugged it off assuming he was just admiring their leather jacket or haircut but really he’s admiring something all-together different.
2.His Sexual Fantasies are a Little Freaky;It’s fun and healthy to share your sexual fantasies with one another, but have you noticed that he gets turned on by scenarios where the two of you are sexually involved with another man?
3.He’s Flirtatious With Other Guys.
4.He Likes When You Play With His A** in Bed;If your boyfriend likes it when you play with his ass (let alone use your Love Machine on him) this is a pretty good indicator that he may enjoy the real thing even better.
5.Birds of a Feather Stay in the Closet;if he has male friends that act gay or are secretely gay...then he is.
6.He Likes Getting Attention from Other Guys.
7.He’s In to Gay Porn.
8.He’s Giving Expensive Gifts to Some Guy.
9.He’s Into Non-Verbal Communication…. Just Not with You;Do you ever walk into the room and suddenly your boyfriend and his “friend” suddenly get quiet and when you ask what they were talking about they say “nothing?” Do you notice your BF gazing at one of his friends a bit too long or perhaps there is an odd touch that lasts waaaaay too long?
10.He Gets Really Upset if the Topic of Homosexuality Even Comes Up.
11.He Crashes at His Friend’s Place A Lot.
12.He’s Not Very Interested in Having Sex with You.
13.He’s on the Phone Constantly with a Guy Friend from Work;Is your man, like, constantly on the phone with some male coworker that you’ve never met? Does he actually giggle during these conversations? Does each conversation go on for an hour or more? If so, this is a sure sign your boyfriend might actually be gay, because straight men simply do not do this. Ever.
14.He Has More Personal Hygiene Products Than You;This may seem stereotypical but in my experience it is absolutely true. The majority of gay men we have had the pleasure of knowing spend a lot of time showering, moisturizing, shaving, waxing, self-tanning and on and on. Many straight men will take pleasure in making sure they’re clean and look good, but they may have 5 products when a gay man may have 19