Starmummy:
Hi my fruitful mamas,pls I need ur warm n reassuring hug right now. Long post alert.
I started reading dis trend 4rm when mama fine had her surgery (can't recall d page) but I stumbled on d trend when I was frustrated n browsing away my infertility. I made reading dis trend tablets (I read 5-10 pages everyday).I got angry wit myself y I hv 2discover d trend after 4yrs! U mamas enlightened me about my body n hw it works,I learnt so much dat I became a 'Dr' .lolz.I advised a lady on FB on interpretating her hormonal profile d little way I can,but another lady sent me a message, stating she's having breast discharge, veejay dryness,scanty mensuration, I asked her to see a gynea but dat she can try d.o.s.t.I.n.e.x,omega369 n M2tone( tk u sabi mamas),this happened mid January, fast forward to 2wks ago,I received a msg from her dat she's pregnant after 5yrs! I was waowed but I cried,myself having d same symptoms but can't afford to buy them.

I hv a history of infections dat refuse to leave(staph),its so worst dat when changed docs 3times when each time we run a test n dey prescribe,few days after,it still reoccurs! My husband frustrated n refused taking any drugs with me,no test,no unprotected sex! he hardly bd with me but wen he does,he uses protection, he said he's waited enough money already n can't afford another treatment (which is true),no sex atall for d past 7wks,I came across Rocephine on dis trend but its too expensive to get,wat can I do? am running crazy n am losing it, pls,help me

mojisolani:



Can I help with the drugs if you don't mind?

Adebayo4christ:


MY PARENT WERE NEVER AGAINST HER. INFACT, MY Dad SUCCUMB WHEN SHE HEARD ABOUT HER BECAUSE MY PARENTS HAD WARNED US NOT TO MARRY ANYONE FROM IJEBU BUT BECAUSE SHE WAS MY DADS STUDENT IN SECONDARY COUPLE WITH THE FACT THAT MY DAD KNOWS HER PARENT TO BE DEVOUTED MFM MEMBERS. HE AGREED TO IT. I THINK THE ONLY ISSUE SHE HAD THEM WAS DURING THE CLAMOUR FOR WEDDING POSTPONEMENT AND THE DOWRY STUFF.

LuckyG1:


Your Profile is okay. There is nothing wrong anywhere shown by it.

miraclebaby:
check again. Some are out of range

Azaebere:
I'm speechless and thankful at the same time. Mamas and papas, please help me thank mama Beegurl for me, she have gifted me with Xi xian cao and Yi mu cao. Her parents even went to the extent of giving me kola to take home for my children.

Beegurl my sister, God bless you with your utmost heart desire . Heaven must surely respond to your request the way you did to mine in Jesus name Amen

LuckyG thanks for bringing me out from my hidden place,yes your checking on me on gynea/obs thread gave me the courage to ask for help and God have started doing it. God bless you, you are really my friend.

Beegurl am most grateful. I

miraclebaby:
Sometimes we seem to ignore certain acts during courtship thinking the person will change. How did you miss these signs? A nagging wife is very deadly in the family. If you say she doesn't call or visit your parents, I may excuse her of not being outgoing with people; some people are. But my issue with her is complaining when you take care of your parents to the extent of telling you that time will come when you have to choose. Let me say she's lucky you're not me, else I would have chosen that same day and given her my stand.
You've got a lot of talking to do with your wife. Find out what her problem is, if may be she's tired of the marriage or she's just feeling insecure because you already had two kids.
Did you ever join her in those midnight prayers during courtship? If you did, and you don't want to join now then I think you also gave a wrong impression.
I'm not the type to force someone to pray with me, neither should I let anyone do same to me. If I'm not in the mood or I don't want to, no one can force me.
But then, what encourages me to join another is prayer is the attitude and not the way the person prays.

How will your wife be strong MFM member and still nag? How would God answer those prayers? It's a throw off for people who would even like to join in the prayer.

Like I said, you've got a lot of talking with her. If you're tired of the marriage, let her know your reasons so that tomorrow she'll have herself to blame.

You can also talk to someone she respects either a friend or family member so the person can advice her.

But be clear with her on your stand that if she doesn't change, that may be the end of the marriage.

Once again, why do you plead with her when she does a wrong? Is she the breadwinner of the family? Sometimes the way we act towards people give them the upper hand to treat us like trash.

Once more, check yourself if there's something you're not doing right. If she or you feel inferior sometimes.

May God give you the wisdom to direct your home in His way.

ekashiloh:
8 months is early 2 worry dear,u are out range so register with a good gynea 4 follow up and also do follicle tracking 2 roll out pcos.are u on prenatals.cheers.

LuckyG1:


Your Profile is okay. There is nothing wrong anywhere shown by it.

myde16:


Thanks Doc. I was worried about the FSH and LH being out of range.

Ayun:
Mama Ekashiloh I sent u a pm ma,kindly respond.

Wanted to post my hormonal result for clarification but the picture is not loading at all how can I go about?

ekashiloh:
hv u done hormonal profile,hsg.let us know d result so dat we can advise u better.pls play a hot night tonight,it bring bfp faster.welcome n may ur stay be short n Fruitful. E-HUGS.Cheers.

Ayun:
Mama Ekashiloh I sent u a pm ma,kindly respond.

Wanted to post my hormonal result for clarification but the picture is not loading at all how can I go about?

Ayun:
Mama Ekashiloh I sent u a pm ma,kindly respond.

Wanted to post my hormonal result for clarification but the picture is not loading at all how can I go about?

Starmummy:


Iv not done d HSG o,I read here dat it shouldn't be done when u hv infection, and for d profile,my sister I hvnt done it o,I notice milky discharge from my bossom n a very scanty period, tks for being there, u r amazing

Mummytwins42:
Mama's in the house, can anyone recommend a good gynaecologist for me, maybe around sango otaa, or alakuko. Thanks

myde16:


Thanks Doc. I was worried about the FSH and LH being out of range.

ekashiloh:
Dont mind dr Luckyoo,d only way he can explain things is in long post with big Grammer,when ever d ratio of fsh and LH is not 1:1,n d other hormones is perfect,a good dr will advice u 2 track ur follice 2 rule out PCOS,irrespective of cyclic ratios,else such a dr want 2 use ur hormones 4 experiment..dat is y i adviced u 2 meet a good gynea 2 do that 4 u.. dat shd be ur next step.above all pls relax and enjoy ur honeymoon.cheers...

Starmummy:
@Ekashiloh,tk u o,am not d one not giving in for sex o,he said he's afraid of reinfection,dat when eva we hv sex, he will start experiencing itching,we hv used all d sensitive drugs as prescribed and he has low sperm count of 10million,motility 5%active,dats y we keep changing docs o, dey said dey cant treat sperm issue without first eliminating infection,now he doesn't even want to do anything, hw long will I continue this way,when am I going to be free!

LuckyG1:
For some of us that know the process..I don't know if I deactivate my account I can still reactivate it again with same password and username when I choose..

LuckyG1:


I may have to assume you didn't read my post or write-up considering this post of yours... I feel black painted...

LuckyG1:
For some of us that know the process..I don't know if I deactivate my account I can still reactivate it again with same password and username when I choose..