If you don’t feel like an extrovert or an introvert, this might be why.

1. When you’re out in the world, you’re probably not going to be starting conversations with strangers.

2. Generally, you’re always happy to meet new people, but you’ll probably be uncomfortable if you have to do it without any of your existing friends with you.

OP, where are you?

3. When a topic of interest comes up in conversation, you’re more than happy to talk in great detail about it.

4. But as soon as that’s done, you’ll happily sit listening to the conversation without saying another word.

5. Spending too much time with other people can be exhausting.

6. Your calm, controlled professional self feels like a very different person to the one your friends see.

You know when to speak up, and when to shut up.


You know when to push and when to hold back

7. Asserting yourself is tricky in many situations that you yourself don't understand what or who you are

8. You can often go out and have hours of fun being the life of the party, but suddenly find that your energy has dropped, and all you really want to do is go home.

9. When you see things written about being an introvert, you start to relate…but then discover that you relate to the extrovert ones as well.





And have a mini identity crisis at the moment

10. Small talk is something that annoys you, because while you can do it, there are instances when it feels a bit insincere.

11. Some weekends, you just need to spend some time hanging out on your own.

12. And some of the best weekends of your life have been when you didn’t go home for three days.

13. Thinking before you speak isn’t a problem for you…most of the time.
You still say some dumb things occasionally.

14. You have a tendency to balance out whoever you’re with – if you’re with someone loud, you’ll be quieter. If they’re quiet, you’ll compensate for that.


You’ve mastered how to adapt to different kinds of people.

15. You’re known to be quite intuitive and good at picking up signals that other people can miss.

16.And at other times, you’ll be getting involved in the moment


Even if that does involve dancing.


17.So in the right context, you love attention, but more often than not, you don’t want to be the person everyone is looking at.





19.So if you can’t figure out whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert, it’s because you’re actually an ambivert!

this is so me wow I can relate with this

So this is the word I been looking for to properly describe myself. A blend of introversion and extroversion. Thank you Mr OP

I tried to pick the number that best describes me, but i went on and on, but No 15 is sure of my person

iamdotune:
15. You’re known to be quite intuitive and good at picking up signals that other people can miss.

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This is 100%... I always knew am between introvert and extrovert.. So it finally has a name

Its like you've met me op

*rolls eyes*

No 5 and ten is relatable

No 5 and ten is relatable
lalasticlala abeg help op small

lalasticlala.....abeg epp op....front page tomorrow.....creativity toh pure.....

a lot of people needs to see this...

This is scary! I hate being described by fancy words but this might actually be me. I surrender! abeg na me be this.

hmmm...I can see that I have created a new trend on personality characteristics.

Well done OP

Lalasticala they sleep?

OMG, this is so me, an ambivert.. And for all these while, I've been saying am an "intro-extroverted person"... .

Nice work, op!



Sermwell.
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Etc....


Am back!