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What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by davtech007(m): 7:51am On Aug 27, 2009
Hey NLrs what would you do if suddenly bust into your ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend way? Would your mind skip, is that day going to be a bad day for you, is it going to be the worst night mare ever, infact how are you going to feel. NLrs lets say something. Every one is welcome to say anything.
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by AIRMARSHA: 7:55am On Aug 27, 2009
what a question anyway i will say hi for old time seek.
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by 190: 7:58am On Aug 27, 2009
bust in2 a sudden laff! tongue tongue
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by davtech007(m): 8:16am On Aug 27, 2009
@190 why would you start laughing
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by posakosa(m): 8:18am On Aug 27, 2009
bring out my .38 caliber and  grin when im done.  angry angry angry
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by davtech007(m): 8:23am On Aug 27, 2009
@posakosa what do you mean by that
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by ThoniaSlim(f): 8:33am On Aug 27, 2009
Now what's the big deal about seeing an ex?

Say hi and go my way!
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by 190: 8:52am On Aug 27, 2009
thonia sef de talk
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by posakosa(m): 9:09am On Aug 27, 2009
davtech007:

@posakosa what do you mean by that

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Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by hbabe(f): 10:10am On Aug 27, 2009
It depends on how the break up was. I may say hi or simply ignore him.
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MoneyRule(m): 11:35am On Aug 27, 2009
Say hi, do a little chit-chat and disappear.
Break-up isn't murder.
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 27, 2009
If I run into my ex, I'll hit my head on the wall, then grab a stick nearby and hit his head as well. Then I'll grab him on d neck and kiss him till we are almost doing it right there on the street. Then I'll give him another slap and walk away!!

What kind of nonsense question is that? What am I supposed to do before, if not say hi and go my way? angry
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by mecussey(m): 1:36pm On Aug 27, 2009
If you ever break up with a woman and then run into her
later (especially when she is already dating another man, ), it
can be a very difficult and embarrassing situation for both of
you,

In fact, you will probably find it very difficult to
be nice and polite to her,

But you've got to try.

Yes, I know how tempting it is to make "smart-ass" or
sarcastic comments and remarks.

I know how tempting it is to glare at the "other guy"
defensively.

I know how tempting it is to have feelings of revenge,
especially if you're been dumped.

Or, if you're still in love with your ex, I know how
tempting it is to beg her to get back together with you.

Or to keep staring at her without knowing what to say.

But none of this childish behaviour will bring you
ANY good. It won't impress your ex or make her have more
respect for you, and it certainly won't help you win her back.

Here's my advice on how to deal with run-in encounters
with an ex-girlfriend:

1) If you have no intention of getting back together,
then just remain calm and polite during your BRIEF conversation
with her, and excuse yourself at the earliest moment. (So neither
of you will suddenly feel jealous or attraction again.)

2) Or, if you DO want to get her back, then act calm
and CONFIDENT, and talk to her as if you guys never went out
in the first place.

Do NOT mention the past relationship.

Do NOT try to "impress" her.

Do NOT beg her to come back.

Instead, just have a CASUAL conversation with her -
the same kind of conversation you would have with ANY woman
you meet. Smile and RELAX - even if you're burning inside.

Tease her a little and see if her responses are
positive. If they are, then flirt just a tiny bit, all
without asking to get back. Then tell her you'll talk to
her at another time and excuse yourself. Leave and walk
tall on the way out.

If you're with another girl, then feel free to
introduce her to your ex - WITHOUT telling your ex you're
dating her. Let your ex GUESS if you've moved on with your
life. Let her miss you. (In this scenario, do not flirt with
your ex, as it would be insulting to the other girl, )

Remember, guys, self-control is ESSENTIAL to
ANY area of life - including dating.

So have self-control and play it cool when you run
into your ex - it may help you win her back!
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by samix(m): 2:11pm On Aug 27, 2009
mecussey:

If you ever break up with a woman and then run into her
later (especially when she is already dating another man, ), it
can be a very difficult and embarrassing situation for both of
you,


this looks like clear plaigarism bro
Re: What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by r231(m): 2:34pm On Aug 27, 2009
hug and have a chat den go your own way even ask for her number

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