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15 Visible Signs To Know That Your Friends Are Not Actually Your Friends by Dhegwill(m): 7:06am On Jun 02, 2016
Friends are there for us when we need them and we’re there for them. Good friends are always there for us and bring out the best in us. On the other hand, sometimes you find out that a friend isn’t a friend. Perhaps they were just taking advantage of you or taking a service you provided. Once they didn’t need it anymore, they revealed their true colors. It is extremely important to choose your friends wisely, and not just because they provide you a service True friends should be lively, supportive, uplifting, and bring out the best in you. They should appreciate the real you and love your personality. And you should provide that same support as well. 1. Backbiting This one is common among fake friends. Backbiting is saying nasty things about someone in their absence. True friends don’t wait until you leave before they tell you your weaknesses and encourage you to work on them. Backbiting is an obvious sign that that your so-called friend is not really your friend. There is a saying that it’s only a genuine friend that can tell his/her friend that their mouth smells horribly.. 2. Disregard Ever been in a situation, let’s say in a university, where you and your friend studied, did all the assignments, and worked on all the projects together? Then, after the course is over, did the person disregard your phone calls and refuse to stay in touch? This is a big shocker, but it happens. People like that are advantage takers; they are friends so they can study with you, gain from you, and diss you afterwards and act like they never knew you. 3. Not Wishing You The Best True friends will always wish you the best in your work, home, family, and life in general. This is because true friends feel happy when you achieve a milestone or reach a goal. If someone’s jealous or angry because you put your own needs first and accomplished your goal, watch out: that is not a true friend. 4. Setting You Up This does not happen a lot but could happen occasionally. It is definitely frustrating and heartbreaking when you find out that the person that set you up is an old friend. If this ever happens, it definitely means that the person is not a true friend. 5. Demotivating/Discouraging You If a friend or companion is demotivating you or discouraging you from doing something good, helpful, or useful, it could be because they fear you succeeding and getting ahead of them. It might not be personal – they could just be negative about life in general. But it could indicate that they don’t want the best for you and do not qualify as true friends. 6. Not Missing You Read more at: http://www.naijaviewz.com/2016/06/15-visible-signs-to-know-that-your.html Copyright © Naijaviewz...why..copying...contents..eh.?..naijaviewz..admin...says..no..copy..copy..admin..+2348117861920! hahaha

Re: 15 Visible Signs To Know That Your Friends Are Not Actually Your Friends by Nobody: 7:23am On Jun 02, 2016
It is well...
Re: 15 Visible Signs To Know That Your Friends Are Not Actually Your Friends by theEYe21(f): 8:16am On Jun 02, 2016
Visible signs: when your friend is only friend because of the benefits and nothing else.

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